What is the least amount of time that you think you should know someone before you become intimate?  

LetsChillax 52F  
5677 messages
26/12/2018 14h44
What is the least amount of time that you think you should know someone before you become intimate?

Not at all, I like em strange
At least a few minutes at the bar first
Few days of online chatting
Few weeks of online chatting and phone calls
Two-three dates
30-60 days
Depends on the person
Other, described below

spoilyoubb 54H
27 messages
10/2/2019 12h41

it just depends.....

_IKanCu2_ 100H
210 messages
7/2/2019 23h06

][ voted other...

You may come too know in that very first Minute/Look/Touch/Kiss,,,

,,, or maybe not ever ~

oralguy200 72H
13 messages
6/2/2019 14h51

In a swinging party say a half hour of chatting

thejashman 33H
30 messages
1/2/2019 5h12

if the chemistry is right from the first mn of the meet up i don't waste time

fun2bhadsoon 51H
12 messages
31/1/2019 8h29

it all depends...if you chat with someone and the chemistry is right, that could be all it takes, but it could take a few dates or chats to feel comfortable with that person. I also think it would be different for women opposed to men. It's a crap shoot....lol

funasianma1e 44H
88 messages
15/1/2019 21h58

depends on the 2 people involved and the vibe they feel for one another.
If it takes one meeting to get it or if it takes a few meetings.

waterman230 43H  
5 messages
14/1/2019 14h52

well im here for NSA so i think this is different for everyone. i want a women to want me tho. i like to talk a few times just to make sure. i refuse to pressure anyone into sex or anything else for that matter. just my nature i guess.

mcs4849 62H
30 messages
11/1/2019 20h43

Not with all women but some definitely

Me59x 62H
22 messages
11/1/2019 20h19

I had spent several weeks talking with women, then had a date or two to get to know them before jumping in the sack

MisterDingDong18 58H
25 messages
10/1/2019 13h42

Depends on the person, the chemistry, your level of trust in them, your willingness to take risks, etc.

And let's face it, hormones can tilt many of us toward taking risks we might not take when we're not quite so horny.

Dan_Thevoyeur 68H  
1 message
7/1/2019 18h56

It depends on the chemistry/energy you feel when you meet. I normally like knowing someone for a while, but I’ve had it occur in less than 2 hours after meeting. Very intense sex. Sometimes you just feel it.

GuyinVegas1 60H
6 messages
7/1/2019 9h35

If you are looking to fuck, then only enough time to say "Hi"

twoxjr 59H
6 messages
7/1/2019 6h09

it depends on how "HORNY" you are.

oldman1973 70H/33F  
504 messages
6/1/2019 21h06

When we meet I Phon (F) will fuck for any man my husband has selected straight away

mcs4849 62H
30 messages
6/1/2019 10h58

It depends...have had situations when we clicked immediately, other times several meetings and a lot of chat time.

KT1207 50H  
25 messages
5/1/2019 17h02

It all depends on the chemistry, situation and mood... no formula.. just go with the flow.

brandini734 24H  
76 messages
5/1/2019 15h35

2-3 dates is the safest in my opinion.

smalltownhell 57H  
1 message
5/1/2019 9h40

2 nd wife 1 night stand togather8 yrs ..3rd wife same 12yrs

WellINever101 49H
71 messages
5/1/2019 8h31

I agree the genuine people here just wanna fuck. I’ve fucked a few women who I didn’t necessarily find attractive but boy could they suck a cock!!

Yomocloud 30H
14 messages
4/1/2019 21h23

The shortest amount of time was about 5 min after meeting we talked a little over the internet and she asked me to meet up and cum in her pussy. I meet up with her she said after about 5 min of talking can I suck your dick

ohsosmooth69 58F
10 messages
4/1/2019 15h27

for me it has been as little as 10 minutes,and few times it was months,depends on the circumstances and person. the 10 minutes, makes me sound like a slut, but i had girl/girl fun with her"my roommate at the time, her and i talked about a 3some with her boyfriend, whom worked away at the time,and i had never met,i came home from work,knew he was coming over soon, went and showered, came out of the shower and he was there and they were already busy in my bedroom, thought this is a open invitation, walked up and said hi, can i join, she said please, he smiled and said HELL YES, so even less than 10 minutes, but enjoyable, hehehe, my first 3some, actually went through my mind i should wait, but thought i would chicken out if i thought about much, so i just seized the moment.

flasher4u3 61H  
47 messages
4/1/2019 11h39

I love having sex with my friends. It is very exciting when we both know what turns each other on and share feelings along with sensations. Having said that, I have had some very exciting experiences with total strangers a few times too!

edstarr2 53H/49F
8 messages
4/1/2019 9h43

just present yourself

Bull_mature 57H  
34 messages
4/1/2019 8h58

Depends on connect & chemistry between the two

EnjoyLife6446 60H
20 messages
3/1/2019 22h11

each person an each situation is different

puzzieasslicker9 48H
27 messages
3/1/2019 17h14

After we say hello.

agilelips 63H
79 messages
3/1/2019 5h00

Surely it is all to do with chemistry. On occasion there is that instant mutual attraction where one literally cannot wait to get down and dirty. On another occasion a little chat, a few dates or even long term communication may be appropriate. There can be no hard and fast rules governing attraction.

cunnilingdude01 57H  
1 message
2/1/2019 12h28

I like to get to know a little bit about a woman before I hop in bed with her. I've been put into too many uncomfortable situations, and mostly a chemistry between two people turns good sex into great sex.

fucktoyshavefun 40H/38F  
28 messages
1/1/2019 23h36

i would have to say what ever feels right

Cpllooking6671 52H/47F  
1115 messages
1/1/2019 13h08

Since we are looking at both single & couples, it all depends on the chemistry and the dynamics of the personalities involved. We may or may not have a chance to chat some before a meet n greet or we have a few dinners after the meet n greet. We have played directly after the meet n greet cause that spark was there and the spontaneity was hot!
So all in all- Just go with the flow/feeling is how we see it.

PVJowe 59H/56F  
113 messages
1/1/2019 11h06

I like to at least get through a glass maybe 2 glasses of wine before I take him home

throatscock 91H

1/1/2019 5h02

Depends on the person. First appearance tells a lot about someone and it doesn't take long before you get turned on or off. Go with instinct I say.

Yourtoy2use2019 23H  
6 messages
31/12/2018 19h07

Never to soon

sexybunny4love 52F  
252 messages
31/12/2018 18h48

With some it's a week of chatting, others take time, depends how we click I guess, x

~ Dare to be different ~ sexybunny4love

Janet4fun2016 57T  
622 messages
31/12/2018 17h01

When your both in the mood.

need2chew 57H
16 messages
31/12/2018 16h02

if we talk for a few and agree what we want out of us hooking up

newportnewsman69 36H
13 messages
31/12/2018 9h18

Very interesting.

MyraJessie 38H
1 message
31/12/2018 8h15

nice tits love them

Timetraveler2 55H  
134 messages
31/12/2018 4h17

It seems that most of us feel the same, it depends on chemistry and the situation.

Keltstar1 53H
1 message
30/12/2018 13h34

It always depends on what chemistry/magic ignites upon meeting. Maybe the sexual desire will be immediate, or maybe it will be interest and a need to know more. Haven't we all had those experiences??? Basically, it's always what you feel most, and not to over think it . . . and to miss/lose something that intuition tells you will be unforgettable!

Crystal_Lake 35F  
417 messages
30/12/2018 11h27

The title of this poll should be called:


My cup runneth over
Like blood from a stone
These stand for me
Name your god and bleed the freak
I like to see
How you all would bleed for me

XGaladrielle 54F  
15 messages
29/12/2018 19h21

Chemistry? I'm on this site to fuck, meet strangers in a hotel room, intense kissing as soon as he enters the room. sucking his cock after 1 minute. Don't wanna know his life,will never see him again.

Y a tout ce qu'on doit taire, tout ce qui ne se dit pas… JJ Goldman

man4tgirl2 65H
21 messages
29/12/2018 15h58

got to see if there is chemistry

sexydad1167 51H  
1357 messages
29/12/2018 13h35

Ive had some women naked in 10-15 min of meeting after a day or a week of emails or texts. I haven't gone past second date in many many years. To me its so important to make sure we are completely sexually compatible otherwise no point in continuing especially if its going to be a romantic relatikonship.

9 messages
29/12/2018 13h24

I am just looking to fuck as love as they are DDF no need to wait

DoctorBooty 38H  
6180 messages
29/12/2018 7h46

It really depends for me. I have taken a hotwife to my apartment after one day of chatting, I've taken girls home from the bar, and i've chatted with some women for months before we could meet.

Invariably, the buildup makes it better, so long as the time is within reason. A few weeks at most. When it gets to months, then others will take your attention away.

johnt999x 57H
5 messages
29/12/2018 5h14

Been to a swingers and have had sex with a few women and I cannot even tell you there name. It was all about recreational sex

letsgettogeth119 72H
43 messages
28/12/2018 21h30

Depends when we want to get it on.

872295433 31F
11 messages
28/12/2018 19h14

If I am just looking for a one night stand, there is not reason to wait.

Luv2bottom4u2 61H  
1126 messages
28/12/2018 16h24

Well I think it all depends, I am a bit older but I am sure things may somewhat be the same. I have met women at a bar and had sex that evening.
Then again it might of been a date or two before sex.

LetsChillax 52F  
699 messages
28/12/2018 12h07


dammifiknow2 51H  
79 messages
28/12/2018 7h48

cliche as it is......it IS all about the chemistry.......physical, emotional, and mental

Knoxslutwife 43H/39F  
155 messages
28/12/2018 7h44

since we play totally safe, we don't even need to know your name, lets get it on!!!!!!

HedonicHeathen 51H
154 messages
28/12/2018 5h49

    Citer LetsChillax:
    Gonna be all kinds of answers coming on this one I bet...
Of course you didn't clarify which even is the ideal time ... so I'd say that research has shown that most women decide within the first 15 seconds if a man is fuckable. Men gawk at that fact and not realize that strategy her eye contact can be subsumed as strategy too.

Men are the gas women are the brakes - it has been said, probably by some backseat driver. So extending that metaphor ... the vehicle traveling is the intimacy.

How soon is now?

yumehole 53F  
29 messages
28/12/2018 5h05

I've done 5 min. up to a couple months, prefer the 5 min.

Havelotsoffun09 58H
11 messages
27/12/2018 21h50

Depends on the person and the trust and comfort level you have with each other. Sometimes, it's just automatic!

zeke53028 60H  
778 messages
27/12/2018 15h25

My days of picking (or trying) up woman for sex are long gone. I much prefer getting to know someone and making a connection first. Now it's possible that can happen very quickly.

heavycummer245 48H  
3 messages
27/12/2018 15h05

Depends on person. One girlfriend it was less than 30 mins after first meeting in a bar and she was sucking my cock, but we pretty much were both gagging for it that night

danthe69er 42H
75 messages
27/12/2018 14h22

I agree depends on the person

sequimlooking 74H  
9 messages
27/12/2018 13h18

If I'm comfortable with them I could have sex within the hour after meeting them.

silk_petal_rose 55F  
1897 messages
27/12/2018 13h15

30 to 60 days....all depends.


Aquariusto69U 50H
1 message
27/12/2018 12h54

The question was “the least amount of time”. My answer to that would be, at least a couple hours. That’s the least amount of time it has taken for me and a partner to be comfortable enough with each other to engage in sexual activity.

Will88066 39H
21 messages
27/12/2018 11h33

I think it obviously depends on the person, but it also depends on the situation. Monday morning exchange glances and smiles at the gas station. Or Friday night exchanging glances and smiles at the bar after a few cocktails.

possibleplaydate 47H/42F  
18 messages
27/12/2018 11h26

I knew my first wife for 1 day before we we had sex. I knew she was the one right from the start and thank goodness, she felt the same way. We were married 12 years and had 4 sons together before she died in an auto accident with her sister.
The times have changed from our (great)grandparents days. For whatever the reason, it is always up to the two people concerned.

LetsChillax 52F  
699 messages
27/12/2018 9h50

What a fun poll

CarpeDiem22202 56H  
337 messages
27/12/2018 8h34

Great Question! I personally don't subscribe to any artificial "time requirement" before sharing pleasure with someone or a couple. If the feeling is right and mutual then why wait, if it needs more time to simmer then respect that and take a bit more time, especially if all parties are into fostering more than a one time thing. FWB with a Capital "F" is great! Happy New Year All! >>! happym;

mnoral 57H  
14 messages
27/12/2018 7h22

It depends sometimes a little chatting or just a face to face

runnerlover79 57H  
1 message
27/12/2018 6h44

a few minutes, afew days. It depends on person and chemistry, and of course, timing.

jajo696 64F  
173 messages
27/12/2018 6h20


not into it for a hook up...im not a fly by kinda person....so i need to know the person is sincere and not nuts and not looking to satisfy an experience that they desire. That takes time and a certain connection.

gtrider28 62H  
606 messages
27/12/2018 6h16

I hate to fall into the same category as the majority here but it really does depend on the person. But on the other hand LOLO and time is fleeting

RobK2006 51H
4827 messages
27/12/2018 5h46

Hah! Ideally, I'd like to know the person for a while first, but, in the real world, if the mood strikes us both...

JMFuckon 58H  
28 messages
27/12/2018 5h00

Depends on person. I had it both ways.
You kinda know which way its going to go

SomewhereSE 61H
101 messages
27/12/2018 3h44

Long enough for them to return to their default rather than “best foot forward” behavior and to know them well enough to not make them the next “biggest mistake you’ve ever made.”

LetsChillax replies on 27/12/2018 4h50:

Itsosoft 30F
2 messages
27/12/2018 2h58

just take it moment by moment

powercaps716 62H
8602 messages
27/12/2018 2h11

depends on the person

sphxdiver 69H  
20413 messages
26/12/2018 21h26

A lot of different factors play into it.

Lot of it depends on the person too.

lookin4herMI 46H
93 messages
26/12/2018 20h18

Depends on the person, and situation. I went on 4 dates, and multiple phone, and text conversations before I was comfortable enough to be intimate with one woman. While after weeks of texts, and phone calls with another woman it only took a couple of drinks in person before we were undressing each other as quickly as we could. Then the last woman I will mention we had a very heated conversation late one night that ended in each other’s naked embrace by morning time. For me it all depends on how comfortable I am around her, and she has a lot to do with that, mood, attitude, or just vibes she’s putting off. I don’t think there is a right amount of time, or should you put a time limit on it. Go with the flow, go with your own gut feeling, and never let someone change what you’re feeling inside. I can say I never regretted being intimate with any of these women regardless of the amount of time I did, or didn’t know them.

golfnut5469 64H  
4 messages
26/12/2018 19h42

depends on where you meet them, if you meet them on a site like this, then your both on the same mind set, should be quicker, On a regular dating site, take some time, you don't know what they are after

RyuFujin 51F  
74 messages
26/12/2018 18h25

It varies, as everyone is different, and every situation will be different.

You could hit it off great through emails, chats, and texts, though when you do meet face-to-face... hmm, no chemistry? It has happened.

On the flip side of that is your interactions with one another here, phone calls/texts, produce an interest, but nothing major until you meet... then WHAM!
You're struck by lightning.

One can never tell.

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azriel1970 48H  
23518 messages
26/12/2018 18h17

Totally depends on the person!!!

Whaoo196370 55H
29 messages
26/12/2018 16h45

When both persons are comfortable with each other .

lok4fun500 108H  
43595 messages
26/12/2018 15h31

At least time for me remove my hat (s)

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xtremeblaz022 38H  
16 messages
26/12/2018 15h19

It all depends on the person and the feeling that may be there. Sometimes you can just click and want to go for it. Then you have other times you want to what and learn more about the person. But most the time when you do sleep with someone right after meeting it never seems to really last.

IVFalternative 47H
235 messages
26/12/2018 15h17

Within 30 seconds of sending them a dick pic.


At least, that's how I assume I'd like it to go. I'll let you know if it ever happens

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pocogato12 66F  
25512 messages
26/12/2018 15h11

All kinds of scenarios!!! But trust comes first

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redrockrascal 60H
19679 messages
26/12/2018 15h11

    Citer benard69:
    There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable
Yup this

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

justskin1 67H  
10953 messages
26/12/2018 15h05

I want some time to get comfortable with her and the time can vary from person to person. Certainly don't feel comfortable going from online to meeting for sex.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.

benard69 63H/63F  
4070 messages
26/12/2018 15h00

There is no right answer for all...It's when you are comfortable

bitchkitty2017 66F  
2595 messages
26/12/2018 14h59

voted and personally I don't feel I could just meet and get intimate as I dislike hook ups which it pretty much is ...I prefer an fwb situation as I am just widowed a couple years and am disabled because of an accident ..I want to feel a bit secure first...so far its been going good..

flaguy522 63H  
1431 messages
26/12/2018 14h59

I think when both feel comfortable, have at it!!! Could be instantaneous or could take awhile.

LetsChillax 52F  
699 messages
26/12/2018 14h45

Gonna be all kinds of answers coming on this one I bet...

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