Throw Me a Party🎉... When I'm Dead and Gone 😄... I'll Bring The Music 🎶 🤗  

Paulxx001 62H
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21/6/2019 10h56

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Throw Me a Party🎉... When I'm Dead and Gone 😄... I'll Bring The Music 🎶 🤗

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Last Sunday, I spent the afternoon at the cemetery. It was a hot and balmy, June day. Fat, grey squirrels, scurried amongst the gravestones. A clear blue sky and a lush green vista... framed my view. The scent of apple blossoms and lilac, filled the air. I stood there... amongst the dead. It was quiet and peaceful. But I was there, for a purpose.

There is, a Christian Orthodox tradition, 'Trinity Sunday' (celebrated eight weeks after Easter, on the 'Julian Calender' ), where ALL the departed, are honored with a gravesite ceremony. It's presided by family and friends and a priest. The prayer and incense infused, 'Thurible' blessing is brief - but it brings people together.

When my grandmother was alive, we'd all go back to her home and have a simple meal. The adults would recall stories and share memories and drink shots of vodka. They'd spend time laughing and reminiscing. As a kid... I'd just look forward, to eating Grandma's roasted chicken and garlic mashed potatoes. Since my grandmother passed away, WE all just go, our separate ways... home. Kinda sad, when I think about it. But what I saw, as I drove through the cemetery... struck me. Some people - still get it RIGHT !

I was heading towards the Main Gates, when I passed a cluster of people, spread out by a gravestone. Blankets on the ground, marked a crawl way, for the tiny toddlers, too small to walk. The women sitting there, doled out bread and meats and cheeses and... filled up plastic glasses, with wine. Younger children played round the monuments, chasing each other, giggling. The men stood by, telling stories, while they laughed and toasted in the air, with arms raised.

Ya know... I think that's the way, I'd like to be remembered. When I'm dead and gone, throw me a fucking PARTY... by my gravesite. Bring on the food and wine and vodka. Oh and... put the music up, FULL blast. It'll be tough, for me to hear the tunes!

Damn... I thought of something; "They better not play any fricken disco ." I'll start working, on that music mix. I wonder, what my first song would be?


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So...
Ya think you'd want, or deserve, a party in your honor, when you're gone?
What would be, your first tune? 🤔


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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 10h56

Heck yeah. Everyone deserves a party, no? I'd rather have people laughing and having a great time at my grave, than standing there crying.
So... I'm going to ramp up my good deeds to everyone and try and be REAL nice to my brother, for as long as I can. Until he pisses me off again...
I mean... who wants to be remembered as a quiet, lonely grouch, right? 😮 😊
They better bring a good sound system! 🔊😂
That first song? Hmmm... Something with a good beat to it ; ZZ Top..." Le Grange" ... maybe...

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 10h57

Yeah... That whole gravesite thing sounds morbid, a bit. But many cultures celebrate death , rather than grieve in anguish. I'd like to hope, that I'll have left a positive mark on this place. When I'm gone, I hope the party continues. What about you?
Oh and... I'm not planning on going anywhere, for a while... 😊 So I think I've got some time, to get better, at getting better. Ya know what I mean? 🤔

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author51 56F  
77593 messages
21/6/2019 11h04

What a wonderful celebration of a loved one and a life well lived I bet.. what a great idea.. I would love it as well, especially with some AC/DC playing in the background, or better yet Trooper's Raise A Little Hell to go along with Hell's Bells.......LMAO!!!!!! I was also at the cemetary last Sunday to visit both my parents graves and tidy them up a bit with some more fresh flowers.. I go quite often during the year but with Father's Day last weekend, I went to say Hi to my Dad....What a wonderful post my coffee mate...xx

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


ltrskr 71H
3434 messages
21/6/2019 11h35

George said it best,


Largedick1219 62H
6 messages
21/6/2019 11h45

What a great way to to appreciate a life.


lust4life59 60F  
107 messages
21/6/2019 12h04

I did this kind of thing for my late husbands memorial service. We did a cookout on the Sunday of Memorial Day weekend, appropriate in more ways than one since we always had a big cookout on that weekend every year. The usual group that came for the cookouts were there, about 75 to 80 people total. His eulogy was more along the lines of stories told about him, some I had never heard before, some brought tears to my eyes, some made me laugh. HE was cremated, his ashes spread across the property, so I'm always at his graveside when I am home. And the music? Three songs in particular I wanted played. Warren Zevon - "Keep me in your heart", (my choice) Jimmy Buffet's "One Particular Harbor" (his request), and lastly, Willie Nelsons "To all the girls I've loved before", which made everyone laugh, yet suited him so well. We had discussed this the year before he died, it was amazing how easily it all came together.


Wonder167 52F  
3499 messages
21/6/2019 12h47

When I volunteered for Hospice, we had an exercise to play our own funeral. It was rough to do, but along these lines, that's what I'd like too. I want to be cremated and have everyone gather and enjoy the day remembering.

Life is like a camera. Focus on what's important.
Capture the good times.
Develop from the negatives and if things don't work out,
Take another shot!


cinnamon0133 54F  
18019 messages
21/6/2019 12h58

I don't want a funeral, I want people to remember me while I was alive! I don't want to be laid out in a casket for people to see me dead. I remember VIVIDLY seeing my mother in her coffin, she didn't even look like my mom. It was the last time I saw her and it's a HORRIBLE memory. I don't want my kids going through that. My daughter's know I'm to be cremated and put on the fireplace mantel. They have already decided to share me. Six months at one daughters place and switch!🤣🤣🤣

Treat Me Like A Angel And I Will Show You What Heaven Is Really Like


Naughtypursuit 51F  
2186 messages
21/6/2019 13h10

Cremate me and spread my ashes. I want no funeral, wake or memorial. I dont want anyone to go to any expense. I hate the death is a business that people get rich off of. If I were to have song at the free pot luck memorial it would Leonard Cohen - Closing time and Neil Young - Harvest Moon... cliche


HeartCollector 62F  
7626 messages
21/6/2019 13h25

Keep me in your heart, by Warren Zevon. Then toss my ashes in Sheridan Lake in the Black Hills.

The gladdest hours we know are those shared with a friend or two. Wilbur D. Nesbit


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 13h31

    Citer author51:
    What a wonderful celebration of a loved one and a life well lived I bet.. what a great idea.. I would love it as well, especially with some AC/DC playing in the background, or better yet Trooper's Raise A Little Hell to go along with Hell's Bells.......LMAO!!!!!! I was also at the cemetary last Sunday to visit both my parents graves and tidy them up a bit with some more fresh flowers.. I go quite often during the year but with Father's Day last weekend, I went to say Hi to my Dad....What a wonderful post my coffee mate...xx
What a coincidence that we'd both be in a cemetery at the same time... 300 miles apart. 😊
Pippo great song selection. Can you imagine THOSE songs blasting across the headstones? Wow! I'll bet you, some of the residents would tap their feet and boogie along with you? 🤗
I should have asked, if you had a special meal you'd like served in your honour. For me? Ribs and bbq chicken with potato salad. Can I serve two? 🤔 lol 😂

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 13h33

    Citer ltrskr:
    George said it best,
George had a lot of good ones, didn't he? 🤔
Thanks for that reminder. 😊
You having a party 🎉 at your final resting place?

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 13h34

Certainly better than moping your way through it, right?
Thanks for popping in. Drop by any time. 👍

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 13h43

    Citer lust4life59:
    I did this kind of thing for my late husbands memorial service. We did a cookout on the Sunday of Memorial Day weekend, appropriate in more ways than one since we always had a big cookout on that weekend every year. The usual group that came for the cookouts were there, about 75 to 80 people total. His eulogy was more along the lines of stories told about him, some I had never heard before, some brought tears to my eyes, some made me laugh. HE was cremated, his ashes spread across the property, so I'm always at his graveside when I am home. And the music? Three songs in particular I wanted played. Warren Zevon - "Keep me in your heart", (my choice) Jimmy Buffet's "One Particular Harbor" (his request), and lastly, Willie Nelsons "To all the girls I've loved before", which made everyone laugh, yet suited him so well. We had discussed this the year before he died, it was amazing how easily it all came together.
Wow! That's a really great story. It sounds like everyone had a really great time. 👍
Did you post your comment, so that I'd get teary eyed? You know how emotional I am... 😊
Yep... I can relate to THAT vibe.
Ya think... people will party with the same resolve... when your time comes? 🤔
Great song selection, by the way... 😊

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 13h45

    Citer Wonder167:
    When I volunteered for Hospice, we had an exercise to play our own funeral. It was rough to do, but along these lines, that's what I'd like too. I want to be cremated and have everyone gather and enjoy the day remembering.
That's a heavy game to play...
At your party... what song would you like them to play? 🤔
You're not going anywhere soon... take your time on that choice... Or choose many! 👍

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superbjversion2 64F  
16541 messages
21/6/2019 13h50

I've already kinda planned for my Grand Finale. I have a collection of shot glasses from my travels. I told my daughter, fill 'em up, give me a toast and let them keep the shot glass as a remembrance. I never thought of music. hm. How about some Three Dog Night "Joy to the World"

I put the sex in sexagenarian


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 13h55

    Citer cinnamon0133:
    I don't want a funeral, I want people to remember me while I was alive! I don't want to be laid out in a casket for people to see me dead. I remember VIVIDLY seeing my mother in her coffin, she didn't even look like my mom. It was the last time I saw her and it's a HORRIBLE memory. I don't want my kids going through that. My daughter's know I'm to be cremated and put on the fireplace mantel. They have already decided to share me. Six months at one daughters place and switch!🤣🤣🤣
Wow... sounds traumatic. I can relate to THAT.
Sharing 6 and 6 ... sounds like a plan... 😊👍
I'm from a huge community and a culture, where... after the first couple of open coffins... I just accepted it. So do my kids.
I've been desensitized? 🤔 Yep...
I always recall the person the way I remember them, rather than what they look like in that box.
Hey.. A big fat Wake... might be just what your friends are looking for? lol
Thanks for sharing your pov. Those early experiences ARE traumatic... yep I get it.
If you had to pick ⛏ a song... what would it be?

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 14h03

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    Cremate me and spread my ashes. I want no funeral, wake or memorial. I dont want anyone to go to any expense. I hate the death is a business that people get rich off of. If I were to have song at the free pot luck memorial it would Leonard Cohen - Closing time and Neil Young - Harvest Moon... cliche
I hear ya... 😊 But I like that pot luck idea.
Who can go wrong with, "... Johnny Walker wisdom...", right? Both... good songs. 😊
I'm partial to that Leonard song though.
Any favorite food, you'd want served in your honour? 🤔
Yep... That.. Leonard song, would be a classic and.. bring the house down! 👍

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 14h10

    Citer HeartCollector:
    Keep me in your heart, by Warren Zevon. Then toss my ashes in Sheridan Lake in the Black Hills.
Wtf is going on.? Why is everyone making me cry? That's a great song! 👍 😊
I should reconsider my ZZ Top Choice. I was looking for a vibe.. not anything deep.
Yep.. that's a good one for sure!
I guess it has special meaning for you? 🤔
Anything on the menu for your guests, before they feed you to the fish in that beautiful lake? 🤔
I haven't heard that song since forever.. You like Warren? ❤️

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 14h25

    Citer superbjversion2:
    I've already kinda planned for my Grand Finale. I have a collection of shot glasses from my travels. I told my daughter, fill 'em up, give me a toast and let them keep the shot glass as a remembrance. I never thought of music. hm. How about some Three Dog Night "Joy to the World"
I love that idea! 👍
Well.... your song is a classic!
Any food choices? Not that you're going to be able to taste them... lol 😂
Hey... 😊 Shots? I'm game.
I'd share a story... about you.... with the crowd.. 🎶 ❤️

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ltrskr 71H
3434 messages
21/6/2019 14h52

This is my epitaph that I wrote,

In a Big Truck, Going somewhere:

In mountain snow or desert heat,
A big ol' Kenworth or Long nose Pete.
In city smog or high clean air
Put me in a Big Truck, going somewhere.

Groceries for the store or parts for ur car,
Medicine for Mom, or even a candy bar.
Without us rolling the shelves would be bare,
But we're in a Big Truck, get'n it here.

When I'm at my last marker and I've met my fate,
My loads all delivered, I'm at that last gate.
I hope God will know I've earned my place there,
In a Big Truck, go'n somewhere!

I want to be cremated, my ashes tossed off an overpass on a "Big Road"
with "Highway to Hell" by AC/DC blasting!


Paulxx001 replies on 21/6/2019 16h03:
No disrespect intended. I reread the fact that YOU wrote it.
Fucking great set of words. Disregard my last question.
Yep... Great job! 👍 👍👍 😊

HeartCollector 62F  
7626 messages
21/6/2019 15h56

I want them all sobbing when I go. Let them know just how much I loved all of them. And sure, who doesn’t like Warren Zevon? Werewolves of London!

The gladdest hours we know are those shared with a friend or two. Wilbur D. Nesbit


cinnamon0133 54F  
18019 messages
21/6/2019 16h00

You want more details, here we go🤣🤣. I definitely want 3 songs at my wake
1. The Devil Went Down To Georgia, Charlie Daniels Band. It has nothing to do with the lyrics or the meaning of the song. I used to hate and I mean HATE any music remotely country. This was the first "country" that I loved!! It always but a huge smile on my face, my friends and family understand 😊
2. It's A Wonderful Would Louis Armstrong, his voice, that song touches me deeply and more often then not, I find it so beautiful that it will bring tears to my eyes
3. Fat Bottom Girls Queen I have always had a fat ass🤣🤣 and that song ALWAYS gets me dancing!!😊😊
As far as the food at my wake, it will be whatever my 2 daughters decide, it depends who wins that battle🤣🤣🤣 I won't be there to referee 🤣🤣

Treat Me Like A Angel And I Will Show You What Heaven Is Really Like


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 16h00

Now THAT... sounds like a plan! And worthy! 👍
Love that climax... make sure the subs are kicking and the volume is at 11...
Yep.. Good one! Really good one! 😊 👌🎵🔊
Is that yours? Well crafted! 👍👍👍

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 16h08

    Citer HeartCollector:
    I want them all sobbing when I go. Let them know just how much I loved all of them. And sure, who doesn’t like Warren Zevon? Werewolves of London!
Ok... stop already... lol I'd be there with tears... pouring the shots.. listening to his music
. 👍
Yes... We'd all be crying and hammered and having a good time. 👍
You're bad. You know how I'd react..... and I barely know you.. 😊

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cinnamon0133 54F  
18019 messages
21/6/2019 16h09

Btw seeing my mother in her coffin scarred me as a adult. I was 40 and a mother myself. She did not look like my mother at all. I found out later that I was in shock, I still see the mental image.

Treat Me Like A Angel And I Will Show You What Heaven Is Really Like


Tmptrzz 56F  
62076 messages
21/6/2019 16h32

Sounds like your grandmother was an amazing lady. You know I agree with you I think I would want a party as well to celebrate my life not mourn it. I hope you have a wonderful weekend..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 16h32

    Citer cinnamon0133:
    Btw seeing my mother in her coffin scarred me as a adult. I was 40 and a mother myself. She did not look like my mother at all. I found out later that I was in shock, I still see the mental image.
Yes. I know EXACTLY what you're talking about. When I was 5 I went to a funeral of a friend of mine who was hit by a truck.
Fuck me... I don't know how my parents could have taken me to THAT show. My gosh. Freaked me right out... and I was 5. So... I get it... how freaked put you must have been. Yeah. Well.. I wish someone had been there to hug you and make things better.
Yes... I understand exactly.... It's not a fun experience.
I have gotten used to it. 🤔 It's not better.... but I close my eyes... and just recall their image. Life is Fucked up. So sorry to trip you out on this.
Hey
.. have a shot on me and come back next time. I guarantee a LAUGH! 👍

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 16h45

    Citer cinnamon0133:
    You want more details, here we go🤣🤣. I definitely want 3 songs at my wake
    1. The Devil Went Down To Georgia, Charlie Daniels Band. It has nothing to do with the lyrics or the meaning of the song. I used to hate and I mean HATE any music remotely country. This was the first "country" that I loved!! It always but a huge smile on my face, my friends and family understand 😊
    2. It's A Wonderful Would Louis Armstrong, his voice, that song touches me deeply and more often then not, I find it so beautiful that it will bring tears to my eyes
    3. Fat Bottom Girls Queen I have always had a fat ass🤣🤣 and that song ALWAYS gets me dancing!!😊😊
    As far as the food at my wake, it will be whatever my 2 daughters decide, it depends who wins that battle🤣🤣🤣 I won't be there to referee 🤣🤣
Wow... That first song, i'd never heard. But I like it.
Of course that second one... classic... And that third. Hit me up. For sure! What great vocals and lyrics! Yep. Queen! Great songs. I'd be there with my fists in the air! 👍
For sure.. the food is THEIR choice.
Thanks for sharing. I popped them all up in u tube.. Great listen! 👍 😊 🔥
Wanna dance? 🤔

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 16h49

    Citer Tmptrzz:
    Sounds like your grandmother was an amazing lady. You know I agree with you I think I would want a party as well to celebrate my life not mourn it. I hope you have a wonderful weekend..
lol.. Welcome to the party. lol 😂
I didn't plan it like this... it just evolved... 😊
So what would be your song... your meal
... your vibe. How would YOU do it... 😊
It's weird... but I would love to be at my own wake. Just to see...
You? 🤔

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azriel1970 48H
25854 messages
21/6/2019 18h10

Going through the pains of setting up something similar for mom here soon. She was cremated and we are spreading her ashes next weekend......

We are doing a celebration of life with music and food and good times I hope......

As for me I am not sure anyone would even come. However I agree that I would like a party and it not be somber........

First song would be "Who wants to live Forever" by Queen.


RyuFujin 51F  
450 messages
21/6/2019 18h33

Oh, I have a few small requests... and these are to remind people that I had an off-beat, somewhat macabre sense of humor, and hopefully to set off a few giggles, eye rolls, and head shakes.

At my viewing/memorial, I wish to have the song "Pop Goes the Weasel" play, right before the start of anything that anyone wants to say.

I also wish to have someone dressed up as the Grim Reaper, complete with scythe (fake of course but real-looking), who will randomly point to someone in the audience every now and then.

In addition, I wish to have on the inside of the memorial pamphlets, two lyrical quotes from two of my favorite bands:

"A tous le monde, a tous mes amis, Je vous aime, Je dois partir", from A Tout le Monde by Megadeth.

"My body lies, yet still I roam", from Wherever I May Roam by Metallica.

Various other selected music that touches on such a somber time will be playing also. Though I haven't really compiled a permanent list of that yet.

What to do with my body? Well, for those who truly wish to "keep me around", there are these pendants you can buy that will hold a very small amount of a loved one's ashes, and they hang from a necklace.

There are also these places that will take your cremated remains, and place you into a biodegradable potted container with a tree seed in it, to be planted in the ground. This creation is based off of the saying We were born of the Earth, and to the Earth we shall return, and I think both of those items/things are very interesting and thoughtful to do for a departed loved one.

Or my next of kin can just BBQ my happy arse, stick a small amount of me in a batch of brownies, and EAT ME!


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Naughtypursuit 51F  
2186 messages
21/6/2019 18h49

    Citer Paulxx001:
    I hear ya... 😊 But I like that pot luck idea.
    Who can go wrong with, "... Johnny Walker wisdom...", right? Both... good songs. 😊
    I'm partial to that Leonard song though.
    Any favorite food, you'd want served in your honour? 🤔
    Yep... That.. Leonard song, would be a classic and.. bring the house down! 👍
Its Potluck... bring what you want and dont mind having left overs of... as long as there are no green peppers in anything. I hate green peppers. In homage to me, no green peppers at the pot luck.


backpocket13 42H
7879 messages
21/6/2019 19h01

Hey Paul,
.........You can shoot my body into one of those big open sewage canals for all that I care, but there has to be a Party!........Loud Music, Cocktails, Good Strong Smoke, some Light Hallucinogens, a few Uppers, a couple Screamers, a whole lotta Laughers, and Cocaine,........A Lot of the Fucking Cocaine,.........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 19h43

    Citer azriel1970:
    Going through the pains of setting up something similar for mom here soon. She was cremated and we are spreading her ashes next weekend......

    We are doing a celebration of life with music and food and good times I hope......

    As for me I am not sure anyone would even come. However I agree that I would like a party and it not be somber........

    First song would be "Who wants to live Forever" by Queen.
I'm sure it'll be a worthy and memorable celebration of her life... 😊
Of course people will show up... advertise free coffee and donuts 🍩☕...
Yep... people will show up. You'd be surprised. Of course... you might never know.Hmmm... or perhaps... Twilight Zone material, right? 😮
Love that song choice. Wow! Hmmm. Yep. That will bring the house down, right? 👍
Thanks for sharing.
I'm sure your Mother's event will go well. I'd love to hear about it afterwards. 😊

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Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 19h58

    Citer RyuFujin:
    Oh, I have a few small requests... and these are to remind people that I had an off-beat, somewhat macabre sense of humor, and hopefully to set off a few giggles, eye rolls, and head shakes.

    At my viewing/memorial, I wish to have the song "Pop Goes the Weasel" play, right before the start of anything that anyone wants to say.

    I also wish to have someone dressed up as the Grim Reaper, complete with scythe (fake of course but real-looking), who will randomly point to someone in the audience every now and then.

    In addition, I wish to have on the inside of the memorial pamphlets, two lyrical quotes from two of my favorite bands:

    "A tous le monde, a tous mes amis, Je vous aime, Je dois partir", from A Tout le Monde by Megadeth.

    "My body lies, yet still I roam", from Wherever I May Roam by Metallica.

    Various other selected music that touches on such a somber time will be playing also. Though I haven't really compiled a permanent list of that yet.

    What to do with my body? Well, for those who truly wish to "keep me around", there are these pendants you can buy that will hold a very small amount of a loved one's ashes, and they hang from a necklace.

    There are also these places that will take your cremated remains, and place you into a biodegradable potted container with a tree seed in it, to be planted in the ground. This creation is based off of the saying We were born of the Earth, and to the Earth we shall return, and I think both of those items/things are very interesting and thoughtful to do for a departed loved one.

    Or my next of kin can just BBQ my happy arse, stick a small amount of me in a batch of brownies, and EAT ME!
Wow... That's wild! Both those songs are killer... and the lyrics are really deep.
So.. about that Grim Reaper idea.. ya think your friends have a sense of humour? lol omg... 😊 ☺️😮
Interesting concept with the tree planting...
But I'm really not sure about BBQ you! lol 😂... Now live you? I might want to taste that... hmmm
Did I just say that out loud? 🤔 OMG... lol
Interesting stuff... for sure! 👍
Megadeth right? Wild! 👏👌

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I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 20h01

    Citer Naughtypursuit:
    Its Potluck... bring what you want and dont mind having left overs of... as long as there are no green peppers in anything. I hate green peppers. In homage to me, no green peppers at the pot luck.
Wow! That's funny. I was going to bring my sweet and sour pork, which has green peppers in it. I'll take out the peppers.
Green peppers? Lol 😂
What's wrong with them? 🤔 😁
Is that it? 🤔

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
21/6/2019 20h06

    Citer backpocket13:
    Hey Paul,
    .........You can shoot my body into one of those big open sewage canals for all that I care, but there has to be a Party!........Loud Music, Cocktails, Good Strong Smoke, some Light Hallucinogens, a few Uppers, a couple Screamers, a whole lotta Laughers, and Cocaine,........A Lot of the Fucking Cocaine,.........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
THAT sounds like a great party! 👍 One that I'd probably hang around for a couple of three or four days... Can you imagine what a wild and crazy party that would be?
Wow... 😊
At some point... I think we'd take a break and come up for air! 👍
Yep... That would be a classic. 😁🤔
I like the balance, between the highs and the lows, that you've suggested. Looks like a balanced diet. lol... 😊
Sounds doable! 👍

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


pollly_anna 55F  
423 messages
21/6/2019 21h16

Well for myself the whole works the 3 day viewing the burial. pictures of me from babyhood all the way till adulthood....and my music all my loved sappy love songs perry como. tom jones.,johnny mathis. george micheal


author51 56F  
77593 messages
21/6/2019 23h29

    Citer Paulxx001:
    What a coincidence that we'd both be in a cemetery at the same time... 300 miles apart. 😊
    Pippo great song selection. Can you imagine THOSE songs blasting across the headstones? Wow! I'll bet you, some of the residents would tap their feet and boogie along with you? 🤗
    I should have asked, if you had a special meal you'd like served in your honour. For me? Ribs and bbq chicken with potato salad. Can I serve two? 🤔 lol 😂
Sushi and a large Canadian Classic Pizza double cheese my friend, a bottle of Merlot and we are good to go......lol

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
22/6/2019 3h29

    Citer author51:
    Sushi and a large Canadian Classic Pizza double cheese my friend, a bottle of Merlot and we are good to go......lol
Boy... we sure are! Sushi 🍥... pizza 🍕... why not! I'm about to have breakfast 🥣... 😊 I'd have THAT in a flash 📸 lol 😂 👍

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
22/6/2019 3h57

    Citer pollly_anna:
    Well for myself the whole works the 3 day viewing the burial. pictures of me from babyhood all the way till adulthood....and my music all my loved sappy love songs perry como. tom jones.,johnny mathis. george micheal
Ahhh... very traditional... 😊
My community has stopped the three day viewing a couple of years ago. Everyone just does one day... hmmm. I don't know how THAT started.
Nice music selection... Sounds like you said... sappy... 😊 👍
I won't ask you about food... lol We know THAT'S not on your list. 📃😊

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
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Livin_my_Life14 49F  
1170 messages
22/6/2019 5h50

I was at the cemetery too!! Must have been a father’s day thing to do. I am giving my body to science. - my family can celebrate as they wish!


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
22/6/2019 9h56

    Citer Livin_my_Life14:
    I was at the cemetery too!! Must have been a father’s day thing to do. I am giving my body to science. - my family can celebrate as they wish!
Really? 🤔 Hmmm... interesting choice... I don't trust those guys... lol.
Or, is what I've put my body through, make my body of no use to them? Eee.. 😮
Maybe it was a Father's Day thing...

So... when you donate your body to science... do they give your family a toe or a finger to burry? 🤔
Or do they just get, the free tickets🎟️ to the disection theatre?
Just curious....

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


sexyeyes3212 61F  
16 messages
22/6/2019 14h01

Yeah. Share you blah. How do you know that you wouldn't have a wife then? lol And where is the grave with the man & woman having sex from? My mothers ashes were suppose to go to me. But since she wanted to be with her husband, they are at the evil step people's house.


pollly_anna 55F  
423 messages
22/6/2019 17h36

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Ahhh... very traditional... 😊
    My community has stopped the three day viewing a couple of years ago. Everyone just does one day... hmmm. I don't know how THAT started.
    Nice music selection... Sounds like you said... sappy... 😊 👍
    I won't ask you about food... lol We know THAT'S not on your list. 📃😊
IF you pay they will do 3 days still............why would food be on my list.......?


SeaGirlFL 55F
8677 messages
22/6/2019 18h56

A party celebrating my life sounds pretty fine. I like the idea of sharing food and wine and laughter. Much better than tears.

Whatcha going to put on your playlist?

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


cinnamon0133 54F  
18019 messages
22/6/2019 19h34

Here is a thought 😉🤣

Treat Me Like A Angel And I Will Show You What Heaven Is Really Like


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
23/6/2019 4h07

Great line... and definitely interesting concept. Ya think anyone would catch it, or we'd all be running from it? lol... 😂
Yep... worth a try.. Can you imagine if someone actually threw it? omg... I'm visualizing that whole scene. 😮

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
23/6/2019 4h21

    Citer SeaGirlFL:
    A party celebrating my life sounds pretty fine. I like the idea of sharing food and wine and laughter. Much better than tears.

    Whatcha going to put on your playlist?
Yeah... that playlist will be an eclectic mish mash of a whole bunch of styles and types of songs. That ZZ Top song - Le Grange... for sure. The songs have to have a strong beat! And good tune!
Beetles, Led Zeplin (Whole Lotta Love).... Sam Smith, jeez..... I better start working on that list. 📃
I like many different styles of music 🎶 so it won't be one type. Some new tunes, are nice as well.
You? Whatcha gonna play? 🤔
What's on the menu?
You know me.... Meatloaf... lol... Ribs, bbq chicken.. all my favorites... 😊
Ya know. It would be fun to plan it out.
"Hey kids. The inheritance ain't that much. But here's a playlist and a menu!" lol 😂

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
23/6/2019 4h38

    Citer sexyeyes3212:
    Yeah. Share you blah. How do you know that you wouldn't have a wife then? lol And where is the grave with the man & woman having sex from? My mothers ashes were suppose to go to me. But since she wanted to be with her husband, they are at the evil step people's house.
Me? With a wife? I don't think so. Been there. Done that.
I was looking for a sexy couple, but most of what I found was lame. 😊
Evil step people? Eeeee... Not good.
So... what about you?
Ya got a song you'd want played?
A bunch of food on your menu? 🤔

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
23/6/2019 4h43

    Citer pollly_anna:
    IF you pay they will do 3 days still............why would food be on my list.......?
Hmmm...
Food? You? Of course not! lol.....😊
That would be me...
Rob's and bbq chicken 🐔 and meatloaf and scalloped potatoes and black Forest cake 🎂... 😊

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


BeccaLuvs 57F  
16798 messages
23/6/2019 12h12

"The end" - and here Paul we are all the same, we all have to .....end! People who love us, are close to us, will remember us, but music always 'helps', doesn't it?!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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SeaGirlFL 55F
8677 messages
23/6/2019 18h05

    Citer Paulxx001:
    Yeah... that playlist will be an eclectic mish mash of a whole bunch of styles and types of songs. That ZZ Top song - Le Grange... for sure. The songs have to have a strong beat! And good tune!
    Beetles, Led Zeplin (Whole Lotta Love).... Sam Smith, jeez..... I better start working on that list. 📃
    I like many different styles of music 🎶 so it won't be one type. Some new tunes, are nice as well.
    You? Whatcha gonna play? 🤔
    What's on the menu?
    You know me.... Meatloaf... lol... Ribs, bbq chicken.. all my favorites... 😊
    Ya know. It would be fun to plan it out.
    "Hey kids. The inheritance ain't that much. But here's a playlist and a menu!" lol 😂
Oh, I love that idea...planning the food and the playlist! I might steal that from you.

When my former father in law passed last year, the kids and my brother in law spent hours going through photos and scanning them for a slide show. It was awesome. I might want to pick some of those too.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
23/6/2019 18h49

    Citer SeaGirlFL:
    Oh, I love that idea...planning the food and the playlist! I might steal that from you.

    When my former father in law passed last year, the kids and my brother in law spent hours going through photos and scanning them for a slide show. It was awesome. I might want to pick some of those too.
Oh yes... For sure. Pics! Yes. I forgot about that...
Oh crap... another thing on my list of things to do.....
Make a music MIX , a pics list and menu... for when I'm gone. lol
OMG... What have I started? 🤔
lol... But I can take... my time....
Instead of pissing away a Sunday afternoon, I can get a playlist together.. 😊 👍
It's not MY idea.... Please feel free... I'm just copying what I saw. 😊

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
23/6/2019 18h53

    Citer BeccaLuvs:
    "The end" - and here Paul we are all the same, we all have to .....end! People who love us, are close to us, will remember us, but music always 'helps', doesn't it?!
Music does... and food... and pictures...
Although... I'm not so sure about those dick pics, I have buried in my private folders. I need a safety guardian.... in case I go... before I leave THIS site... lol 😂 😮
Ya have a stash of porn magazines, underneath your bed? omg... lol 😂

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


kimberliejo1 42F  
1912 messages
24/6/2019 8h36

Yelp, put a tear in your beer and drink up y'all... Lol... a celebration of life would be a
wonderful tribute for sure ... I'm with you babe 'no disco'!!! Start off with "I
Remember You" from Skid Row and keep it cranked up, Lol KJ

Putting your heart on your sleeve is a step towards making a lifelong friend!


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
25/6/2019 4h45

Sure... a little Skid Row... 😊 👍 ❤️
Sounds like you might also be a Nickelback fan?
"Someday"? 🤔 😐

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


sexyldy1000 58F  
3460 messages
26/6/2019 23h45

I have signed up as an organ donor so salvageable body parts and tissue will be harvested. Whatever is left will be cremated. There will be no sad songs or standing around mourning. Hopefully, some will gather to share fond memories and laughs while raising a glass of Stoneleigh ( Sauvignon Blanc). Ham, scalloped potatoes, corn and carrots will remind them of my ‘go to’ meal.

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
27/6/2019 5h10

    Citer sexyldy1000:
    I have signed up as an organ donor so salvageable body parts and tissue will be harvested. Whatever is left will be cremated. There will be no sad songs or standing around mourning. Hopefully, some will gather to share fond memories and laughs while raising a glass of Stoneleigh ( Sauvignon Blanc). Ham, scalloped potatoes, corn and carrots will remind them of my ‘go to’ meal.
Sounds like you've got it all planned out.
I like that meal... 😊 👍

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
10/7/2019 3h22

I haven't posted here in a while. I posted this story yesterday. Check it out... It's amusing... 😊
Drake Played At FrankeeZee39s Pool Party

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


tulsaliza 61F  
2366 messages
13/7/2019 9h16

I definitely want a party. Not sure what my first song would be other than something on the Top 100 hits, right now I like the Look Ma, I made it by Panic in the Disco. It is a song about making it to the top, being successful. It would work as my first song. Classic rock and yes, even some of the dreaded disco era songs will work nicely into my mix.

Having just recently encountered having to plan some sort of gathering at the loss of a loved one, I do think it is important to give just a little bit of closure to the family and friends. Though I did it my way and the way I thought my deceased husband would like it done, he always told me that he didn't care, it would be entirely up to me how to deal with the occasion.

So, I did a memorial at the national military cemetery here in Oklahoma, short and sweet. It ended up a perfect weather day for the month of March in Oklahoma and then we gathered at my oldest son and daughter-in-laws house for a brief get together to fondly reflect and then everyone went on their way.

It was perfect. It was what "I" needed to start closing out that chapter and start thinking about opening the next chapter of my life.

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan


Paulxx001 62H
9958 messages
20/7/2019 7h19

I posted this the other day. I hope you enjoy it.
A Fly On The Wall Watching Instant Karma

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
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