Personality
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Publié :27/8/2015 7h51
Dernière mise à jour :10/11/2018 8h41 8643 vues
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Walk.... with personality
Talk.... with personality
Smile.... with personality
Anyone else remember this song?
So riddle me this blogland. On a site where the ultimate goal is to make a physical connection why is there so much lacking from most? Did someone say that getting laid was easy? Well I suppose it is if you've got the cash but then I think this probably isn't the site for you..gold diggers and sugar daddys is that way---------------------------------->
I'm ALL FOR casual encounters in fact I quite enjoy them. However I do not want to have you in my bed, sweaty, disheveled, after a naughty bout of naked twister and turn to you and say
"Well gee that was great now get the fuck out of my house"
Gasp. How does one respond to that? Well in my past situations they have frantically scrambled to grab their clothing, leave my sanctuary, hopping as they put one leg in and stumbling all the way out the door.
I don't think that's going to work for me
I'm a gothy, nerdy geeky girl and there are a few things I love in people, especially men.
Can you dance?
No? Well that's ok cum out with me anyhow and watch me
Can you sing?
No? Well karaoke doesn't require you to do more than have a pair
The two things that make me stop (and my panties drop...when I wear them) is a sense of humor and a large helping of personality
Oh (hand mouth) you is so funny, tee hee hee, awww you make me pee self
Clever. Humorous. Quick witted. Relaxed. A way with words. These things will get my attention faster than a big dick or a nice set of titti...well maybe not that last one. Hey, a girl's gotta pick her battles. So anyone who took the time to read this (all 3 of you..I love you all so much *cries*) remember take a minute to post your cleverest (is that a word) foot forward and don't try so hard to get yourself back in that vagina (preaching) because when you relax the sea of legs shall part and the angels shall sing in the rejoices of your laid back approach.
Hallelujah!!! Amen!!!!
Trust me I've been on this site a long time....I pay attention
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The negatives to sex without commitments
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Publié :16/8/2015 16h55
Dernière mise à jour :17/8/2015 1h39 8704 vues
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Well I find that I ended up spending most of the weekend on my own. Saturday I was taken out for lunch and sours (beer) with a very good friend of mine I made off this site like 10 years ago and I'm so thankful for the friends i have made. With choosing to enjoy carnal pleasures without commitment I find myself at an awkward impasse. That need a lot of women, myself included, have stir from deep within the recesses of primal instinct. That need to be protected. The need to be spoiled. The need to be treated like someone special by one who cares deeply for them. The one who wants total possession of them heart, body and mind. I'd like to chalk it up to my hormones because my freedom is of the utmost importance to me but right now I almost feel like I would give in to someone with ulterior motives for my body if I could just be spoiled...even for a little while.
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How to approach a woman on a sex site
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Publié :20/1/2015 17h19
Dernière mise à jour :10/11/2018 8h44 11666 vues
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As a female on this site and a cammer I have had my share of offers from people on this site, most of which turn me off. But Goth, you're on a sex site doesn't that mean you're ready to just jump into every offer you receive? Why no, I'm not. Sadly most won't realize what I'm looking for since A.F.F won't allow a person to view a profile that isn't paying for it so a lot of time and energy is wasted and headaches ensue.
People let me start by saying I have accepted offers, I have amazing experiences, ok experiences, bad experiences, new experiences and the kinds you wished you never put yourself into. I have had several fwb and i even ultimately had a long term relationship because of this site and I cherish it all. It's who I am. I love sex and I'm always trying to find that experience that just wows me. In the meantime, I make friends, a lot of really good ones actually, meet people and occasionally even have a good time but let's get to the point of this blog posting.
Most of the women I know from this site actually like to get to know someone so if the icon I have to look at of you is your genitalia I"m probably going to be put off by it. It's hard to take a conversation seriously when I have to look at your dick be it flaccid or hard or somewhere inbetween. Is that how you would introduce yourself to me if we were at a coffee shop. I thought not.
Asking if I'm horny or if you can come over when I haven't even talked to you is an instant goodbye. For me at least. If I want to fuck a stranger I'll approach you. I admit it can be a fantasy to meet somewhere random and someone just grab me and pull me into a corner and show me something hot and heavy and just push all the right buttons to leave me disheveled in a corner when its all over but again it does take a mood to get me into that frame of mind which isn't all the time. Best approach drop the I want to fuck your pussy pick up lines and just say hi.
Sexy is intelligence. It is manners. Sometimes I wonder if some of you guys kiss your mothers with those mouths of yours. Try doing something as simple as talking generally and then if it seems like your clicking take it to another level. I don't find myself interested in telling you everything sexual I'm into within the first minute of you sending me a message. It's a long list and I'd rather show someone who interests me as well.
I'm not bashful I do approach guys here and I do meet them. I also meet with a 0 expectation of anything happening. If it does awesome that means we connected nicely if it doesn't no big loss I met a really cool person where we just didn't mesh. It's all good. I just ask for a little courtesy here because again i truly enjoy sex but there's sex and then there's feeling like a piece of meat and i do have some respect for myself as most of theother women on here seem to as well.
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Why a profile A.F.F. why?
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Publié :29/8/2014 15h16
Dernière mise à jour :10/11/2018 8h48 13189 vues
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It's not like anyone reads these things initially. Let me tell you a story....
I've been on this site for a very long time. That's right kiddies this is not my first rodeo or my first handle on this site. It is my second. I do a lot of things on this site.
I try to email folks back (well as best as I can after all I'm what's considered a "unicorn" *snicker snort* on this site) .
I blog, I chat and I cam.
I also like to meet people in real life. I know, I know...you're thinking
woah..no way a chick who actually meets people it simply can not be possible"
ahh but my lovelies it is.
The reasons you may ask well I'm glad you did (and if you didn't I'm going to tell you anyways...)
First: My typing is atrocious
Second: I can only masturbate so often before my hands go on strike
and third...
I don't get nearly as much attention as I would like.
Those very reasons put me on this site years ago and they are the reasons I still reside here occasionally today.
The almighty profile. The profile is a place where you can share a little bit about yourself, your history, what you are looking for and anything that you are not looking for.
However most don't look past the pictures before they look you up. I proved a point once upon a time. If you've seen the pic with me with bright red hair I posted that pic as a profile and then went on to say how I was a pre-op and how with the right plastic surgeon you can fool the best of them. This profile was up for months so when someone would hit me up and talk to me about my profile and tell me how much they enjoyed it I would ask what part did you like..the tits or my balls? needless to say most of those guys quickly excused themselves and i never heard from them again. I really think if you're going to compliment a profile you should really understand the whole meat and potatoes of it.
Dissection of a profile.
Let's look at mine....
Welcome to my profile. Most of you old-timers might remember my previous profile "velvetgrrrl". For whatever reason a couple years back it just disappeared and i have no idea if it's even retrievable after so many years. So here goes round ahem hm cough cough...
Again not my first time here and unless I get married (hahaha...do you suppose I'm jaded that I laugh at that institution? Personally I'd rather be institutionalized by the state
I'm a 37 year old female and I'm open to suggestions. I'm not attached to anyone at this time but not really sure if i want to be. I DO have kids...have a problem with that? Then move along I do not have the time for wasted energy. Been there, done that and still a bit perturbed over the end results.
Please do not assume because I'm on this site and am NOT looking for a relationship that I'm going to just invite you over, with my children under the same roof and fuck your brains out. I will probably have to fine tooth comb my profile to make sure that those out there are aware that if I have not talked to you, have not met you in a public location and have not determined there is an interest from both parties that I probably won't be giving you my name...let alone my address.
One thing that folks may remember about me is I'm age picky. I haven't changed on that either. I am looking for someone at least 27 and no older than 44. I have made exceptions in the past but you really need to get to know me and capture my interest to get past that initial barrier.
Ok this one bugs me the most and is how I know no one bothers to take a moment to read my profile. I am age picky for reasons. If you're closer to my oldest son's age than my own chances are I probably won't fuck you. It would probably give me some sort of heebie-jeebie thought of sex with children. No bueno. If you're closer to my parents' ages than my own there is no way I'm going to go there. Will I talk to you? Sure, just DON'T try to get in my pants. Don't try to ask me out. I just can't get past my own personal issues with age. My mom is 55. My dad is 60. So if you can be old enough to have been part of my creation.... Just no. I don't have a daddy complex. I don't want someone to take care of me and I'm sorry for the bluntness I just don't want to look at old balls and penis. Too much? Perhaps. Necessary? Definitely. I realize someday too my boobs will sag and my vagina will look like a botched dinner plan but until then....
I'm a full time student. This means I'm pretty busy. Can I make time? Absolutely just know that school and family will always come first.
Self explanatory. I'm busy. Despite the ungodly amounts of time I spend on here I have a lot of things I can do and I actually probably shouldn't be spending the time on here or any other social networking. I blame it on the ADD. *grin*
I'm also a full time photographer so I'm surrounded by beautiful secure people a lot. This must be why i do it because I am not beautiful nor secure (translation:emotional/security issues not really but I thought I would concern you for a moment)
Ok if you're interested in getting photographed that's fantastic. Have an event? Need to hire someone? Awesome. We'll review rates and work and see if i can help you in your time of need. Do not use ploys such as come take my naked pictures as a ploy to get naked and get me in your presence. I take my business very seriously as it is supplemental income to my going to school. Also do not question me about my models they have their own lives that have nothing to do with this site. Surefire way to irk me take the one thing I love as much as my family and drag it through the mud
What do i want? Hell if I know. But maybe I will find it here. After all you can't get anywhere without trying first.
No I do not know what I want if it's anything at all. Does that mean I'm against the idea of things? Not at all it just means I may be a slower choice than others when it comes to this site. Great things come to those with patience.
Now let's look at the "my bad" part of it. Things I did not think I would have to mention. I don't do cybersex. I'm not a cam to cam person it does nothing for me unless I have an emotional connection to you. Do not try to do more than chat if you live so far away that I can not easily visit within a couple hours. I personally try to keep within a 200 mile radius and thats a lot. I have been known to break my own rules but that's with time and getting to know a person without all the sex talk iniitially. I know I come across like a raging cunt and I may be pre-menapausal but I know what I want to a point. I want FRIENDS who I can share the fun BENEFITS of being so with them.
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The Closet HeteroSexual
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Publié :29/8/2014 12h47
Dernière mise à jour :15/8/2015 11h33 12974 vues
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Ok so this is something I posted once on my old profile before it was disintegrated into virtual space.....so I'm going to revisit the concept.
Being a bisexual woman and trying to meet the right someone who is on the same page as you has proven to be quite difficult. So many women have this idea that they're attracted to women but when put to the test there is hesitancy and dare I say...fear when there is a woman wanting and potentially naked in front of them.
Let's review for those of you who still go to clubs you see these women. They're dancing close to another woman, rubbing against them and running hands all over each other's bodies. Maybe if you're lucky you'll see them making out on the dance floor and what do they get?
A lot of hard cocks who's eyes who's eyes are inadvertently drawn to them. You can't look away especially if they're attractive women and they're all over each other. I'm beginning to believe this is a ploy for them to attract a variety of men that they can pick and choose from to take home.
They may even come up to you, as a single attractive woman on your own and tell you you're hot and would you like to dance, the alcohol heavy on their breath as they drag you, the woman out onto the dance floor and start pressing their breasts against yours. Hands sliding to those oh so intimate of places until you feel yourself getting wet. After a time all the frenzied moving will lead them into kissing you. You're so turned on you can't think of anything else but I want to get this woman home and show her what a good time really feels like. You are about to invite them home to your place for a more intimate setting when you notice their gaze surveying the men who can not take their eyes off the two of you. And your high dissipates on a cloud of smoke.
This is not a bisexual woman this is a clever and cunning woman that knows about 90 percent of males fantasize at the opportunity to have two women naked in his bed that night.....after all what's better than one wet pussy? Two of them.
The closet heterosexual leads the bi-woman or lesbian into believing they, like many of those men, stand a chance with her. She touches you, says the right thing and when the end of the evening rolls around.....
she picks the cream of the crop man to take home and show them just how dynamic she can be.
As a bi-sexual woman I wish I could find more women that were interested in more than just a cock to shove into her over and over again. After all if it's cock she's after I can certainly pull my friend out strap it on and show her who needs a man when my cock never goes soft and she doesn't have to suck it unless she wants to go for the visual. Which in itself, I must admit, can be quite hot.
So to all you closet heterosexuals..don't lie to those of us who might actually be interested. If you're playing a game, tell us the rules we might enjoy playing along.
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An A F F buffet
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Publié :26/8/2014 11h30
Dernière mise à jour :1/7/2015 14h52 12884 vues
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appears to consists of incredibly appetizing morsels, truly delectable even however none of the food is grown locally. Isn't that a shame? he site has presented me some amazing people, some good connections and incredible opportunities and I have found exactly what I'm looking for and it is not something I can get within the hour. No fast food available here. I'm sure there are tasty treats available locally but they are hiding in some hole in the wall location that receives no publicity and that no one shares for fear of it becoming too popular. Share...we learned this in Kindergarten. I always shared my food, my toys....and until the day Star Trek technology becomes the norm...I find myself searching for that perfect meal.
Scotty, One to beam up!
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Sleep is for the weak
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Publié :30/7/2014 11h33
Dernière mise à jour :26/8/2014 11h22 13361 vues
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I'm mildly delusional sitting in the college library as I wait for my next class. Less than 4 hours of sleep in 48 hours would give anyone a case of the hallucinating shakes.
I started thinking about camming. I've always been a bit of a cam whore. It's a great ego boost and honestly I could have no teeth, no hair and a mustache and someone would probably still be interested in me all because of a glory hole between the legs and two mounds of flesh piled on my chest.
The other day I was actually reading the comments of my cam. No mind you I'm pretty pg with camming I just don't feel the need to show off anything special because there really isn't anything special.
So back on track You could see the lower half of my face and the top of my shirt. No heavy cleavage here folks I was hiding major sunburn. And the guys started talking about body parts on me they couldn't even see.
Now again, I'm mildly delusional right now but how can you talk about my tits, my ass or my pussy like you were intimate if you can't even see them to give a fantastic and more accurate description. And the things they ask...or demand....
Now I like filthy nasty talk as much as the next girl but I'm usually being filthy and nasty while that tok occurs. It does nothing for me if there is nothing fun going on.
I'm just rambling I suppose in my sleep deprived haze...
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Never any to get when you want
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Publié :26/7/2014 21h48
Dernière mise à jour :27/7/2014 3h15 13194 vues
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Perhaps it's just me but my once overactive sexual libido seems to have dwindled with age to a very dull roar. More like a whisper. The urge has just left me and it's sad to say adieu to my dear friend. We have been through a lot together so when she comes back to visit I find myself frantically scrambling to find anything...anyone to sate our needs.
Here's the problem....
I have no longer been actively looking due to the lack of drive from her desires. So there's no regular friend I can just randomly "hit up" when I'm desperately in need to quench the overwhelming ache that is my sexual needs.
So how does my Saturday night end up?
With a vibrator and some lubed fingers.
Sad. So very very sad.
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Welcome to the train wreck.....
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Publié :25/7/2014 18h00
Dernière mise à jour :26/8/2014 11h31 13215 vues
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This is not my first post however it is my first post under my new profile. My previous profile was lost in cyberspace, much like my sexual escapades and I must start with more than a face lift.
I'll take a moment to introduce myself. I'm a 37 yr old bisexual female from Port-weird-ia aka Portland. Home to various television shows, food carts, hippies, extreme liberals, and a dysfunction you would only hope to see in a psychiatrist's office seeking much needed guidance. And medication....
lots and lots of medication.
I plan to share exploits, concerns, questions and anything that pops my cherry in a way that was more satisfactory than the first time.
I hope you'll take the time to follow along on my misadventures through my photography, my luck with the men, the ladies, my geek and gamer girl life, and overall my twisted sense of humor and outlook on anything and everything. I'm incredibly blunt and speak my mind so if you're easily offended this may not be the place for you.
Remember most of what I post is an opinion, and it's mine, so you're welcome to not agree with it but I'm not sure I'm interested in verbal World War lll. On that note I will be back again soon to share whatever catches my fancy
Please feel free to drop a post in my virginal diary of a guestbook that you were here. I can only hope this blog sees more action than I do.
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