HOW to EAT Pussy
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This section is for men who want learn how to properly eat a woman's
pussy, or who've heard that it might not be all that bad to put their
face down there, and for women who want to get their man to eat them
period, improvement in performance can come later.
I am not an expert. I am simply a man who knows what she likes, and
has had all too many experiences, with men who didn't seem to have the
vaguest idea what they were doing between her legs.
Eating a woman's pussy is about the most wonderful thing you can do
for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it
makes her cum like crazy. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and
for
most, it's the easiest way to cum with a man. You may have the
littlest cock on the planet, but if you give great head, you'll be
appreciated as a fabulous lover. Yes, it's that important. Besides,
lots of women expect it these days so you might as well get to know
what you're doing. Studies show that 90 percent of married couples
under 25 give head and for couples over 50, at least 55 percent of
the
men are eating pussy, with 95 percent of the men and 82 percent of
the
women enjoying it.
Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women's
genitalia. Guys that can't wait to get their cock into one are often
reluctant to put their face "down there." For every guy who says he
loves to eat pussy, there's another one who's squeamish. Women know
this, and it affects their ability to lie back and enjoy the
experience.
This is for you gals. Before you can get him to eat pussy for the
first time, you need to get him worked up about the idea, that is,
get
him to think about sex for a few minutes, but don't do anything to
make him cum yet. He's got a sex switch in his brain that turns on
when he sees a woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon
as
he cums, this is why who does what first can be very important in the
beginning, less so as the two of you mature. Fortunately, it won't
take much to get him to eat you the first time, just undress and ask
him to, let him look at your pussy for a while, show him your clit
and
let him play with it, promise him a good fuck afterwards or a blowjob
if you've read the second section, if he seems the least bit
interested straddle his head and rub your bush over his face.
What's Down There?
This is for you guys. Most men don't really know what they've been
sticking their cock into. Many women also don't appreciate what they
have, and can't understand why a man would think that it was
beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it.
Why would a man like to eat pussy? Most men I know who really love
women and want make having sex with them a joint endeavor rather than
a conquest, also like to eat pussy. They don't want to just eat her,
they want to bring her to a great climax and then build her up for a
fuck that neither will forget, or maybe get a good blowjob if that's
what she wants to do. I think that there are two basic reasons.
First,
many men want to give their woman the most sexual satisfaction they
can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so,
the more their woman likes what they are doing to her, the harder
their cocks get until sometimes they cum just from eating her. The
second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in
sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction
that takes place during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some
of
the more erogenous zones of the body and are active rather than
passive, you do something with them. You nibble on her ears, kiss and
suck on her nipples, kiss her navel, why not kiss and suck on the
most
sexual part of her body, her pussy. The tastes and odors of the fresh
secretions from a clean healthy woman's pussy are also erotic to many
men. Put this all together and your mouth in her pussy is where it's
at guys.
Now that you've got your woman out of the shower, on the bed, and
fairly well warmed up (or she's got you there), stop and look at what
you see. Leave the lights on, or get a flashlight or something, so
that you can examine her carefully. Take a good look at what's
between
her legs. Beautiful, isn't it? There's nothing that makes a woman
more
unique than her pussy. I know. I've seen plenty of them. They come in
all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a
little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out
to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are
covered
with transparent fuzz.
The first thing you see is her muff. It should be the same color as
the rest of her hair but who knows these days. It has a slightly
different texture than the hair on her head and can cover a large or
small area but usually just up over the mons area, that fleshy mound
over her pelvic bone, and down each side of her pussy to its lower
end. It usually does not spread out to her thighs and has sparse
growth partially onto the outer lips.
Don't worry, looking at it won't make you go blind. Nestled in the
midst of her muff are the outer, or major, lips of her pussy (they
are
vertical on all women). They are not overly sensitive to touch on the
outside (but it's a good place to start), about the same as the shaft
of your cock. They extend from the upper part of the hood that covers
her clit to more or less the bottom of her pussy. They're thick and
luscious in the middle and thin out at each end blending into her
body. Some are almost closed while others are open to varying
extents,
allowing the inner pleasures to peep through. They don't generally
come together completely at the top, exposing the upper cone of the
clitoral hood, and less so at the bottom, giving you a glimpse of the
bottom of the vaginal entrance where the lower parts of the inner
lips
surround it.
Underneath the outer lips are the inner, or minor, lips. These are
much thinner, more sensitive and fun to play with. At the top they
form the cone-shaped hood that protects the sensitive clit, closing
in
under the clit and then coming back out to continue down to the
bottom
of the vaginal entrance. They tend to blossom out between the outer
lips, especially near the bottom.
Between the underside of the clit and the bottom of the vaginal
opening lies the vestibule, your new playground. Although the clit's
hood is a part of the inner lips, they appear to only cover the
vestibule. The urethra and vagina open into the vestibule. Excluding
the obvious first place role of the clit, it's the vestibule and the
entrance to the vagina where a lot of the action takes place.
I've saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit, accent on the
first syllable. Most of you know it, but for those who don't, it's
THE
woman's sex organ, period. It may feel great to be fucked vaginally
or
otherwise, but if the stimulation isn't right there, on the clit,
you're ignoring the place that's going to make her cum, and
presumably
that's why you're reading this, right? It's right there at the top
juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. This is where
it's at boys, and don't forget it. Almost any licking and sucking of
the labia or vaginal entrance are going to feel just dandy; just
remember that's pleasurable, teasing, not the main event. I can't
tell
you how many guys have thrust their tongues up my cunt thinking that
that was going to make me cum. They were wrong. Of course, with a
little manual stimulation . . . but I'm getting ahead of myself.
Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can
take
on their clit. Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their
exposed clits, others will shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman
who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the
goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly,
such as through her labia. IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is
unacceptably
rough at first, may be fine after she's very excited. The fact is,
most women really need a good bit of stimulation before a targeted
attack on their clit, but once they're ready, that's where you want
to
devote your attention.
Back off for now, rest your head on her thigh and just admire the
view. Learn to appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her
what makes her special. Describe what you see, in poets' words if you
can, but in any way you can as long as it's with love and admiration.
Positions
You can give head to your woman in just about any position she can
get
herself into, floating on her back in a swimming pool with her legs
around your neck, standing on a picnic table, however, some positions
are obviously better than others. Giving good head to your woman on a
lazy summer afternoon can take an hour or more if you play it right.
That means that you both have to be in comfortable positions to enjoy
it, or even endure it. That usually means a lying, sitting or
reclining position. She has to be able to spread her legs comfortably
and hold them in that position. She should not have to have the
weight
of your body on her, or hers on you. She also needs to be able to put
her hands on your head and pull it against her. You need to be able
to
make eye contact with her while you are eating her. You have to be
able to press your mouth to and your tongue in all of her pussy,
including holding it deep in her cunt without getting a crick in your
neck. You also have to be able to easily place your hands on her
pussy
and your fingers in her cunt.
The obvious place to start is a bed. She can recline comfortably
against some pillows and watch you work. You can lie on your stomach
between her legs, however, you'll have to tilt your head too far back
to get your tongue in her cunt comfortably. Putting a couple of
pillows under her hips to tilt her pelvis up will help with that
problem. This is probably one of the better positions. Another good
one, maybe the best, is for her to slide her hips to the edge of the
bed and rest her feet on two overstuffed chairs that are spread apart
enough for you to rest between them. They can be turned so that she
can rest her knees against the arms or backs. A couple of pillows
under her head and she can reach your head and watch to her harts
content. You can rest on a soft cushion on the floor, your head
resting on her thigh, sucking on her clit for hours and have easy
access to all of your afternoon's pleasures.
And then there's 69. . . . 69 is one of my favorite positions. On the
plus side, you both get to enjoy the sublime sensations of getting
head simultaneously. The upside down positioning of a woman's pussy
and your mouth is an easy fit and there's more room for your hands.
On
the negative side, it's a less than ideal position for a woman to
suck
cock and you may not feel comfortable with your nose in her anus when
you French kiss her cunt. I also love for a man to reach down, thrust
his tongue deep in my cunt and then slowly lap it back up to my clit
which doesn't work well upside down. Plus, if you need to read this
book, you may be better off concentrating your energies on pleasing
her without too much distraction at first. But even for experienced
69'ers, it's easy to short-change your partner. "It feels soooo good,
I'm just gonna stop for a second and concentrate on what you're . . .
aaaarrrgghhh." Get the picture? Some show of willpower is in order.
She can also straddle your face which can be a lot of fun, but be
prepared to get very wet. There are endless varieties of positions
where you can press your face up to her pussy, some of which strike
me
as more acrobatic than erotic, but feel free to experiment.
Getting Started
For you gals who need instruction . . . just lie back and enjoy it,
it'll grow on you. When he does something you like, tell him. Hold
his
head gently with your hands and guide him, talk to him, he'll love
it.
Now for the men. So there you are, staring at it - the mysterious
hole
from whence you came, and into which you hope to cum again . . .
The key here is to go slow, ask questions, really explore her body.
Body language often tells what feels best, but I promise, she'll
appreciate your attentiveness if you ask outright. If she seems shy,
get her to guide your hands and mouth with her own hands, and pay
attention. Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got
the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry
about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which
parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you
enough to let you down between her legs. Women are a good deal more
verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They respond more to
verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it
will
be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her
beautiful pussy, talk to her about it. There's nothing more exciting
to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. Don't
be
coy; tell her.
Many men, and women, feel that the tastes and odors associated with a
woman's pussy are offensive. This isn't so, the natural fragrance and
secretions of a healthy woman are beautiful and erotic, especially to
a man. You both need to settle this question at the very beginning.
Take turns tasting and smelling her pussy's natural fluids when she's
fresh and clean. When you finger her and then smell, lick, suck the
juice off your finger and sigh as if in heaven, she'll forget this
problem and you can dive right in.
What if your sweet lady doesn't smell or taste very sweet? Don't
suffer. (Don't complain, either.) Take a nice hot shower or bath
together. Lather up both of your bodies and slide them together. It's
like a whole body fuck. Soap up her pussy, washing between her outer
and inner lips. Spread her lips apart and gently wash her clit. Hey,
don't stop - this feels great! Run your soapy hand down the crack of
her ass, and rub a finger all around her anus, washing the
entrance/exit well. But don't put those soapy fingers up her cunt.
Instead, rinse them off well and stick one or two inside, making a
circular motion. Think about washing the inside of a tall glass -
same
thing. She may prefer to use a douche, if she does, help her do it,
you can get your fingers in her cunt later. Now wasn't that fun? Now
you can feel free to let your tongue wander anywhere it pleases . . .
Even though your woman wants you to eat her, she may still be
somewhat
hesitant about your going down on her. Don't just dive right in, warm
her up with some serious kissing and cuddling. Move over on top of
her
and put your legs between hers. Use your elbows to keep some of your
weight off her. Slowly work your way down her body, caressing,
licking
and kissing her ears, eyes, throat, breasts, navel, and wherever she
likes. Press your body down on her muff and slide it around as you
move down, getting her used to something being on it besides your
hand
and cock. Lap your tongue on down from her navel to the inside of her
thigh. Raise her legs over your shoulders and rest your cheek on her
muff while you continue to lick and kiss her thigh. Lick the crease
between her thigh and pussy. Brush your lips over her muff as you
turn
your head over to work on her other thigh. Look up at her, make eye
contact and smile while you rub your cheek over her pussy. When you
see her facial _expression begin to change to one of anticipation and
feel her tilt her pussy up toward you, you know she's forgotten all
about her hesitancy and you can start getting into the good stuff.
So now what? You've found a comfy spot to play, you've been kissing
passionately, your tongues darting around in each other's mouths like
playful otters. You've moved on down to some of the other interesting
parts of her body and she's starting to groan, ready for you to eat
her now, grinding her pelvis against you. STOP. I know it was just
starting to get good. But was she really groaning and humping you, or
was it your own excitement you were detecting?
I strongly prefer to be excited before a guy starts plunging his
tongue into my inner recesses. Use your judgment, women, even more so
than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is one of
her
more tender spots. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip
of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away.
Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her
pussy.
Nuzzle your face into her muff. Brush your lips over her pussy
without
pressing down on it to further excite her until she's arching up her
back trying to get you to eat her. Of course, if she really was
groaning and grinding, go for it . . . I also don't particularly
enjoy
a guy endlessly nibbling my inner thigh while my clit is quivering in
anticipation.
Moisten your fingers and open her outer lips, examine them, taste the
texture of the inner side with your tongue. See if her clit is
starting to peek out from under its hood. Play with her inner lips
with your lips and tongue. Open her inner lips and examine the
vestibule. See if you can find her meatus, the opening for her
urethra. Its sort of like the opening in the head of your cock that
she plays with, now play with hers with your tongue. Look at the hole
your cock has been playing around in. The entrance to her cunt looks
like an open flower with its lower petals blending into the larger
lowermost petals of the inner lips. Taste its juices with your
tongue,
they should be flowing now. Slip your tongue farther in and feel the
texture, move it around in her cunt and watch her response.
But I'm getting ahead of myself again.
The Tongue
I want to repeat, there's almost nothing you can do with your tongue
that won't feel terrific, so relax! I promise, you may be confused
and
uncertain, but she's in heaven. Any licking and sucking of her lips,
cunt, or clit are going to feel just great, and I'd no sooner tell
guys to "do it exactly like this" than I would tell every chef to
follow the same recipe. But for those who are compelled to RTMF, here
are a few techniques that you might like to try:
Play around in the vestibule, try lapping her pussy from her cunt up
to her clit, leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed. This is a good
way to start your tonguing. Run your tongue between the inner and
outer lips on one side, while holding the two together with your
lips.
Good job, now do the other side. Fuck her cunt with your tongue - in
and out, around and around, etc. This feels nice. Not wonderful or
incredible or earthshaking, nice. Keep your tongue in her cunt for a
while, moving the tip around and around and . . . That feels better,
now lick up to her clit again and kiss it, watch her shudder. Feel
the
texture of the tip of her clit with your tongue, notice the taste of
it. Spend some time slowly licking your tongue over all of her pussy,
savoring the various tastes and textures.
Spread her outer lips with your hand. Then, with your tongue pointed
and stiff, gently flick here and there. Feel free to roam, but keep
coming back to her clit. This drives some women wild, and others
can't
take it. Some may prefer that you always leave your tongue soft, so
when you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy
or
pain.
The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner
is really hot (i.e., she's no longer coherent). These are very
intense
actions which may be "too much" for some women, even when nearing
orgasm.
With her clit still exposed, give it a quick little suck - pulling it
into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking
a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is
a fine thing to do if you feel like torturing her (see PUTTING IT ALL
TOGETHER below).
Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently (at first, anyway)
suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it.
This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with
fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.
Another choice technique involves rolling your tongue into a tube. If
you can't do this with your tongue, you can't learn it - it's
genetic.
For those who can, this works best in an inverted or 69 position.
Roll
your tongue into a tube around the shaft of her clit. Slide it up and
down; in effect, your tongue makes a tiny cunt for her clit to fuck.
This also is likely to bring her over the edge.
Fingers
Fingers are valuable adjuncts to eating pussy. Most women masturbate
by pressing a finger or fingers over their clit, possibly "thru" the
skin of their lips, and vigorously rubbing in a circular or
back-and-forth direction. You can do this too, ask her, or better
yet,
have her show you how she likes it done. You'll never be a good lover
until you can bring your woman to climax with your hands. When you
fuck her from behind, or really in any position which doesn't allow
her to simultaneously rub her clit against your body, reach down or
around and rub her clit. I know it's distracting, but just do it
anyway. One important point to note: make sure that your fingers are
well lubricated and most of all, your nails cut, I mean cut back to
the quick and sanded smooth. The slightest hangnail can be very
painful when raked over that tender flesh. There's nothing more
uncomfortable (and sometimes downright painful) than a dry finger or
hangnail roughly rubbed across one's clit.
Of course, that's not all you can do with your fingers. One technique
which is very exciting is to spread her lips wide apart with one
hand,
and with your index finger straight like a pencil, flick the side of
it rapidly across her clit. This motion alone will often bring a
woman
to orgasm. Combining this with the addition of some tongue action
elsewhere is nothing short of bliss.
Sticking one or more fingers inside her cunt can also be wonderful.
How many fingers you use depends on the woman. Some women don't want
you to stick your finger in their cunt at all, some like only one (at
least at first), some like their cunt to be full so the more the
better (within reason). You can simply move them in and out (this
feels best with at least two or three fingers pushed in hard) or
wiggle them around. A particularly intense motion is to face your
hand
so that you have two fingers inside her with your palm facing the
front of her body. Now move your fingers rapidly, as if waving hello.
You're aiming to stimulate a particular part of the woman's vagina -
namely the lower anterior (front) part. When combined with sucking
her
clit, this is nearly certain to bring her to a fast and intense
climax.
If you're between her legs, busily eating away, and want to finger
her
at the same time, your thumb (or thumbs) may be the best ones to use.
It is difficult to turn your other fingers around to work on her "G"
spot. It also allows you to use your other fingers on her clit and
the
rest of her pussy.
An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick one (and
later two) fingers inside her, with your palm cupped over the mons
area. I'm talking about that fleshy "mound" over her pubic bone. Your
finger goes in and out and the ball of your hand is pressed hard
against her pussy. You may want to rub or even shake the entire area
with your palm.
Putting it All Together
I think variety is crucial. Some guy posted an article detailing a
road map of kissing and licking (first here, then here, etc.) Much
better to do the unexpected, sometimes a hungry, aggressive approach,
other times a laid-back, leisurely one. You can even include your
nose, or your chin in the act. Start slowly, that's the key, and let
your lover guide the speed of the crescendo, try playing Ravel's
Bolero and keep pace with the time and intensity of the music. In all
cases, start gently. Roughness and clumsiness are big turn-offs. As
she gets more excited, pay more attention to her clit. As she gets
closer to orgasm, don't leave her clit for more than a moment or two.
It's great to move down to her cunt and then right back to her clit.
If you're between her legs with your tongue in her cunt, look at
where
her clit is, right under your nose. Don't just look at it, use your
nose and keep up the stimulation of her clit while you're thrusting
your tongue around in her cunt. If you're in the 69 position, then
use
your chin on her clit while you French kiss her cunt.
When she's three breaths away from cumming, moving your mouth off or
away from her clit is agony. That's fine if you're intentionally
torturing her, just understand that this is what you're doing. The
only prohibition is to be reasonably gentle with her clit. Nibbling
or
biting is fine elsewhere, but we're talking about a sensitive spot.
Speaking of prolonging the agony . . . I think this is great fun.
Bring your partner just to the edge of orgasm, and stop . This
isn't easy unless you really know your lover well. Just have her help
you. Say, "Grab my head and stop me just before you think you're
gonna
cum." Then take your sweet time. Blow on her clit, take it into your
mouth just briefly, flick it just the slightest bit with your tongue.
You'll have this woman squirming and moaning like she's dying. Finger
her deeply, enjoy the ecstasy you're imparting, and finally, have
pity. Let the poor woman cum.
OK, lets get back to where we were when we got off onto those tricks
with tongues and fingers. You were lying there with your tongue up
her
cunt trying to find out what it felt like inside, nice wasn't it, she
liked it didn't she. Open her outer and inner lips with your fingers.
Get your whole mouth into the act. Press your lips against the lips
of
her cunt, Run your tongue in as far as you can get it and French kiss
her cunt, long and hard. Tongue-fuck her for a while, watching her
response, she liked that too, then slide your tongue out of her cunt.
She's hot now, don't lose contact with her pussy, keep your mouth or
tongue working on something. Slowly lap your tongue up the length of
her vestibule to her clit and gently lick it a few times, a little
harder as she raises her crotch up to you.
Play with her pussy lips with your lips and tongue, up and down, both
sides. Kiss her cunt again and lap your tongue back up to her meatus
and play with it a little, then on up to her clit again, pulling
gently on it with your lips. Run your tongue back down to the bottom
of her pussy and then, keeping your tongue on the outside of her
lips,
lap it all the way up to the top. Show her how much you like to eat
her. Open your mouth wide and close it down over her pussy taking as
much in as you can. press your mouth hard against her, rocking your
head around and around while you find her clit with your tongue and
start to lick it. She's running her fingers through your hair now,
watching you intently, mouth open making those sexy sounds women make
when they're really on the way up.
Release her lips and look up at her face, make eye contact, watch her
_expression and feel her raise her pussy up to you as you gently suck
the head of her clit into your mouth, open wider and take its hood
in,
holding it with your lips. Let her clit slip back under its hood,
then
suck it into your mouth again, flicking it with your tongue, let it
slide back out under its hood and suck it back into your mouth again
and again until it's sliding in and out like she was fucking you with
it. Slide your hands up along the sides of her pussy, working your
thumbs into her cunt, fingering the top of it in time with the
strokes
of her clit. She's grabbed your head, setting the pace as she pulls
you to her harder and harder, rocking her crotch back and forth
faster
and faster. You've found what she wants and she's gonna cum and you'd
better not stop until she does . . . and then some.
69
69 can be done male on top, female on top, or side by side. The
latter
two are easier, though it's more restful with both partners lying
down. Some women love being licked on all fours, so if female-on-top
69 drives her wild, take the hint and find ways to eat her in this
position. All she has to do is slide her knees out and you'll find
your mouth in her pussy. I happen to enjoy male on top, but for women
who haven't learned to deep-throat, this is a sure choking position.
If your woman wants to deep-throat you while you're eating her,
male-on-top is THE 69 position. When her head is tilted back,
especially if you're taller than she is, you can really slide your
cock all the way down her throat. But don't forget what you're
supposed to be doing! Each of you must realize that you can't let up
on what you're supposed to be doing just because what the other is
doing feels so good. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure you're
feeling enhance what you're doing. It's sort of like a payback,
you're
making me feel so good I'm going to make you feel even better. Once
you've mastered throat fucking, man on top 69 can really get
interesting, he can eat you and fuck you at the same time. The only
problem comes when he can't make up his mind whether to concentrate
on
fucking or sucking. Don't worry about it, just lie there and enjoy
it,
let him sort it out, he'll get around to finishing both jobs.
The element that must be in place for good 69 is simple: Both of you
must be experienced! Each of you must realize that when what the
other
is doing feels so good, you can't just let up on what you're supposed
to be doing to enjoy it. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure
you're feeling enhance what you're doing, share each other's
emotions.
That's why, when my lover and I engage in oral sex, we like 69 so
much, we can build each other's pleasure to such wonderful
simultaneous climaxes.
As I said earlier, some women feel lonely when you're eating their
pussy, they want something to hug. Well, you can give them something.
Eat her in a side by side 69 position and let her hug your cock, with
her mouth. She can put her arms around your hips, press her breasts
against you and hold your cock in her mouth while you put her on
cloud
nine, just make sure you tell her not to distract you too much.
If you have a man who is not in the least interested in giving head
and only likes to receive it, then to attempt sixty-nine is to ask
for
unhappiness in your relationship. You can tell if he really likes to
eat your pussy. See if you can find a time when the two of you are in
bed naked on your backs and he doesn't have a hard-on. Quietly roll
over onto your knees, straddle his head and slowly rub your muff over
his face, letting your moist lips slide over his nose and mouth. Look
back at his cock. If it springs up toward the ceiling and you find
his
tongue in your cunt, then he likes it.
UUUUNNNNGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! (or, I'M COMING!!!)
Okay, she's grabbed your head and pressed your face into her muff;
she's practically suffocating you, she's screaming and bucking up in
the air; you feel her cunt contracting wildly - how long should you
keep it up?? The answer is simple, until she makes you stop. Some
women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their climax,
others may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you'd just
keep going. Do come up for air, but remember, her excitement does not
drop off as sharply as yours does. Play it safe by continuing the
stimulation.
If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time,
you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her
with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high
on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman
is unique. You may have one whose nipples get hard when she's excited
or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or
begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more
sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's
sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration.
When
she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue
along
the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move
your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move
them a little, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just
now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this
way, a woman stays excited for an hour after she's had an orgasm.
How many times does she need to cum? Some women are very content to
have one orgasm. A whole lot of women would really like to cum again,
but need about five minutes to recoup. Many women are so sensitive
right after they cum that they may push your head violently away.
This
doesn't necessarily mean they've had enough, only that you need to
stop for a few minutes. In fact most women, given a short rest
between, are capable of cumming again and again. A smaller percentage
of women are able to cum repeatedly with continued stimulation. This
is the much-touted multiple-orgasm that's experienced by a minority
of
women. I know this makes it difficult to know when enough is enough,
but there's a simple answer: ask her.
After you've made her cum, don't leave her alone just yet. A man can
get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no
sense of loss. But a woman, by nature, requires some sensitivity from
her lover in those first few moments after sex. Don't wipe yourself
off, walk around the bed to get to the other side, go to the
bathroom.
Maintain close physical contact, work your way from where you were
when she climaxed to holding her in your arms. Lie close together,
arms and legs intertwined, wet bodies pressed close together, let
your
cock lie in the folds of her pussy. Talk to her, stroke her body,
caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come
all the way down, or, if nature allows, builds back up. If you've
just
finished my favorite 69, do some serious kissing. Taste your own
juices as her tongue brings traces of it into your mouth while your
tongue passes her woman's essence to her taste buds. Taste the
delicious mixtures as your tongues dart back and forth, mixing the
sweet cunt and cock sex juices in your mouths. Who knows what new
pleasures this could lead to as your passions begin to rebuild.
GODI'MSOEXCITEDITFEELSGREATBUTIJUSTCAN'TCUM
It happens to all of us sometimes - distraction, embarrassment,
anxiety, or just an inability to "let go." What do you do about it?
The first question is, can she easily bring herself to a climax in
the
privacy of her own home. If the answer is no - then she needs to do
some homework. There are two books on the subject that I know
of: "For
Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality" by Lonnie Barbach, and
"Sex for One: The Joy of Self-loving" by Betty Dodson; pick up one.
Then tell her to read it, study it, and practice, practice, practice!
Now if your partner is orgasmic only when alone - ask her point
blank:
"Is there something different I can do?" Many women are shy about
criticizing their lovers, but if asked outright will surprise you
with
a very specific answer. It may be a simple matter of mechanics, like
a
little to right, please, or not so rough, or more pressure and
faster.
Ah . . . perfect.
But suppose everything is wonderful. She says you're doing everything
right but she just can't cum. There are two probable causes:
self-consciousness and/or self-loathing. For women who can't help
watching themselves, the best approach is to eliminate anything that
focuses her attention on what the two of you're doing. This is a "be
here now" kind of thing - definitely not an introspective activity.
Get that mirror off the ceiling. Dim the lights or turn them off
completely. Put on some soft music. Share a glass of port. (I said A
glass - getting drunk will definitely not help). Have her lie on her
back, or propped up comfortably with some pillows. This isn't the
time
for her to sit on your face, or the edge of the bed, or stand up
against a wall. Arrange a time when you can devote a long period to
eating her pussy, and then just keep it up. Forget everything I said
about asking her questions - just close your eyes and get into it. I
know this can be a difficult and exhausting exercise, but she'll be
extravagantly thankful for your efforts. It gets easier each time. If
all else fails, get accustomed to masturbating together. Gradually
begin to add your stimulation to her own, right before she's about to
cum anyway. Over time, you can take over completely.
For women who feel that their pussys are dirty or distasteful, all of
the above methods may be helpful, but the underlying issue must also
be addressed. I am amazed at how many women are ambivalent about
their
own genitals. They don't love "that part" of their body, and they
can't believe that you would either. Yes, it's important to be clean.
But clean means a daily shower which includes washing their pussy. It
doesn't mean vainly attempting to remove every trace of smell or
taste. The natural taste and fragrance of the fresh secretions from a
healthy woman's pussy are beautiful and erotic. Hopefully you agree
(and if not, try hard to cultivate this attitude). When she learns to
love her pussy, she'll be infinitely more comfortable with your
loving
it too.
Menstruation
I haven't met a lot of men who are completely comfortable going down
on a woman when she has her period. But some are. Most women are at
their horniest before and sometimes during their period. You should
definitely find a way to make her cum when she's bleeding, be it
through fucking, manual, or oral stimulation. If you feel comfortable
going down on her, great, it's perfectly safe. As you now know, you
don't need to get anywhere near her cunt to make her cum. You may
suggest that she insert a tampon, and then wash up. Or you could lay
down a few old towels, turn out the lights, and forget about
menstruation.
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Hello Friends, some of us don't know some terms in sex, even i too. here i am posting some information relating to sex. if i am wrong anywhere plz correct me your valuable suggestions are always welcome.
ALL CULTURES Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities
AMERICAN CULTURE Man on top, the missionary position.
ANAL SEX Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture.
ANALINGUS Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.
ARG Alternate Relationship Geometries.
ARTS Euphemism for fetishes (see CULTURE)
B&D or B/D Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a ''master'' to his/her ''slave''. (see also BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
BABY SWINGER A person who is new to swinging.
BAR [Swingers] A restaurant or****ail lounge that is periodically open exclusively for swingers. Overt sexual activities usually are not sanctioned on the premises.
BARBIE & KEN [or Ken & Barbie] A reference used by some swingers to disparage the expectation of pleasing proportions. As in: ''I trust you''re not looking for Barbie and Ken.''
BBW Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive.
BESTIALITY Sexual relations between a human being and a lower animal. Definitely NOT welcome on this web site.
BI Bisexual: Versatile (see also AC/DC)
BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
BI-PLAYFUL Describes a person who feels no attraction to the same gender but who has no hang-ups that preclude a bit of friendly fooling around when the situation seems to call for it. (see SOCIALLY B
BIZARRE Unusual sexual desires.
BONDAGE A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered ''DOMINANT'' while the person being bound is considered ''submissive.''
BTDT Been There Done That.
BTDTMT Been There Done That Major Time.
BTW By The Way.
BUKKAKE Japanese-origin; Referring to "facials" or men cumming all over a woman`s face. Drinking cum or a gangbang where all the men gather around the woman and ejaculate over her face and breasts.
BYKT But You Knew That.
BYKTA But You Knew That Already.
CAN ENTERTAIN Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
CAN TRAVEL Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. (see TRAVE
CANING A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
CHEATING Sexual activity with others without spouse`s knowledge and/or consent.
CLEAN Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
CLOSED DOOR (also CLOSED SWINGING) Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy.
CLOSET SWINGER A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)
CLUB [Swingers] A place temporarily or permanently managed by a group where swingers may meet. Clubs commonly have a bar of some sort and a dance floor, and often offer a spa and/or a swimming pool. An ''on-premise'' club will have separate rooms with beds, or at least mattresses for sexual play. At an ''off-premise'' club, no beds are available and sexual contact is more or less restricted.
CMA Cover My Ass or Covering My Ass; Protecting or protection.
COLONIC WATER SPORTS The giving and/or receiving of enemas as a sexual stimulus. Sometimes the liquid is held in the rectum with the aid of a plug while ****ing. Note: the term ''Water Sports'' alone is a reference to urination.
COMARITAL SEX (RELATIONS) Consensual sex between and among married couples or significant dyads.
CONSENSUAL ADULTERY Sexual activity on the part of one or both marriage partners that takes place away from the spouse, yet with the knowledge and approval of the spouse.
CORPORATE MARRIAGE A group marriage in which all adult participants own equal shares of stock in a legal corporation set up to control family assets. For more about this, see Robert Rimmer''s novel Proposition 31.
COUPLE or CPL Any combination of two people. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (to each other or others) or a singles pairing for swinging purposes.
CREAMPIE Refers to the practice of performing cunnilingus on a woman immediately after a man (or men) has ejaculated inside her.
CROSSDRESSER A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex, not necessarily homosexual. (see TRANSVESTITE)
CUCKOLD Originally, the term referred to any man whose wife is being unfaithful to him. In the swinging lifestyle, it usually refers to any man who enjoys watching his wife have sex with other men. Extreme cases include belittling or condescending comments, directed at the husband, by the wife or her lover while they are engaged in sex. See also MASOCHISM
CULTURE Euphemism for Fetish or Arts, A specific type of activity indicated by prefixing the name of a country or society that is supposedly known for such inclinations, as in ''Greek Culture'' (anal) or ''French Culture'' (oral).
CUNNILINGUS Oral stimulation of the vagina and clitoris.
CUT Circumsized
CYA Cover Your Ass or Covering your Ass; Protecting or protection.
CYCLIC MONOGAMY A relationship in which distinct periods are spent with each of several different spouses in rotation.
D/D Free Drug and Disease Free.
D/s Dominant/submissive relationship; see Master; another facet of B&D/S&M type relationships. Some people only do emotional D/s without and B&D or S&M.
DADT Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.
DAISY CHAIN A configuration of four or more people in which each person is orally stimulating the genitals of the person in front of him/her while simultaneously being stimulated orally by the person, if any, behind. If such a line forms a complete circle, the Daisy Chain is ''perfect.''
DILDO An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
DIRECTOR The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.
DISCIPLINE A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
DISCREET (also DISCRETION) Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
DOCILE Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
DOGGING Dogging is a British euphemism for engaging in sexual acts in a semi-public place (typically a secluded car park or a movie theater) or watching others doing so.
DOMA Defense of Marriage Act.
DOMESTIC TRAINING Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
DYAD Two people as a couple.
EG Evil Grin.
ENGLISH CULTURE Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning.
EPID Every Person Is Different.
EXHIBITIONIST Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.
EXPANDED FAMILY Any form of family that expands the nuclear family through inclusion of people and relationships by selection rather than by blood. As opposed to an ''extended'' family, which is related by blood or marriage.
EXTRAMARITAL SEX (RELATIONS) Sexual activity without the participation and often without the approval or knowledge of the spouse.
F Female.
FACIAL Refers to a woman allowing a man to ejaculate on her face; see also BUKKAKE
FAQ Frequently Asked Questions – a list of information people wish others knew, posed in the form of questions and answers.
FELLATIO (also HEAD, BLOWJO Oral stimulation of the penis.
FETISH Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
FF A dyad where both partners are female.
FFF A triad with three females, possibly a V centering on the middle female.
FFM A triad of a Female, another Female, and a Male, possibly a V centering on the middle female.
FISH FRY A rather tacky and un-politically correct term for a group of women (usually four or more) having same-sex relations while being observed by some or all of their male partners.
FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
FMF A triad of a Female, a Male, and another Female, possibly a V centering on the middle male.
FMM A triad of a Female, a Male, and another Male, possibly a V centering on the middle male.
FOUNTAIN OF VENUS Female urination.
FRENCH BATH A tongue bath.
FRENCH CULTURE Oral stimulation of the genitals; also a preference for Fellatio, Cunnilingus.
FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity.
FWIW For What It’s Worth.
FYI For Your Information.
G/L/B/T or GLBT Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered.
GAY A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
GBM Gay Black Man
GENEROUS Refers to money for sex; Solicitation; .
GERMAN (CULTURE or ARTS) l. Erotic acts characterized by the stern disciplining of one partner by the other. 2. S/M.
GMTA Great Minds Think Alike.
GOLDEN SHOWERS Refers to engaging in pee play (pissing on someone or having them piss on you) in sexual activities.
GREEK CULTURE Anal-oriented sexual activity; also, a preference for anal sex.
GROUP MARRIAGE A group of four or more people in which all participants consider themselves to be married to every other participant.
GROUP ROOM At a party or club, a room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to- wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).
GROUP SEX Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
GROWTH SWINGING (see Utopian)
GWM Gay White Man
HARD CORE If people are called ''hard core'' they are thought of as: (a) exercising little or no selectivity in choosing sex partners, and/or (b) participating in swinging with an almost religious fervor, as often as circumstances allow, and/or (c) wanting no more emotional or mental involvement than is absolutely necessary to complete the sexual encounter.
HARD CORE (also HARD SWINGING) A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
HBB Hot Bi-Babe, a term used in wannas by men looking for sex with two women at the same time. It is also used (affectionately) by some poly people who feel that they (or others they know) really are Hot Bi-Babes. This term can be used for either sex.
HEAD Oral sex activity; ''Giving head'' (see FRENCH)
HEAD JOCKEY A person who prefers oral-genital contact to genital-genital contact. Sometimes a man is motivated to earn this appellation because he has an exceptionally small penis or exceptional difficulty attaining an erection. A woman who suffers discomfort from vaginal penetration could do likewise.
HEAVIES A rather tacky and non-politically correct term usually meaning anyone who is over normal height/weight proportion (HWP).
HEDONIST Someone who lives for pleasure.
HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
HNG Horny Net Geek Something resembling a wanna.
HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY,LESBIAN)
HORIZONTAL People who enjoy swinging, as contrasted with ''vertical'' folks who do not. As in ''This party will be a mix of my horizontal and vertical friends.''
HORNY Sexually excited or excitable; In need of sexual pleasure.
HPS High Priestess (a Wiccan/Pagan term)
HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis.
HWP Height-Weight Proportionate. Someone who is within their ideal body weight.
IANAL I Am Not A Lawyer. Often followed by ''but'' and some pseudo legal advice.
IIRC If I Recall Correctly.
IME In My Experience.
IMHO In My Humble Opinion. Could also be In My Honest Opinion.
IMNSHO In My Not So Humble Opinion.
IMO In My Opinion.
INDOOR or INDOOR SPORTS Swinging activities in general.
INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.
INTIMATE NETWORK A group of nuclear families separately domiciled, but joined by a network of comarital relations.
IR COUPLE Interracial Couple
IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat.
ISO In Search Of; Used in ads;[Ex: ''MWC ISO Single Female''].
IYHO In Your Humble Opinion. Could also be In Your Honest Opinion.
IYO In Your Opinion.
KING OF HEARTS A position involving one male who is being kissed on the lips by a female while simultaneously being fellated by another female. The term is based on the head-at-both-ends illustrations on playing cards.
KING OF THE MOUNTAIN One male being simultaneously stimulated by three or more people.
LDR Long Distance Relationship.
LEATHER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments.
LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY)
LIGHT Implies a surface exploration without getting too heavily involved.
LINE MARRIAGE A group marriage that is open to the addition of younger members selected by the group, thus establishing a continuing family line through selection rather than birth.
LMAO Laughing My Ass Off or Laugh My Ass Off.
LOL Laughing Out Loud or Laugh Out Loud.
LTNS Long Time No See.
LTR Long Term Relationship.
M Male.
MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others; TOYS.
MARKED Tattooed or Pierced
MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASOCHIST
MASTER/slave Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).
MBC Married Black Couple.
MBiC Married Bisexual Couple; usually means BOTH are bisexual.
MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
MENAGE A` TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD)
MFF A triad with a Male, Female, and another Female, possibly a V centering on the middle female.
MFM A triad with a Male, Female, and another Male, possibly a V centering on the middle female.
MILF An acronym for "Mother I''d Like to ****" or the less abrasive "Momma Is Looking Fine". Basically refers to a woman who has had a child or children and still looks sexy.
MIXED A biracial partnership.
MMM A triad with three males, possibly a V centering on the middle male.
MODERN MARRIEDS Sometimes used when advertising in a newspaper or magazine that is not sexually oriented. Indicates a married couple who enjoy some form of sexual interaction with others.
MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX)
MOTAS Member Of The Appropriate Sex.
MOTOS Member Of The Opposite Sex.
MOTSS Member of the Same Sex.
MPW My Poly Weekend (what happened - good or bad - over the weekend)
MULTILATERAL SEXUALITY A broad term covering all sexual activities occurring between non-coupled people with the consent of all involved dyads. Includes swinging, group sex, co-marital sex, consensual adultery, etc. Does not include secret affairs or extramarital sex.
MWC Married White Couple.
N A 4 person relationship. Four people are having sex. Everyone may or may not have met each other or be friends but they know they exist; see Z.
NASCA North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.
NEWCOMERS or NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers.
NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
NRE New Relationship Energy, that lovely euphoria you experience when you become involved with a new love; the world seems brighter, people seem more beautiful and chocolate tastes even better.
NTS New Toy Syndrome; see NRE.
ODD Not even; weird; strange.
OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Recommended for newcomers.
OMG Oh My God! or Oppressive Majority Group.
ON-PREMISE Swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and go into designated areas for sex onsite.
OPEN DOOR or OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.
OPEN MARRIAGE A fairly general term signifying cooperation between marriage partners without dependence, flexible roles, individual sanctity and growth, privacy, equality, trust, etc.
OPEN SEX (SWINGING) Sexual activity among two or more people that is open to the view and often the participation of other party attendees.
OPW Our Poly Weekend.
ORAL SEX See FRENCH CULTURE, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD
ORE Old Relationship Energy or the valuable stuff you get from years of digging together.
ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete abscence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. See ROMAN CULTURE.
ORGY BUTTER Any of several lubricants used in sexual activities. [If this term strikes you as unaesthetic, don''t even think about ''Crease Grease.'']
ORIENTAL (CULTURE or ARTS) The least used and least-well-defined culture. Can mean the insertion into the anus and climactic yanking out of a beaded string. Sometimes used to indicate an interest in Ben Wa Balls, or any other product the user associates with the Orient.
OSO Other Significant Other.
OTOH On The Other Hand.
P/P Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging; euphemism for ''have sex''.
PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows off the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
PARTY HOUSE A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
PASSIVE Submissive, willing to receive corrective training; Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)
PASSIVE BI Two different definitions - depends on who you talk to.
1. Can be bi if the other person initiates the contact
2. Will receive from the same sex, but may not give.
PC Politically Correct or Personal Computer.
PDA Public Display of Affection; or Personal Digital Assistant.
PET TRAINING (see animal Training)
PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
PIV Penis-In-Vagina (a certain type of sex).
PLAYCOUPLES A term devised by the Lifestyles Organization to describe ''both swingers and those couples who enjoy enhancing the eroticism in their lives but stop short of being swingers.''
PLL Poly Locator List or Phase Locked Loop if you`re a geek.
PMR Poly Mixed Relationship, one or more polyamorous, one or more monogamous.
PNW Poly NorthWest Pacific NorthWest.
POLYAMORY The currently fashionable term for multilateral relationships involving a broader commitment than normally associated with recreational sex. The proponents of polyamory expound a holistic view of multiple relationships, with an emphasis on love and shared responsibilities. In the past, this phenomenon has gone on under various labels, such as group marriage, expanded family, intimate network, and utopian swinging.
PRETZEL Any arrangement of four or more people simultaneously involved in mutual sexual stimulation, usually around a central person or couple.
PRIMARY BOND A dyadic relationship that takes precedence over other relationships.
PRO Professional; i.e. Prostitutes or paid escorts.
PROFESSIONAL 1. A buzz word used to suggest that the user is better educated or higher class than the average advertiser. 2. Someone being paid for their sexual participation.
PWP Poly Wanna Potluck, a gathering of polyamorous people for food and conversation.
QUEEN OF HEARTS King of Hearts with the gender reversed.
QUEEN OF THE MAY One female being simultaneously stimulated by three or more people.
RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment; See also MEET FOR PLEASURE.
RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments; held down or held back.
RIMMING The act of using one`s tongue on the anus of their partner; oral to anal sex
RL Real Life, i.e. not on the computer.
ROFL Rolling On Floor Laughing.
ROMAN CULTURE or ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene.
ROTF Rolling On The Floor.
ROTFL Rolling On The Floor Laughing.
ROTFLMAO Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Ass Off.
ROTFLMFAO Rolling On The Floor Laughing My ****ing Ass Off.
RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism; see SADISM, MASOCHISM.
SADISM a sexual interest in which gratification is obtained by the infliction of physical or mental pain on others (as on a love object); delight in cruelty; excessive cruelty. SADIST
SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy or a woman who has had a tubal ligation; Naturally or surgically sterile.
SAFE SEX A misnomer usually meant to indicate an insistence on the use of condoms during intercourse.
SAME-SEX Sexual interactions between two or more people of matching gender. This term describes an activity and does not imply a permanent psychological orientation or lifestyle as do the terms ''homosexual'' and ''bisexual.''
SASE An acronym for Self-Addressed Stamped Envelope. 1. A way to imply popularity. 2. An indication of a monetary motivation for placing the advertisement.
SBF Single Black Female
SBiF Single Bisexual Female
SBM Single Black Male
SCAT Excrement play; feces; shit.
SERIAL MONOGAMY A succession of monogamous relationships of varying duration terminated by mutual agreement and/or divorce. Also called ''sequential monogamy.'' Usually financially and emotionally disastrous, serial monogamy is a poor alternative to swinging.
SINGLE or SGL In swinging, available to play alone; being without a swinging partner. (does not refer to marital status)
SISL Stranger In A Strange Land – Book by Robert Heinlein.
SNOWFLAKE A symmetrical pretzel.
SO Significant Other.
SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
SOCIALLY BI Can be bi in a party environment, but doesn''t normally seek same-sex relations outside swinging.
SODOMY Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.
SOFT SWINGERS Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.
SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some type of soft-swinging
SQO Some Quantity Of.
SQUARE A buzz word indicating a person who is not as liberal as the user.
SRS Same Room Sex.
SSO Secondary Significant Other.
STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970`s to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.
STRAIGHT or STR or STR8 Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity; A person who does not use Drugs; Also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.
SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive).
SWALLOW-THE-LEADER (See Daisy Chain.)
SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
SWEDISH CULTURE Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another.
SWF Single White Female.
SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.
SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.
SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
SWITCHING (See Swapping.) To our knowledge, this is not used to indicate the application of switches.
SWM Single White Male.
TAN Tested Antibody Negative for the HIV virus (AIDS).
TEXTILE An adjective used mostly by nudists to describe a non-nudist.
THREESOME Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Ménage a Trios)
TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
TOCOTOX Too Complicated TO eXplain.
TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
TPE Total Power Exchange. A BDSM acronym for a master – slave relationship that includes all of life, not just sex.
TRANSSEXUAL Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion.
TRANSVESTITE A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex, not necessarily homosexual. (see CROSSDRESSER)
TRAVEL Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.(see CAN TRAVE
TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
TRIBAL MARRIAGE A form of pseudo marriage in which all members of a social group theoretically have sexual access to all members (or a large specified subset) of the opposite sex. Tribal Marriage is independent of residence, for example, a motorcycle club.
TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for ''threesomes''. This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD)
TTFN Ta-Ta For Now
TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
UTOPIAN A subjective term designating more or less of an emphasis on, or a desire for, deep commitments, shared responsibilities, and long-term relationships in addition to, or in place of, playful sexual interactions. (See Recreational and Polyamory.)
UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
V A relationship of three people where one person has two partners, but the partners do not have a strong bond. Two dyads having one person in common. The bonding between the people on the ends of the V can vary wildly depending on the people involved. Example, a triad may sexually be a V but emotionally an equal triad. Or a triad may be sexually and emotionally a V where the partners would split if the focus of their relationship left them.
VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
VERSATILE A person who enjoys sexual relations with those of the same gender in addition to heterosexual relations. (Bi)
VERTICAL (see Horizontal)
VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
VOYEURISM Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.
WANNA A wannabe, someone who fantasizes about being someone greater than they are, usually lacking the talent or abilities of those they want to be.
WANNA-BE Someone who seems attracted to the swinging lifestyle but does not participate, usually because they are too inhibited, or are single, or cannot convince their spouse to play along.
WATERSPORTS Usually refers to engaging in pee play (peeing on someone or having them pee on you), can also refer to the use of enemas in sexual activities.
WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDO`S Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional.
WEALTHY (See Generous.)
WEG Wide Evil Grin or Wicked Evil Grin.
WRT With Regard To.
YMMV Your Mileage May Vary.
Z A 4 person relationship. Four people are having sex. Everyone may or may not have met each other or be friends but they know they exist. See N.
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