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our fun and lifestyle
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Publié :2/2/2007 9h24
Dernière mise à jour :14/3/2014 7h16 14977 vues
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first off, we are here to have fun!If it's not fun why do it.
We have been swinging since 1999, and organizing or co organizing parties since 2000. Recently we retired from the Major party planning cause it was gettin too much for our mental states to handle. We stopped having fun. We chose to retire so we could enjoy this lifestyle again.
We are an open relationship cpl. We fuck who we want and the other knows.
That being said, we will play how we want to when we want to. We most definitely prefer to full swap, but are not gonna shy away from the singles if it cums up. We both have crazy schedules so single play is sometimes all we can do... so a 1-1 is definitely in the works! FMF is preferred as we haven't done an mfm yet. Where we would definitely prefer the bi female, she isn't gonna say no to a single guy. But He has to be respectful, and recognize she makes the rules. She's probably not gonna meetcha if ya get pushy. But she will meetcha at a party, and who knows. She might just take ya back and rock ya.
Update> We have a 4 and a half year old. it makes scheduling fun sometimes but we will try.
So please, comment, get in touch with us, lets see where it may go... we definitely wanna reach for the sky.
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2015
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Publié :12/1/2015 16h01
Dernière mise à jour :14/5/2024 16h37 9883 vues
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New thoughts on 2015
Yes we still play. Since 1999 we have been in this lifestyle.
Since 2001 we have been fully open.
Kari is bi
Justin is not
We have 1 child and he takes up a lot of free time
We play alone and together
We do not hide it from each other
We sometimes take a while to meet, but sometimes it's fast. you never know, it's usually spontaneous
Justin tends to have a lot more free time because he has afternoons off. Thus he can play in the afternoon. Nighttime and weekend play require special arrangements of the child MUST be dead asleep.
Kari doesn't always wanna play. It's her choice! don't pressure her or belittle her because she's choosing to let justin go fuck.
Finally, yes, we are bareback preferred. Justin has an uncomfortable sensitivity to latex and spermacide. It usually makes him itch and lose feeling. He will wear if asked though.
Any questions?
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oral
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Publié :6/9/2011 15h38
Dernière mise à jour :12/1/2015 15h52 14412 vues
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so yes... i have an oral fetish... i love to lick. can't get enough of licking.... anyone else have this problem where they'd almost rather just eat pussy that fuck?
i mean don't get me wrong, i love to fuck and cum deep in one. but grabbin hold and eatin til she soaks your face is my biggest turn on.
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Just cum out and say it.
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Publié :6/6/2011 7h53
Dernière mise à jour :12/1/2015 15h53 14298 vues
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So since coming back we've noticed a trend to ppl. As soon as they find out we are married they get a little cautious, understandably, but also criticize it.
We love each other, but we love sex and our schedules and work sometimes do not allow for us to have sex with each other as much as we want. So we allow each other to play outside to get that part we cannot always give each other. If you cannot abide by the fact that we are married, that the Mr is on the computer most of the time and the Mrs is picky as to who she lets into her pussy then stop talking to us. We are able to handle rejection based on our marriage, but get to the point and stop leading us on as if you have a pair and leading us on as if you might care to fuck us but wont
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still around
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Publié :8/9/2010 12h13
Dernière mise à jour :13/1/2015 14h56 14158 vues
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just so yanno, we havent gone anywhere....... just trickier with a 1 year old to stay on that saddle
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Back in the saddle
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Publié :10/10/2009 10h56
Dernière mise à jour :10/1/2010 20h26 14413 vues
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Hey there!
after a little bit of time, we are startin to get the urge. The new baby is growin, and we are startin to wanna play again. This may take a while, but we are sure it'll happen
just be patient with us.
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whatcha think
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Publié :5/8/2008 14h58
Dernière mise à jour :4/11/2008 7h52 14339 vues
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we have a few things on our blog about what we think and how we act, but we want to know what you think
respond away!
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open relationships
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Publié :13/4/2008 19h33
Dernière mise à jour :12/1/2015 15h47 14917 vues
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So what is the matter with an open relationship. We have been in one for goin on 4 years and swinging for goin on 9.
Is it people don't believe we BOTH play?
Is it people don't believe we trust each other?
is it Not understanding?
We wanna know your questions and hopefully we can answer them
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protection
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Publié :10/3/2008 16h05
Dernière mise à jour :12/1/2015 15h53 14794 vues
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so lets define what makes sex protected.
So many people i see are wanting condoms for penetration. What is this protecting from, std's or pregnancy.
if it's for fear of pregnancy then by all means this is a great reason!
If it's for prevention of std's, there's a really big problem. To ensure this, one must also limit oral contact to protected too. Can ya suck cock through a condom and have your pussy licked through a dental dam?
The same std's that people are worried about getting from penetration can just as easily be transferred via lickin pussy and sucking cock. So at least in my opinion..... this is a bad reason if yer just tryin to prevent std's yet ya still go down and lick that pussy til it soaks ya or suck that cock til it blows down your throat.
Just my opinion, but something that needs to be out there.
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How we do it
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Publié :1/3/2008 12h36
Dernière mise à jour :20/8/2008 14h19 14558 vues
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Some people ask us how we have been in this so long and play the way we do without problems.
Rule #1 We listen to each other
Rule #2 we trust each other
Rule #3 we respect each others feelings
Rule #4 we love each other beyond all doubt
Rule #5 we communicate always!
we always know when the other is doing something.
This is how we can play apart without jealousy
This is how we can go to a party and not see each other the entire time and still have fun.
This is how we play. Plain and simple. Kari or Justin have full permission to go and play however we want. Sometimes it's together as a cpl, sometimes it's joining another cpl separately, or sometimes its 1-1.
Those who have question can ask us and we'll tell ya the same. We still go home to each other and that will never change.
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