Long time no chat...lol
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Publié :22/11/2008 16h25
Dernière mise à jour :22/11/2008 19h40 5203 vues
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Its been awhile, not having internet really stinks lol
Nothing new to report really expect that I have lost 65 lbs. wooohooo for me LOL Still single and looking LOL
Heres a new pic of me
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single and looking
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Publié :17/7/2008 18h07
Dernière mise à jour :2/8/2008 18h19 4998 vues
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Well now that I am single, I find its difficult to find a single guy to just hang out with or actually looking for a relationship. Its been so long since I have been in the dating scene, I guess things have changed a bit LOL. I have signed up on all those dating sites and have come up empty. Go figure LOL It would be nice to find someone who is lifestyle friendly but looking for more than just sex LMAO wishful thinking LOL Let me know if I am seeking too much
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taking a break
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Publié :18/4/2008 7h56
Dernière mise à jour :2/5/2024 5h44 4768 vues
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I was going to delete my profile entirely but decided to just turn it off for awhile. I am sure I will be back at some point. LOL Have a great spring/summer.
play nice & often 
~T~
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50 things that you can do to keep sexual freedom alive:
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Publié :18/3/2008 16h46
Dernière mise à jour :18/3/2008 18h06 5413 vues
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1. Talk about sex and sexuality with your partners. Make it a point to ask for what you want, talk about what you'd like, express your sexual values, and point out anything that makes you uncomfortable. Use your words....often and honestly. Get comfortable with saying sexual things straight-out, with no embarrassed or nervous giggles.
2. Come up with a mental list of witty put-downs for people who make homophobic, sexist, or generally nasty-to-sexual-minorities comments. Come up with a follow-up list of devastatingly witty reasons why you feel differently. Quoting the study that shows homophobic straight men to be more likely to be repressed gays than nonhomophobic straight men is a wonderful place to start training people to better behavior.
3. Vote for the legalization of sex work and pornography.
4. Push for legalization of therapeutic sexual surrogates, and for good certification for them. Push for health-care coverage of therapeutic sexual surrogates for people who are institution-bound or unable to find partners due to severe physical disabilities.
5. Vote, period. Think about who you are voting for, and what their stance is on sexual freedom. Help out campaigns that are willing to have a sex-positive platform, or at least ones that don't have a sex-negative platform.
6. Take a sex worker out to lunch, or buy him coffee, or give her a gift. Don't ask anything more of them. They are all priests and priestesses of the Love Goddess, and she will smile on you for helping them in small ways. Tell them that they are sacred embodiments of the Love Goddess. It doesn't matter if they laugh and don't believe it. If enough people say it to them, they might just begin to.
7. Love your own flesh. Work on loving even the unlovable parts of it. Do sensuous things for it, including putting aside several hours for masturbation and solo sex play, at least once a month.
8. Buy sex toys. If you don't use them, give them away as gifts.
9. Hire people who are out members of sexual and gender minorities. Encourage your co-workers to do likewise.
10. If you are running sex-play or BDSM parties and you don't see any queer people around, ask yourself why. Then ask them why, and see if something can be done. If you are queer and avoid a party because you think you might be the only queer there, remember that nothing ever changed until one brave person stepped forward and changed it. The same goes for kinky people in queer groups, poly people in any group, and any sexual/gender/relationship minority in swinger's groups.
11. If you belong to a swinger's or other sex group, and someone talks about "kinky" or queer sexual activities as being unacceptable, challenge them. Try to educate them. See if you can find brave members of other sexual minorities to come and talk about them, give a workshop, or even demo them. Familiarity can combat fear and disgust. Make sure that everyone stays respectful throughout the demo.
12. Buy books about alternative sexuality and relationships and donate them to libraries. Donate several copies, because they are often stolen and destroyed by people who disapprove of them. Make sure that the library actually puts them on the shelves.
13. If a convenience store or video rental place is being picketed for carrying adult magazines or videos, walk in and buy one. Get your friends to do it too. Tell the manager you support his or her decision to carry the materials that customers want. If the picketers are taking photos of people, show up with a camera and take pictures of them.
14. If someone at a sex party or workshop doesn't want to be touched, don't deride them as hung up. Learn that sexual boundaries are good, because you can't really say yes unless you're sure that you can say no with no repercussions, guilt, or ridicule. Understand that although sexual repression is bad, sexual boundaries are good, and the latter is not evidence of the former. Remember that the next time someone declines a hug at a sex workshop.
15. Find out what the sex education curriculum is like in your local schools. If it is inadequate or sex-negative, express your concerns to local school officials. Help arrange for sexual-minority speakers to speak in high schools. Make sure that the schools do not allow queer-bashing or sexual harassment in their halls, and that they have curriculum that speaks out against doing it anywhere else as well. Find out if the local high school has sexual-minority student groups. Offer to be the advisor for one, or help find someone qualified. Challenge and fight bizarre and draconian anti-sex policies, such as not allowing kids to see a condom unrolled onto an inanimate object for safe-sex demonstrations.
16. Have sex with the lights on, and keep your eyes open the whole time.
17. Crossdress, in public, at least once. That goes for women too. If you're scared, do it in a group. Learn what it's like to be another gender for once.
18. Learn to have many different permutations of safe sex, and teach this to other people. Try to learn to have fulfilling sex with absolutely no bodily fluids exchanged. If someone pressures you to have unsafe sex, don't give in.
19. Think about how your sex life is sacred. Think about how to make it more so, if it doesn't feel that way. Think about how you could explain to your children how a sex life like yours could be sacred. Think about how you could explain to your children how someone else's very different sex life could be sacred.
20. Promise yourself that you will never again have any kind of sex that you hate just because you feel obligated, or because a partner pressures you into it. Keep that promise.
21. If you attend, or run, sex or relationship groups for "couples", ask the presenter what their policy is on triples, or people in polyamorous relationships. If they have none, refer them to some literature. If you're the one running the event, think hard about what your policy should be.
22. If you are a relationship counselor, educate yourself about polyamory. That would include actually talking to a lot of people in long-term poly relationships. Then you can publicly offer relationship counseling to poly folks, who need it just as often as couples.
23. If you are a relationship counselor, educate yourself about consensual BDSM and consensual power-exchange relationships. That would include actually talking to several people involved in that lifestyle. After all, imagine that you are part of a four-person polyamorous pagan group marriage where everyone practices BDSM, one member is the full-time slave of two others, and one member is a 'boy' to another member's 'daddy', and you all need help dividing up financial and child-care responsibilities. Where are you going to go for objective, knowledgeable, non- judgmental counseling? If you're a counselor, imagine what it would take for you to be an effective advisor for those folks. Try to educate yourself into being that advisor.
24. If you see someone with an unusual piercing, tattoo, or other body modification, compliment them on it. If they'll let you, look at it up close. Compliment them again.
25. If you are pregnant, or plan to get pregnant, or know anyone who might get pregnant, go online and find the Intersex Flyer for Parents. Make a copy and give it to every breeder you know, so that if their baby is born with intersex genitalia, they will not be bullied by doctors into mutilating their child's genitals for cosmetic reasons. For that matter, make lots of copies and put a stack of them in the office of your local OB/GYN.
26. If you attend - and especially if you run - a group for only one of "two" genders, or a group that is "gender balanced", challenge yourself or the group's leader: what place do transgendered people, transsexuals, or intersexuals, or anyone with mixed anatomy, have in this group? Challenge them to rethink their ideas of gender, and where the lines of gender are drawn. If you're running a "gender balanced" group and don't know how to handle that, you might take the advice of my fellow presenter Jen Hunter: since we transfolk are already gender balanced individuals in and of ourselves, make it a policy to invite as many as possible of us! Seriously, ask yourself honestly how many of these policies exist so that homophobic heterosexual members, or transphobic homosexual members, never have to be made uncomfortable and be forced to actually question anything.
27. Bother to learn what transgendered people really look like and feel. Talk to a few if possible. Be respectful and don't ask about their genitalia; imagine how you'd feel if a stranger started grilling you about yours.
28. Transgendered people, in this country, are murdered at the rate of about two a month. Their murderers frequently get off because they tell the jury that they had to kill them, they were freaks...and the jury is often sympathetic. Ask your friends and relations what they would do on such a jury. If they sympathize with the murderer, educate them differently.
29. Buy and read good erotica about real transgendered people - something other than the usual bad forced-feminization transvestite porn. See if you can imagine being with someone like that. Run the idea past your crotch and see if you can beat off to it. If you can't find any, complain. Tell erotica publishers that there needs to be more.
30. Buy and read good, intelligent erotica, period. Support people who are trying to make erotic publishing less stupid and sleazy, while still being brave enough to affirm many kinds of alternative sexualities.
31. At least once a year, buy a piece of erotica about a sexual practice that is different from your normal shtick, and see if you can get turned on by it. Make it a yearly brain-stretching activity. If you can't make it work, make a gift of it to someone who can.
32. Do the activities represented in pornographic films resemble your bodies, your practices, and/or your fantasies? If not, ask the rental agency for what you want to see. Then write to the film companies and ask for it. Do the supposed "decency guidelines" of what can and cannot be shown in porn make sense to you?If not, write to the film companies and complain! Have your friends do the same. Everything that is out there is there because of customer demand.
33. Make erotic films, or fund some friends to do it for you, that show activities you'd like to see in films that aren't "ordinary". Make porn with people who don't have socially acceptable bodies - people who are fat, or older, or disabled, or transgendered. Don't turn it into a freak show; film them being beautiful and sexual. Don't worry about selling it; stick it on the Net and someone will find it. This is about changing people's heads, not making tons of money.
34. Support small porn sites that are making unusual erotica, especially if they are doing it with people who are not conventionally attractive.
35. If you live in an area where porn is restricted due to local laws, find out what local authorities pushed those laws through. Find out who their political cohorts are. Circulate a list of their names. When local elections come, vote them out of office. While you're at it, let the people you're voting for know that they have your vote because they value freedom of speech and expression.
36. If you have a sexual fantasy you're ashamed of, go onto the InterNet and find a list of people who are also into it. I guarantee you that one will be there. Talk to them and ask for help in getting over your shame.
37. If someone else's sexual kink makes you uncomfortable, don't just run away. Ask them why they do it, what makes it beautiful and desirable to them. You don't have to have those desires yourself in order to understand someone else's needs, and appreciate them.
38. Tell someone who is fat how beautiful and desirable they are. If you are fat, tell yourself this, and go out dancing.
39. Support sex-positive activist groups who do work that you approve of. Donate money to sex- positive causes, such as the list at the bottom of this document.
40. If you have money and you'd like to donate it in a more hands-on way, find a sex-radical activist who is dead broke and slaving for the cause and offer to pay for their health insurance.
41. Ask your primary care physician (or other doctor) if he or she would be comfortable treating transgendered people and intersexuals with unusual anatomy and special needs, or people with multiple genital piercings or strange body modifications, or people who practice consensual BDSM and might have interesting bruises, or people who come in triples or foursomes. If the answer is yes, ask if he or she would be willing to be listed on a website for sympathetic physicians. If not, think about changing doctors, and telling them why.
42. Teach your children about sexual and gender minorities, and not in a way that implies discomfort or disapproval. Try to make yourself believe that these are perfectly legitimate human variations, and try to communicate that to them. If they learn differently at school, tell them the other kids are wrong. Have them meet members of sexual minorities socially, especially ones who will candidly answer questions. Remind them that at least one in ten of their classmates, and maybe more, will grow up to be members of some sexual minority. Teach them that this is just fine.
43. Teach your children that masturbation is fine and healthy. If they are teens, and they want access to sex toys and erotica for their masturbatory lives, be OK with this. Help them if you and they can deal with it, or find them a trusted friend who can do so respectfully and with good judgment. Teach them about safe sex as young as possible.
44. If your child is queer or trans or kinky or poly, get them resources to help them cope with the world. Don't try to change them. If they're small, start thinking now about what you'll do if their dating habits are not the usual thing, just in case.
45. Be a safe place and a safe mentor for a sexual-minority teen or young adult whose family has rejected them.
46. Be willing to hire members of sexual minorities who can't have children to babysit your own.
47. If you run sex-oriented events, conferences, gatherings, classes, etc., make them as accessible as possible to poor people. Have a sliding scale, work-study program, or encourage people with money to donate scholarships for people without money. Question classist rules around dress codes, high fees, "professional" attire, and public-transport access. Good sex lives should not be limited to those with disposable incomes. Ask yourself hard questions about why you don't want poor, welfare, working-class, or low-income sexual minority people at these events. Start with this conference.
48. Make having a good, fulfilling sex life a high priority in your life. People who complain about the sex lives of other people usually aren't getting their own needs met. Value those needs and make them a priority.
49. Have love in your life - lots of it, sexual and otherwise. Try to make yourself worth loving. It's not that hard.
50. BE OUT. Someone, somewhere, will refrain from putting a bullet through their head because they see you living a reasonably happy life with the kink that they think makes them worthless.
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uses for Cinnamon & Honey
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Publié :17/3/2008 8h57
Dernière mise à jour :18/3/2008 15h04 5317 vues
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Cinnamon & Honey
Bet the drug companies won't like this one getting around.
Facts on honey and cinnamon: It is found that a mixture of honey and
cinnamon cures most diseases. Honey is produced in most of the
countries of the world. Scientists of today also accept honey as a
"Ram Ban" (very effective) medicine for all kinds of diseases. Honey
can be used without any side effects for any kind of diseases.
Today's science says that even though honey is sweet, if taken in the
right dosage as a medicine, it does not harm diabetic patients. Weekly
World News, a magazine in Canada , in its issue dated 17 January, 1995 has
given the following list of diseases that can be cured by honeyand
cinnamon as researched by western scientists:
HEART DISEASES:
Make a paste of honey and cinnamon powder, apply on bread, instead of
jelly and jam, and eat it regularly for breakfast. It reduces the
cholesterol in the arteries and saves the patient from heart attack. Also
those who have already had an attack, if they do this process daily, they
are kept miles away from the next attack. Regular use of the above
process relieves loss of breath and strengthens the heart beat. In
America and Canada , various nursing homes have treated patients
successfully and have found that as you age, the arteries and veins lose
their flexibility and get clogged; honey and cinnamon revitalize the
arteries and veins.
ARTHRITIS:
Arthritis patients may take daily, morning, and night, one cup of hot
water with two spoons of honey and one small teaspoon of cinnamon powder.
If taken regularlyeven chronic arthritis can be cured. In a recent
research conducted at the Copenhagen University , it was found that when
the doctors treated their patients with a mixture of one tablespoon Honey
and half teaspoon Cinnamon powder before breakfast, they found that within
a week, out of the 200 peop le so treated, practically 73 patients were
totally relieved of pain, and within a month, mostly all the patients who
could not walk or move around because of arthritis started walking without
pain.
BLADDER INFECTIONS:
Take two tablespoons of cinnamon powder and one teaspoon of honey in a
glass of lukewarm water and drink it. It destroys the germs in the
bladder.
TOOTHACHE:
Make a paste of one teaspoon of cinnamon powder and five teaspoons of
honey and apply on the aching tooth. This may be applied three times a
day until the tooth stops aching.
CHOLESTEROL:
Two tablespoons of honey and three teaspoons of Cinnamon Powder mixed in
16 ounces of tea water, given to a cholesterol patient, was found to
reduce the level of cholesterol in the blood by 10 percent within two
hours. As mentioned for arthritic patients, if taken three times a day,
any chronic cholesterol is cured. According to information received in
th e said journal, pure honey taken with food daily relieves complaints of
cholesterol.
COLDS:
Those suffering from common or severe colds should take one tablespoon
lukewarm honey with 1/4 spoon cinnamon powder daily for three days. This
process will cure most chronic cough, cold, and clear the sinuses.
UPSET STOMACH:
Honey taken with cinnamon powder cures stomach ache and also clears
stomach ulcers from the root.
GAS:
According to the studies done in India and Japan , it is revealed that if
honey is taken with cinnamon powder the stomach is relievedof gas.
IMMUNE SYSTEM:
Daily use of honey and cinnamon powder strengthens the immune system and
protects the body from bacteria and viral attacks. Scientists have found
that honey has various vitamins and iron in large amounts. Constant use
of honey strengthens the white blood corpuscles to fight bacteria and
viral diseases.
INDIGESTION:
Cinnamon powder sprink led on two tablespoons of honey taken before food
relieves acidity and digests the heaviest of meals.
INFLUENZA:
A scientist in Spain has proved that honey contains a natural
Ingredient which kills the influenza germs and saves the patient from flu.
LONGEVITY:
Tea made with honey and cinnamon powder, when taken regularly, arrests the
ravages of old age. Take four spoons of honey, one spoon of cinnamon
powder and three cups of water and boil to make like tea. Drink 1/4 cup,
three to four times a day. It keeps the skin fresh and soft and arrests
old age. Life spans also increases and even a 100 year old, starts
performing the chores of a 20-year-old.
PIMPLES:
Three tablespoons of honey and one teaspoon of cinnamon powder paste.
Apply this paste on the pimples before sleeping and wash it next morning
with warm water. If done daily for two weeks, it removes pimples from the
root.
SKIN INFECTIONS:
Applying honey and c innamon powder in equal parts on the affected parts
cures eczema, ringworm and all types of skin infections.
WEIGHT LOSS:
Daily in the morning one half hour before breakfast on an empty stomach
and at night before sleeping, drink honey and cinnamon powder boiled in
one cup of water. If taken regularly, it reduces the weight of even the most
obese person. Also, drinking this mixture regularly does not allow the
fat to accumulate in the body even though theperson may eat a high
calorie diet.
CANCER:
Recent research in Japan and Australia has revealed that advanced cancer
of the stomach and bones have been cured successfully. Patients suffering
from these kinds of cancer should daily take one tablespoon of honey with
one teaspoon of cinnamon powder for one month three times a day.
FATIGUE:
Recent studies have shown that the sugar content of honey is more helpful
rather than! than being detrimental to the strength of the body.
Senior citizens, who take honey and cinnamon powder in equal parts, are
more alert and flexible. Dr. Milton, who has done research, says that a
half tablespoon of honey taken in a glass of water and sprinkled with
cinnamon powder, taken daily after brushing and in the afternoon at about
3:00 P.M when the vitality of the body starts to decrease, increases the
vitality of the body within a week.
BADBREATH:
People of South America, first thing in the morning, gargle with one
teaspoon of honey and cinnamon powder mixed in hot water, so their breath
stays fresh throughout the day.
HEARING LOSS:
Daily morning and night honey and cinnamon powder, taken in equal parts
restore hearing.
Remember when we were kids? We had toast with real butter and cinnamon
sprinkled on it!
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The Value of a #2 Pencil in a Catholic Education LOL
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Publié :17/3/2008 12h25
Dernière mise à jour :2/5/2024 5h44 4974 vues
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Little Mary Margaret was not the best student in Catholic School.
Usually she slept through the classes. One day her teacher, a Nun,
called on her while she was sleeping.
'Tell me, Mary Margaret, who created the universe?'
When Mary Margaret didn't stir, little Joey, who was her friend
sitting
behind her, took his pencil and jabbed her in the rear.
'God Almighty!' shouted Mary Margaret.
The Nun said, 'Very good,' and continued teaching her class.
A little later the Nun asked Mary Margaret, 'Who is our Lord and
Savior?' but Mary didn't stir from her slumber.
Once again, Joey came to her rescue and stuck Mary Margaret in the
butt.
'Jesus Christ!!!' shouted Mary Margaret.
The Nun once again said, 'Very good,' and Mary Margaret fell back
asleep.
The Nun asked her a third question, 'Mary Margaret, what did Eve say
to Adam after she had her twenty-third child?'
Again, Joey came to the rescue.
This time Mary Margaret jumped up and shouted, 'If you stick that
damn thing in me one more time, I'll break it in half!'
The nun fainted!
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U do the math LOL
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Publié :17/3/2008 12h22
Dernière mise à jour :17/3/2008 6h59 4953 vues
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A husband wrote the following letter for his wife and left
it on the dining room table:
"To My Dear Wife,
You will surely understand that I have certain needs that
you, being 64 years old, can no longer satisfy. I am very
happy with you, and I value you as a good wife. Therefore,
after reading this letter I hope you will not wrongly
interpret the fact that I will be spending the evening with
my 18-year-old secretary at the Comfort Inn Hotel.
Please don't be upset - I shall be back home before
midnight."
When the man came home late that night he found the
following letter on the dining room table:
"To My Dear Husband,
I received your letter and thank you for your honesty about
my being 64 years old. I would like to take this opportunity
to remind you that you are also 64 years old. As you know, I
am a math teacher at our local college.
I would like to inform you, that while you're at the
Comfort Inn, I will be at the Hotel Fiesta with Michael,
one of my students, who is also the assistant tennis coach.
He is young, virile, and like your secretary, he is 18 years
old. As a successful businessman with an excellent knowledge
of math, you will understand that we are in the same
situation, although with one small difference; 18 goes into
64 a lot more times than 64 goes into 18.
Therefore I will not be home until sometime tomorrow."
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Nature's Rx for Better Sex
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Publié :16/3/2008 11h48
Dernière mise à jour :17/3/2008 12h15 4997 vues
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Everyone wants great sex. But sometimes life gets in the way of
libido. Plans for passion are often derailed by a stressful workday
or a mounting list of chores. Enter Letha Hadady, L.Ac. (licensed
acupuncturist), a national expert in herbal remedies. She'll take you
around the world for European forest herbs and Himalayan oils that
will put more bounce in your bedsprings. Plus: Rate your sex drive…
Overworked and Under-sexed
We're hot-blooded, passionate beings. So why do you find yourself
saying "Not tonight, dear…" for the fifth time this week? If your
libido is limping toward the finish line, blame it on your busy
life. "After sitting at a computer and working all day, we just don't
feel like sex," explains Hadady. The same goes for homemakers swamped
with chores and errands.
Even if you do find the energy to get busy between the sheets, you
may find yourself halfheartedly going through the motions. What to
do? The secret may be simple relaxation. To truly enjoy
lovemaking, "you have to prepare yourself mentally and spiritually,"
says Hadady. And that doesn't just mean dimming the lights and
playing soft music. To really get in the mood, Hadady recommends
indulging all your senses, starting with your sense of smell.
Scent-Sational Sex
Aromatherapy oils will relax and rejuvenate you, not to mention make
your room smell delicious. Here are five of the most erotic:
1. Geranium
This herb, native to Africa, has undertones of fruit and mint.
It "stimulates adrenal energy, the driving force behind libido,"
explains Hadady. It revives the senses and reduces stress ‒ the
perfect antidote to a day in career overdrive.
2. Jasmine
Rich, exotic and honey-sweet, this oil evokes a "sensual southern
climate, like Mexico or San Diego," says Hadady. Found in France,
Egypt and India, it emanates a lush, sensual fragrance perfect for
massage oils.
3. Grapefruit
Grapefruit oil wakes up your senses and energizes you with its
refreshing and citrusy aroma, explains Hadady.
4. Cardamom
The spicy undertones of this Indian herb stimulate energy and help
relieve fatigue and depression, while the floral undertones make you
feel oh-so-alluring.
5. Clove
This native of tropical Asia is "a spicy aphrodisiac," says Hadady.
One whiff of its warm, fruity and sweet aroma will put lovin' on your
mind.
Admittedly, not everyone finds geranium arousing or grapefruit
energizing. What one person deems irresistible another may dismiss as
nauseating, Hadady notes. Before the big night, do a trial run. Dab
some oil on the inside of your wrists or behind your ears, and give
it a few minutes to settle. If you and your guy both like it, try
these suggestions for more sizzle in the sack (See related articles:
Keeping Things Hot After You Tie the Knot):
- Add a few drops of the oil to the final rinse of your nightgown and
sheets.
- Mix a little oil into unscented moisturizing lotion.
- Diffuse the scent through your bedroom with a vaporizer.
- Add a few drops to a warm bath for two.
Super Sexy Herbs
For more fun in the bedroom, Hadady also recommends herbal tonics ‒
concoctions of complementary herbs blended together.
While essential oils have an immediate, temporary effect on your
psyche, herbal tonics take longer to work and provide more permanent
benefits. "As you take them over time, you'll gradually notice their
benefits," Hadady explains.
Looking for sexual tonics? Try these five herbs:
1. Yohimbe
Derived from the bark of African evergreen trees, yohimbe has long
been used in fertility celebrations. Like Viagra, yohimbe dilates
blood vessels, which can help your guy overcome impotency, Hadady
explains. But don't let him hog this herb ‒ it also helps increase
the blood flow to your genitals and sharpens your senses ‒ an
aphrodisiac double whammy.
2. Ashwagandha
This Indian herb offers solace when you're "stressed, burned out and
exhausted," says Hadady. Its tranquilizing properties help you shrug
off the cares of the day and get in a sultry state of mind. And it
soothes tired, sore muscles so you can focus on other parts of your
body!
3. Shatavari
Commonly known as wild asparagus, this herb has been nicknamed "wife
with 1,000 husbands," but it works just as well for monogamous types.
Found in the jungles of India, shatavari is a moistening herb. Taking
it over time will give you more lubrication, making lovemaking more
comfortable, Hadady says.
4. Shilajit
A byproduct of coal, shilajit has been prized for centuries in India.
Like shatavari, it's a moistening herb and will not only benefit you
below the belt, but all over your entire body, rejuvenating hair,
skin and nails.
Bonus: It doubles as an anti-wrinkle and anti-aging treatment, Hadady
says.
5. Epimedium
Also known as horny goat weed, this hardy Asian herb allegedly earned
it name when a Chinese goat herder noticed his flock eating it then
mating enthusiastically. True to form, it boosts libido by increasing
the body's production of "feel-good" hormones like epinephrine,
serotonin and dopamine.
You can find many of these herbs at your local health foods store.
But remember: always consult your doctor before you begin any type of
supplementation regimen.
It's All You, Baby
While essential oils and herbal tonics can up your odds of a lusty
love life, the real solution lies with you. "Aphrodisiacs can help,
but it has to start with the mind," explains Hadady. "To get your
partner in the mood, you have to get in the mood first."
During lovemaking, she suggests you tune out the world and focus only
on the moment. "Visualize your body and pleasure," she says. The rest
will follow naturally.
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Anger management really does work.
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Publié :16/3/2008 11h32
Dernière mise à jour :16/3/2008 12h17 5109 vues
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When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to take
It out on someone, don't take it out on someone you know, take it out
on
Someone you don't know.
I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I'd forgotten
to make. I found the number and dialed it. A man answered, saying
"Hello."
I politely said, "This is Chris. Could I please speak with Robyn
Carter?"
Suddenly a manic voice yelled out in my ear "Get the right f***ing
number!" and the phone was slammed down on me. I couldn't believe that
anyone could be so rude. When I tracked down Robyn's correct number to
call her, I found th at I had accidentally transposed the last two
digits.
After hanging up with her, I decided to call the 'wrong' number again.
When the same guy answered the phone, I yelled "You're an asshole!"
and
hung up. I wrote his number down with the word 'asshole' next to it,
and put it in my desk drawer. Every couple of
weeks, when I was paying
bills or had a really bad day, I'd call him up and yell, "You're an
asshole!" It always cheered me up.
When Caller ID was introduced, I thought my therapeutic 'asshole'
calling would have to stop. So, I called his number and said, "Hi,
this
is John Smith from the telephone company. I'm calling to see if you're
familiar with our Caller ID Program?" He yelled "NO!" an slammed down
the phone. I quickly called him back and said, "That's because you're
an
asshole!" and I hung up.
One day I was at the store, getting ready to pull into a parking Spot.
Some guy in a black BMW cut me off and pulled into the spot I had
patiently waited for. I hit the horn and yelled that I'd been waiting
for that spot, but the idiot ignored me. I noticed a "For Sale" sign
in
his back window, so I wrote down his number.
A couple of days later, right after calling the first asshole (I had
his number on speed dial,) I thought that I'd better call the BMW
asshole, too.
I said, "Is this the man with the black BMW for sale?"
He said, "Yes, it is." I asked, "Can you tell me where I can see it?"
He said, "Yes, I live at 3 4 Oak Tree Blvd , in Fairfax . It's a
yellow
rambler, and the car's parked right out in front."
I asked, "What's your name?"
He said, "My name is Don Hansen,"
I asked, "When's a good time to catch you, Don?"
He said, "I'm home every evening after five."
I said, "Listen, Don, can I tell you something?"
He said, "Yes?"
I said, "Don, you're an asshole!"
Then I hung up, and added his number to my speed dial, too. Now, when
I
had a problem, I had two assholes to call.
Then I came up with an idea. I called asshole #1.
He said, "Hello."
I said, "You're an asshole!" (But I didn't hang up.)
He asked, "Are you still there?"
I said, "Yeah,"
He screamed, "Stop calling me,"
I said, "Make me,"
He asked, "Who are you?"
I said, "My name is Don Hansen."
He said, "Yeah? Where do you live?" I said, "Asshole, I live at 34
Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax, a yellow rambler, I have a black Beamer
parked
in front."
He said, "I'm coming over right now, Don. And you had better start
saying your prayers."
I said, "Yeah, like I'm really scared, asshole," and hung up.
Then I called Asshole #2.
He said, "Hello?"
I said, "Hello, asshole,"
He yelled, "If I ever find out who you are..." I said, "You'll what?"
He exclaimed, "I'll kick your ass,"
I answered, "Well, asshole, here's your chance. I'm coming over right
now."
Then I hung up and immediately called the police, saying that I lived
at 34 Oaktree Blvd , in Fairfax , and that I was on my way over there
to
kill my gay lover.
Then I called Channel 9 News about the gang war going down in Oaktree
Blvd. in Fairfax .
I quickly got into my car and headed over to Fairfax . I got there
just
in time to watch two assholes beating the crap out of each other in
front of six cop cars, an overhead news helicopter and surrounded by a
news crew.
NOW I feel much better. Anger management really does work.
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Top 10 Turn-Offs for Women
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Publié :12/3/2008 12h11
Dernière mise à jour :2/5/2024 5h44 5056 vues
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Have you considered turn-offs for women? Or do you tend to instantly
like or dislike a man without knowing why? There was a time when
women were predominately concerned with making themselves more
appealing to the opposite sex. But now that many women prefer to
choose instead of being chosen, their preferences demand attention.
Here are 10 turn-offs for women of all ages and stages of their
relationships.
1. Being Ignored
Being ignored is one of the main things that turn women off. From the
first day of a relationship until death, most women expect their
partners to be attentive. Most women judge how important they are to
their partner, by how much attention they receive when expressing
their concerns and opinions or when asking for advice.
When men act as though other things are more important or more
interesting, or when they casually dismiss something that is
important to a woman, they are setting the tone for a rocky, if not
short, relationship. And when men engage in the common ploy of
showing interest during the beginning stages of a relationship and
allowing it to dwindle as the relationship progresses, they usually
find that the woman's attraction for him takes a similar dive.
2. The Wannabe Big-Shot
Women are appalled by men who talk a big game knowing they do not
have the means to follow through. Almost every woman has encountered
the guy standing at the bar, bragging intentionally- loud so that
everyone can hear him. Or even worse, the guy who picks you up in a
rented BMW, pretending he is the owner.
Men often convince themselves that all women are after the guys with
the biggest and the best of everything. This becomes a motive for
those men to paint colorful and fictitious pictures of themselves.
But in reality, women find this behavior disgusting, so instead of
making themselves attractive, these guys become female turn-offs.
3. Self-Admiration
Some women get dinner and a movie. Other women get dinner and an
earful of self-admiration when they go out on a date with a guy. Men
who waste women's time by inviting them on dates so they can spend
the evening glorifying themselves are truly a bore. A woman sitting
across the table listening to her date gab about his university GPA,
his honors, the sports he played, his stellar performance at work,
and his new investment ideas is usually not impressed. She is
probably bored to death and hoping never to be sentenced to another
date with him.
4. Preoccupation with Sex
Whether it is a first date or a 10-year marriage, women do not want
to feel as though sex is all that men want from them.
During the beginning of relationships, most women do not want to hear
sexually explicit stories or comments and they do not care to discuss
their past performances. This proves true even when women are dressed
seductively and, ironically, even if they have had or are willing to
have a one-night stand.
In long-term relationships, women don't want men's interest to be
switched on when they are sexually aroused and switched off after
intimacy occurs. Most women want to be caressed, fondled,
complimented and otherwise shown affection and intimacy, even when
their partners are not seeking sexual gratification.
5. Chauvinism
Despite what women accomplish and contribute to society, there are
still men who act as if they are the superior sex. These men have
many ways of displaying their attitude. Some, for example, have a
belittling title for every woman. The cashier is little lady. The
waitress is darling. And the bartender is sweet cheeks.
Other men belittle women's efforts to perform what they believe to be
male tasks. For example, a man may say "this little lady cop pulled
me over and had the nerve to write me a ticket." Whatever the
chauvinist behavior, it never fails to be a turn-off for women.
6. Expecting the Woman to Take Care of the Kids
Some men have the misconception that motherhood is something that
comes naturally and that women want to devote their lives to child-
rearing. On the contrary, many women are as focused on their goals,
careers, and social lives as men and they prefer to share family
responsibilities. These women do not want to be left home feeding
babies and changing diapers while their partners maintain their
normal business and social lives. This is one of the female turn-offs
that takes a serious toll on a relationship.
7. Paying too Much Attention to Other Women
Men who look at other women, who talk about the physical attributes
of other women, or who are too flirtatious are not likely to appeal
to women.
It does not matter whether the woman is on TV or lying on a beach
virtually naked. Women like men who are respectful enough to pretend
they do not notice. Furthermore, when a man and woman go out and they
can barely make their way through a bar or club without the man
getting hugs, rubs, waves, and winks, the man is not likely to score
points with his date.
8. The Not-so-Courteous Approach
Whistling, using slang, or grabbing a woman's elbow to get her
attention are a few of the many things that turn women off when they
are approached by a man. Descent women expect men who are interested
in them to approach them thoughtfully and respectfully. Women always
prefer a gentleman.
9. Poor Grooming Habits
The appeal of sweaty athletes or grungy musicians proves the magic of
television and glossy magazines. In real life, women are not
generally attracted to wet bodies or the odors that accompany them. A
jogger who runs into the convenience store for a sports drink and
expects to get your phone number will probably get disappointed
instead.
Beyond basic hygiene, many women are calling for more. Recently a
radio talk show's topic was the double standard of appearance.
Most women who called in expressed displeasure and frustration at the
fact that men want sleek, gorgeous women, yet they do not take care
of themselves. Generally, men with pot bellies, dirty fingernails,
and disheveled hair are turn-offs for women.
10. Bad Pick-Up Lines
A sense of humor can be a great thing– when a guy is actually funny.
A good pickup line will leave a woman with a lasting impression. But
more often, women are exposed to guys who try so hard that they are
female turn-offs.
With many women, it is a one-shot deal. Lame pickup lines or bad
jokes will erase any opportunity a man may have of getting a date.
Other women may let a few bad jokes slide, but when men continue, a
woman's interest tends to diminish.
If your relationship is suffering and you don't know why, consider
these female turn-offs. If your partner is guilty of any of the above-
mentioned turn-offs for women and you don't know how to confront him,
perhaps you should leave this article where he will see it.
Are You Just Not That Into Him?
You've likely heard of the book titled He's Just Not That Into You,
but how are you feeling? Are you not that into him either? Many
people stay in relationships because they are convenient or
comfortable. Others don't even realize that they aren't all that into
each other. Some men are just meant to be friends. Do you know the
difference? Take this short quiz and find out whether you're into
him or not.
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