Ideal first meeting location  

nastytease4U 40F  
12318 messages
11/2/2018 7h32

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Ideal first meeting location

Here is an interesting question, what do you think is the best place to meet someone that you have chatted with on passion. While you are pondering the question, this would be a good time to post any meetings you have had, (good and bad)

My first meeting locals:

2 guys were invited over to our house
4 guys and one couple we met at a hotel room
1 couple we met at a dance club
a large number we met at a house party
coffee shop
movie theater
adult themed club or party
dance club
I have never met someone from AFF or similar site

maybejustrex4 51H  
2002 messages
11/2/2018 7h43

Back when Borders existed, getting a coffee there was a great first meet. In fact, on any given weekend night you could identify the guys waiting to meet someone new by the way they looked up every time the door opened.

listenharder 48H  
76 messages
11/2/2018 8h04

My default for any first meeting in almost any instance, not just here, is coffee shop. I'm always open to other suggestions.

It's a safe neutral location and if all else fails and the other person doesn't show, I had coffee therefore it's not a total loss.

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CleavageFan4U 61H  
52207 messages
11/2/2018 8h13

I've mostly met new ladies at local bar/restaurants, as the provide a nice place to chat and we don't need to worry if the discussions become a bit naughty.

Three favorite "meeting" memories, that don't follow the scenario above:

1. The VERY FIRST lady I ever met via A*F*F - It was a classic story of starts and stops / conflicting schedules. FINALLY one day she just told me to meet her at a local park. We did, and she immediately grabbed my hand and lead me down a walking trail. Very soon, she lead me off the trail, pulled out my cock, and sucked me off till I came, and gave me the "look I swallowed it all" view. I was "thinking - MAN, A*F*F is fun!!"

2. The third A*F*F lady I ever met just told me to get a room. She showed up and we were having sex within about 5 minutes.

3. A blogger lady I'd never met, invited me down to her ranch for a long weekend. For reasons STILL not clear to me, she told me to get a room at a local hotel for nights 1 + 2, after which we'd go stay at her ranch. The week before my visit was full of mutual speculation as to how long till we were nekkid after first meeting. I reset the clock a bit, but being nekkid when she showed up at the hotel room.

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Adultmindedguy 40H
5 messages
11/2/2018 8h27

Home worls best for me! Comfortable mot creepy and good place to fuck!!!

HollyChatsNJ 59T  
1190 messages
11/2/2018 8h28

Living in a shore resort area. I have it very easy to meet people. I just use the boardwalk to meet face to face.

I've been on passion on and off for about 6 years. I used to meet all the time.

What I look for now is so different than what it once was so I don't meet like I once did.

If I was still in my old ways. There is a perfect adult club here in Atlantic City called RolePlay.

Atlantic City, NJ

cyclingfool 56H  
5932 messages
11/2/2018 8h36

Much like Cleavage fan, I met a few off the old AOL chat rooms. Mom's online was a good one. Had a few instant connections if you know what I mean..
But mostly coffee or lunch meetings to start out.
Met one woman with her husband and played golf with them. Great time. Still friends today.

redrockrascal 59H
17652 messages
11/2/2018 9h10

I voted bar, but sports bars more specifically.

I've had about a dozen meets since I joined in 12/13. Most have ended up having sex in various places (hotel, park, their place, my place). Of those most led to multiple meetings. A couple became sort of regular things. A*F*Fs been good to me so far.

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Makeushake1 50H  
1 message
11/2/2018 9h14

I think that it is easier to meet in a public place that allows one on one interaction in order to establish expectations. Restaurants and coffee shops provides great environments with minimal distractions.

happytmes2 62H  
606 messages
11/2/2018 9h29

The first meet was at a restaurant bar. The second was at my home. Two more at Starbucks

AZBiGuy480 55H  
21 messages
11/2/2018 9h36

I have meet at a restaurant, bar, hotel, a party at a hotel, there house, and my house.

DoctorBooty 37H  
6108 messages
11/2/2018 10h04

I prefer to meet at a quieter bar the first time, after that a hotel is best.

funeye 34H
82 messages
11/2/2018 10h43

dance club.....

eager4unow 61H  
1427 messages
11/2/2018 14h17

I voted "coffee shop" but could have voted restaurant, mall, home or theater just as well...

TravelingMan524 66H  
226 messages
11/2/2018 19h06

Coffee shop, restaurant, or bar if she is shy.
Hotel of the chat has been hot or if in a hurry.

gooodloven2 64H
382 messages
11/2/2018 20h13

parking lot in front of restaurant or bar or at a park it is easy to see a car , so what do you drive .

tnt6969694 64H
27 messages
11/2/2018 23h09

I personally prefer the coffee shop as it offers a neutral - no pressure location.

quest4thrills00 53H/46F  
7 messages
12/2/2018 12h16

Most of the time we have met people at a restaurant. We did meet one guy at his hotel room.

21 messages
12/2/2018 10h06

House or Hotel would work best

fashionablegma 75F  
4859 messages
12/2/2018 10h33

Meet while out shopping,if I do not like,can get lost in crowds

submokey 63H/56F
10393 messages
12/2/2018 11h17

Always used to meet at a coffee shop, in public. Chat for awhile, to get a sense of them in person.

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bard1155 35H  
3 messages
12/2/2018 20h00

I voted mall, but that is because typically it gives options (food, movie, and general walking). Anywhere that is public and neutral is good. I want to make sure the person I am meeting is as comfortable as they can be. I mean, meeting someone for the first time in person is a stressful event in of itself. Why add additional stress with a place that implies expectations.

fadey66 54H
42 messages
12/2/2018 23h51

You have a beautiful body and I have a beautiful and wonderful rod that can meet with some add friend thank you

bisexualcharle69 54H  
266 messages
13/2/2018 5h12

all though it is nice meeting people from these sites. the best place for the first time is a hotel that way they don't know where u live. if things don't workout

OldrHarleyGuy 66H  
320 messages
13/2/2018 7h07

For myself, it's a restaurant or bar if it's her preference. Am not into jumping into anything real quick and gives both time to find out more about each other. I've had those that were "meet greet and lets go"!, sorry, is just not my thing, it takes me a little while to warm up and want to know more about someone before all that happens. I don't need to know a person's whole life story either, but it helps me define if that person is a good probable match or not, just to chat awhile and be as open as possible. I guess in this day and age that makes me somewhat old fashioned, but hey, that's who I am..
As for meeting here on this site, yes, have had 4 meets from over the past 2 yrs, all of which began pretty well, but ended in disaster because of the untold stories and misleading information found after the first several dates and it wasn't on my part, thankfully to say.

aniceride 47H  
69 messages
13/2/2018 8h33

my first meetings are always in public to make sure there is comfort can write or talk to someone till your blue in the face but you never really know until you actually meetings are always under the pretense of not jumping into to bed after two minutes lol.

hapamale 53H  
68 messages
13/2/2018 11h40

some kind of drink always help, even coffee.

Saranghae2 46F
205 messages
13/2/2018 11h46

i won't meet anyone indoors. i just simply prefer meeting other ppl outdoors instead... usually at a park.

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dessertgarden 48F  
24 messages
13/2/2018 12h29

My most favorite, still on-going, was at a local grocery store. Multi-tasking, it worked out wonderfully well I will forever look for avocados every time I step into a produce section!

camperdude_69 57H
2464 messages
13/2/2018 13h57

I think a coffee shop... for first meeting

tyrantcapri 45H
15 messages
13/2/2018 14h53

damn, anywhere where the clothes could be shed withing five minutes, I hate formal interactions, and I found the best way to get past that is with a good fuck, suddenly, its as if we've known each other for years.

Leegs2012 45H
31336 messages
13/2/2018 15h24

Usually meet at Bars or Sex Partys

temptationplus58 59F  
1043 messages
13/2/2018 18h26

I always meet in a public place.. that's just a no brainer. Safety first.

slowrider136911 57H
271 messages
13/2/2018 18h56

I like a coffee shop. Quick and easy. If it's a single girl, I'll do lunch as well. Couple would be coffee or maybe a bar. Pretty much a safe public place. Lot of flakes out there!

Cpllooking6671 51H/47F  
40 messages
13/2/2018 19h23

Our meets:
Wegman's cafefor coffee- 3 times all single guys
Dinner- 2 times with couples
Appetizers- 1 time couple, 1 single guy
Applebee's - 1 time couple

asslover9988 47H
124 messages
14/2/2018 8h50

hotels, bars , mall

WantUToWantMeToo 48H  
53 messages
14/2/2018 10h22

Safe, neutral and non threatening environment. At least you get a coffee if it doesn’t work out or she’s a no show. Lol

JohnInNebraska 58H
48 messages
14/2/2018 11h04

I met a couple at a bar which worked out great, In regards to the question I believe the best place is at a coffee shop, bar or somewhere in the public is the best places to meet.

4 messages
14/2/2018 12h31

for security reasons, I never at anyone homes or bars (no alcohol) ...I always meet in a more vanilla place like a coffee shop or somewhere where there are a lot of cameras and people. safety first.

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2Saltie2 61F  
145 messages
14/2/2018 14h21

In public. Never in his place or mine.

sexydad1167 50H  
1345 messages
14/2/2018 17h58

Most I have met at my place Either talked for a while first or I made dinner or we went right to the bedroom. I have met some out at a restaurant. Or Her place,

sanots123 52H/52F  
20 messages
15/2/2018 2h37

Of course, we meet only at a public place - restaurant, coffee shop, bar, park - anything.
Only once in Bangkok, we were invited directly into a condo for a group setting ------------- AND BOY, we did enjoy ourselves.

Ltnoman42 52H
62 messages
15/2/2018 5h43

the beach


PVJowe 58H/55F  
104 messages
15/2/2018 9h19

After being on passion for almost 15yrs I most always will arrange a Meet N Greet at a Bar.. I went to this system after being stood up way to many times and I would be left there sitting alone.. So now I arrange for 3-6 guys to meet me at some watering hole.. Those that show up and impress me I will arrange a playdate with.. Works much better than just 1 on 1..

fahiem2010 46H
10 messages
15/2/2018 13h19

\8b if your meeting don't go well I'm in Orwigsburg let's me.

GIdontknow_134 60H
260 messages
15/2/2018 15h29

Hi nasty:

I've met up with women (from online) at bars, restaurants, a pool hall, a coffee shop, a hotel, a mall, one woman's home, the home of a friend of a woman, Meet & Greets and probably a few other places that I'm forgetting. I think the most important thing is picking a place that satisfies her (and your) security needs. That tends to leave out meeting at your home.



nicelipss66 42F  
22477 messages
15/2/2018 19h24

I say Coffee Shop. cause if things don't click. still ok cause it won't take too long. and both can go on their way after that. short and simple.

But I have to say that I have met several members from this site at my my place. that is because I have talk to them some much over the blogs and talk to them over the phone that I felt comfortable to do so. but I always let my roommate know when someone is going to visit, that way he knows just in case. and sometimes he is here in his room just to make sure. but so far every meeting has been very pleasant.

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playtoy484 55H
103 messages
16/2/2018 9h11

The ones i have met have been right in there own bedroom...

josemariajo 56H  
104 messages
16/2/2018 17h21

mm wherever she want...tje mos important thing for me es to meet and get some sex...

EvelynJMN 59T
8 messages
16/2/2018 22h36

Always try to make it a public venue - bar/restaurant usually.

jayandkayforfun 40H/38F  
20 messages
16/2/2018 23h25

as a single man i have met 2 passion couples at there homes one female was naked as i walked in and the other was fully dressed but not for long and as for now as a couple we have not got to that point of meeting yet so cant answer

wincardium 55F  
2 messages
17/2/2018 12h01

I prefer meeting people in public for the first time. There's a great local bar that's near me and perfect for meeting people. I also like coffee shops and of course, Starbucks.

While I have done it twice, I just don't think it's a good idea for a female to meet a man she's never met for the first time in a hotel room. But that's me. Love, love, love passion!

McDawger 45H
45 messages
17/2/2018 4h25

I love to meet at a hotel...and fuck right away😘

Bmanus465 65H
31 messages
17/2/2018 17h42

My first meeting was in a parking lot in my car. She was very nervous as we went to a hotel room. We spent the time in the room with me kissing her and talking about what I would do to make her happy. We never had sex that da but for every week after that for two years I got a room and we fucked for four hours each time.

JXC2016 48H  
4 messages
17/2/2018 18h08

I picked the last person up in front of her house and we drove to a hotel. I can't host so picking her up and going to a hotel or staying at her place is okay with me.

nekkedcouple 57H/52F  
28 messages
18/2/2018 6h23

We usually meet at a bar. There have been several times when the guy doesn’t show up or he does and doesn’t look like his pictures, so it’s safer and easier to meet in public.

But we were at a hotel out of town on the last evening of a business trip/vacation this past Friday and we invited a guy over that we had chatted with online. He had sex with my wife for quite a while and then he left. We made love afterwards. Very erotic.

TongueRyder 47F  
4 messages
18/2/2018 8h09

Always meet at a coffee shop that also happens to be near some hotels. First meet, we chatted for about a month before deciding to meet at the coffee shop. Once we met, we chatted more, liked what we saw and decided to head over to the hotel. He was already fingering my pussy while we were on the elevator and once in the room , he walked me over to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind. Suffice it to say, we had a great time

One meet, was a guy who lived farther away. Again we chatted for about a month, decided to meet at a 1/2 way spot (park). Once we arrived, he came over to the drivers side, gave me a kiss and some flowers. We drove around in the park, me stroking his cock and he fingering my pussy until we decided to get a hotel room. Again, as soon as we entered the room, he led me to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind, he was some of the best oral ever! 10 tongues up for him, LOL

poullaki1982 36H
17 messages
18/2/2018 14h43

I met that woman from passion at a bar in Athens. But nothing more happened

sexybunny4love 51F
250 messages
18/2/2018 21h42

Mostly at restaurants - dinner first , then if we click, mmmmmmmmm lol

~ Dare to be different ~ sexybunny4love

DiscreetAffairPA 42H
157 messages
19/2/2018 6h31

Any place public. First, it gives the woman more safety and security. Second, it gives either or both of you a way to back out easily if you're not comfortable.

CedarsPrince 38H
610 messages
19/2/2018 7h17

I usually prefer a restaurant or a coffee shop. It's a public place so everyone feels comfortable. You also get to know how the person is by the way they eat and treat the staff.

fancy_legs 46F  
11 messages
19/2/2018 8h48

First meeting is a restaurant , somewhere that is public. Safe place. Try to get off the rush timing so you can actually hear the conversation without yelling over the sport bar places. Going to a restaurant gives you more time to have a conversation with that person. See if there is any interest or connection for anymore to follow.

oldman1973 69H/33F  
449 messages
19/2/2018 21h07

We only ever meet others, Men, couples with bifems and single bifems or groups at our home, we enjoy a few days of uninterrupted sex fun every time

RealGuy4u101 55H

19/2/2018 21h30

It all depends

shag46514 68H  
51 messages
22/2/2018 9h39

Coffee shop or local park is good for first meet. Her house is good too. I think the strangest place was a first meeting on a bench across from the local police station. She felt really safe there, but we moved on. Where ever the lady feels most comfortable works for me.

SummerDances 42H
20 messages
23/2/2018 16h32

Coffee shops or smoothie bars are where I have met most of my passion dates

cumboi65 66H  
912 messages
2/3/2018 6h18

I've had luck on passion and have always met at my home except for the occasional meet at his house.

Bagbag86 58H
4 messages
3/3/2018 2h49

I want one pussy one blow job. An get it right. I dont care if in the ladies room just do

Bagbag86 58H
4 messages
3/3/2018 3h02

Cum now damit

Baltofriendly 52H/49F  
12 messages
3/3/2018 7h28

For me it was the mall, very public and alot of places to sit and have a nice conversation and even get something to drink (coffee, coke)
It's also nice to go window shopping as you can walk around and talk about things you wanted to know or ask

AFFHW0000 57H  
26 messages
4/3/2018 17h54

I think that a coffee shop is a good safe place to meet; public and a good place to talk and get to know each other.

Iwanaliku2 56H  
42 messages
20/3/2018 6h42

First choice - Coffee shop... Second choice - bar.... It's all about her feeling safe until we feel the connection...

marcoskrumar 38H  
8 messages
23/3/2018 6h07

My first meeting locals
In side my car

lostboy4422 51H
24 messages
28/3/2018 11h17

First time was at a shopping center....worked out well...hotel was just next door

UrIceCreamMan69 64H
36 messages
12/4/2018 17h26

A restaurant with a hotel close by.

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