OK so we have struggled with this one for a while and want to understand all aspects of the kissing side of the lifestyle.
We fully understand everyone has rules and we fully respect the choices people make so this is NOT intended to be judgemental so please don't read it that way but we are trying to understand why kissing can be such a taboo for some people.
We ourselves enjoy kissing, we find it generates the sensual side and if we are going to share the most intimate moments of sexuality with people kissing is just a stop on the way to that journey. What we want to do is understand why people do put that side off limits sometimes.
We have come across all limitations and some we can understand and then other perplex us a) No kissing at all between the couples b) Kissing between the women allowed but not man to woman c) Kissing allowed but not on the lips (the ones on the face at least !! lol) d) Kissing allowed but only pecking type .. not sensual
What are people thoughts and can people help us understand the factors that influence them. We have met some fantastic couples and whilst we full respect all boundaries it does not mean we do not want to understand. Especially when the couple are full-swap anything goes except kissing ... we sometimes as we say get perplexed and I am sure people can help us with their views.