Monday 7/6
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Publié :6/7/2009 19h25
Dernière mise à jour :9/7/2009 9h53 1065 vues
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Just another Monday except I forgot to send out the newsletter on Friday so guess what - I had to get it out this morning. That meant that I had to be at work early(7am) and get it moving. It was composed and sent off by 8:30. Stupid me played Friday afternoon and it cost me this morning.
What else does our in-actions cost us? Each day our lives rush past us. Do we accomplish what we want to do or do we put it off until tomorrow - knowing that tomorrow will never come. The same can be said about sex and relations. If we want to connect why not do it today? Why not grab the one closest to you and give them a hug or a kiss? One of the sweet ladies that have posted here suggested that I start slow and build the relationship. Good advice but better would have included that it be done daily. Life is a constant passing of time and we should make the most of it. When you are doing the dirt nap dance it will be too late. Seize the day(or some latin phrase like that....LOL )!
RD
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Sunday the 5th
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Publié :5/7/2009 19h51
Dernière mise à jour :7/7/2009 4h23 1064 vues
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Well I felt like I had a fifth....LOL. We had neighbors over last night and the beer was flowing. There were not any fireworks(sexual or otherwise..damn-it) but the night air and the company was fun. Is everyone ready to get back to work?
I also started TaiChi at the YMCA. It is a set of formal steps and movements designed to raise the Chi in the body. With it should come greater calm and better health. Maybe I need to get the wife to go with me.
Today was the day that we were going to talk about sex, our marriage and our future. One of the ladies that read a prior blog said we should explore other types of sex. Well I took her advice and it proved to be good. The wife was finally(after 20+ years) able to give me a blow job. It was pretty good too. I wanted to reciprocate but she is still fighting the UTI. I promised 2 orgaisms next time.
We did discuss our marriage and we shall see. We talked of greater communications and to try to tear down the walls. I had already decided that I was going to stick around. No one should have to deal with medical problems alone. I just want to get along with her better. If that happens then I'm ok. If I need sex then I will find it else where with a fuck buddy(any ladies need one? LOL ).
I'm always interested in comments. Please leave positive and constructive post.
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The fourth!
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Publié :4/7/2009 21h26
Dernière mise à jour :29/5/2024 12h36 970 vues
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It was a good day. Heck any day off from work is a good day...LOL! It was too wet for outside work but owning a house has its own rewards. Like fixing the plumbing and other things. Yes My morning was greeted with an over flowing washing maching pipe. All over the floor and making a mess. Two hours later and hands full of crap the pipe is cleared and the washing machine waste water is flowing.
I don't know if I could be a plumber but the term laying pipe seems to be one they use a lot. What are your fav terms for doing the deed? I think that Shakespeare said it best when he called it the beast of 2 backs. That just says it all....LOL! Why not post what you call it and lets make a list.
RD
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Friday off from work
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Publié :3/7/2009 23h05
Dernière mise à jour :29/5/2024 12h36 971 vues
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Today was an wonderful day. Spent the better part of it running around town with a buddy. Lunch was at a burger place in North STL. We talked and laughed and enjoyed the day.
We also talked about my marriage and his gf. Its always interesting to get someone elses thoughts on your problems. The net results of our talks was that I need to hear the wife out, stick around to help her with her medical problems and find a friend. Looking around this site, there are lots of wonderful ladies that have husbands that dont care or dont make them feel wanted. Ladies, if that describes you then come on down. I would love to have a friend period. Sex would be great but not required. I miss the laughter I used to get when cutting up or telling a pun. Groans after a pun are accepted too....LOL! I guess what I'm trying to say is that you can never have too many friends and lady friends are to be loved and taken care of.
Everyone have a wonderful 4th and should start it out with a bang!(I warned you about the puns....LOL!)
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This will be a fun weekend
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Publié :2/7/2009 6h40
Dernière mise à jour :4/7/2009 5h05 1114 vues
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I wouldn't normally post this sort of thing but what the heck. A blog is meant to document parts/all of your life. The wife picked the night before Independence day weekend to discuss separating(it has the makings of a very bad pun). Last weekend we talked about no more sex due to her medical condition and last night she told me she couldn't stay with me if I was dating other women to have sex. The choice was that I could stay with her and be celibate or we go our own ways and I could find someone else. What a choice!? The discussion was polite, quiet and there was no finger pointing. Everyone involved took their share of the blame.
Sex has never been a big part of our marriage. Also, we are just roommates now - separate bedrooms and such. The lack of sex and the closeness it brings is what brought me here to start with. Random sex just isn't what I'm into but finding a friend with benefits seemed to be a good start. Sunday we are going to talk more.
Hope everyone has a great weekend. Should be wonderful weather.
Any comments?
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I'm doing my blog early today
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Publié :1/7/2009 6h52
Dernière mise à jour :29/5/2024 12h36 1056 vues
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Here's a story that I wrote a few years ago. I still want to go shoe shopping(or bra - you choose).....any takers?
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An Afternoon at the Mall
The parking lot was a real mess and I was in no mood; I was running late. No spaces, everyone cutting someone off and pedestrians under foot at every turn ‒ how the hell can I get the car parked. Anyway, I finally found a place and started to calm down. Once inside the mall it was a sea of people...noise, smells and shoes. Ah yes, shoes. There is something about women and their shoes. Have you ever noticed how a pair of 4in CFMP’s(Come Fuck Me Pumps) can change the looks of an ordinary female into that of a goddess. You could say I have a shoe/foot fetish. That why I work at a shoe store…Heaven!
I usually work the noon till 9pm shift. That way I don’t get stuck with the old ladies and their early morning bunions(YUCK!). Toes that have bumps and are twisted ‒ a perversion of Nature! No, I would much rather adore the shapely leg of a 45 to 55 year old lady. They have poise and grace while still oozing sex. The shift had just started and I was going over the new fall lineup when she walked in. I thought that I was going to gag…Pic-n-Pay shoes with a set of Armani legs. She sat down and pointed to a pair of brown flats. It grossed me out. I really wanted to run to the front and get the sleek blue open toed with a 3 inch heel and a slim silver strap. They matched her eyes as well as showing off the wonderful toes. I could just image them hiding in her JC Penny-bought-on-sales shoes.
OK, I took a deep breath, calmed down and got the brown shoes off the shelf. When I sat down on the stool and lifted her left foot to remove the shoe, I fell in love. The shape of her toes, the aroma of her leg and the sight of her calf were overwhelming. As the new shoe slid onto her foot, she lifted her knee to help slid her foot into the shoe. It was all I could do not to stare at her thigh. I could feel the room spinning. Suddenly I stood up. I had to get away from there to gain my composure. Somehow I managed to tell her that, in the back, there was another pair that would fit better. I would be just a second. Once out of sight, holding onto the stock room rack, all I could do was take deep breaths; in-out…in-out; and try to get my breath.
My head was finally clearing and I felt a hand on my shoulder. She had come into the back to see if I was all right. I told her that I was OK but she knew. As she sat down she put her hand on my shoulder and urged me to kneel. She placed her right foot into my left hand. I placed my trembling hand on her calf and removed the shoe. God, I just realized that she did not have hose on. I leaned forward and starting licking the inside of her foot. I moving from bottom to top and side to side, while she tilted her head back and let out a low moan. Each toe was attacked and sucked with a passion. One of her hands grabbed the back of my head. The other held on to the shelf with a grip that turned her hand white. I moved onto the next foot, moving my tongue between each toe. As I played with one foot she moved the other in a circle on the floor. The harder I licked the more she moaned and swirled. The more she moved the more I devoured. We fed on one another…faster and faster. She moaned, I sucked, and she swept her foot round and round. Finally she put both hand on the stool, arched her back and shook all over. She then went limp on my shoulder. It was all we could do to gulp air. Next thing I knew my head was in her lap and she was stroking my hair. Just another normal afternoon at the mall.
Would you like to try on some shoes and go for a lick?
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Another good day
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Publié :30/6/2009 19h58
Dernière mise à jour :19/9/2009 22h32 1078 vues
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Work went smoothly and I even had time to play on the net. Got a phone call that told me a lady didn't want to play because I was married. Oh well....better luck next time. I also sent out 4 or 5 emails. Its like fishing - trying to see what type of bait works. Any help or opinions? What do the ladies want to hear? I've been told they don't like overt emails and they do want ones that make them think. I think the lady doth protest too much. I'm beginning to believe that they want raunchy and told how they will be bedded - rough and hard or soft and long. Maybe I just need to change the bait. Any suggestions?
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Today is the first day of the rest of my life
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Publié :29/6/2009 19h46
Dernière mise à jour :12/10/2009 14h06 1066 vues
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This blog thing really makes you think about your life and what you are doing with it. Your wants, desires and experiences also come to mind. Today was like most any other day except I might have a date for Wed afternoon. We shall see.
I guess the subject for today is nooners. Who likes them and who doesn't. The ones I've had were all good if not great!
Anyone care to share their experiences?
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Sunday 2nd day
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Publié :28/6/2009 21h15
Dernière mise à jour :30/6/2009 17h31 1163 vues
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Today was spent deciding what to add to the profile and surfing the ladies. I also talked to a lady friend about what to post. Its always important to consult the fair sex. The main point she made was that a serious male doesn't do rude things like mail dick pictures. I understand the concept but do ladies protest too much? There has to be some that make them laugh and some that will just get an oh my! What should I do? My opinion is that to unwrap the present in the first email is just wrong. The unwrapping should be done in person.
Comments are welcome!
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First addition
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Publié :27/6/2009 22h17
Dernière mise à jour :12/10/2009 14h06 1229 vues
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This is my first entry. It might be boring but Im jumping back into the pool of men chasing the small number of available women here. My odds are even less because I'm married and that turns some of the ladies off. I'm here because I just found out that since my wife's immune system is poor(due to a kidney transplant) that we are not going to have intercourse again. Sex it seems causes UTI's(for her) and she is sick for 3 or more days. Just not worth risking the donated kidney.
So? Where does that leave me? I would be interested in any and all comments. I have decided that I need to find a lady friend and become really good friends...LOL.
We shall see.....
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