In just your average middle aged chic trying to get back in the dating scene. I am a former sexual energy healer and massage therapist but don't do that type of work anymore and took a break from the whole sex thing. I've been celebate for the most part and looking to reconnect with someone. I'm looking for more of an intellectual who can stimulate my mind which in turn stimulates other things. Just wanna have some fun. I don't just sleep around and would prefer connecting with someone on other levels. Although tidy is a sex sight I am interested in meeting new people and possibly making new friends as well .