Most guys never get to be an Alpha Male (also known as an Alpha Man). This is the kind of guy you see having the most fun, hanging out with the hottest women. The Alpha Male is the leader of the pack. He gets women and he gets what he wants because he's a dominant and respected man, with strong masculine self-confidence. The Alpha Man is NOT the aggressive guy who's pushing everyone around and being an arrogant jerk. You see, a "jerk" is really a guy who has taken all the "aloof" behaviors WAY too far. Alpha Men understand the balance and don't have to use brawn or aggressive behavior; now we have to use our brains. An Alpha Man is also not a "jerk" or a pushy, testosterone-driven meat-head. You're CONFIDENT and secure of your value, and because of this you can show more of your true self to women without fear. You can be more GENUINE. You don't need to try to buy a woman's affections, or compliment your way into her heart (which doesn't work, as I'm sure you now know.) The Alpha Man is also socially intelligent - knowing how to handle most situations with finesse and confident masculine leadership. [B]men who get the most out of life get the highest quality women[/B], get the most money, get the most success, get better jobs, get more sex and satisfaction overall than those men who are more like, say, the clerk at the convenience store, or the waiter at Denny's. These men have a certain dominance about them. Yes, they are assertive - even aggressive at times, but it's much more than that. These men have some special inner quality that allows them to be more confident, persistent, and generally get whatever they go after. They meet single women (the highest quality), attract women, and are able to keep them interested and sexually attracted on a deep and primal level.