I am searching for friends, fwb, and hookups when they present themselves. I am not only here for the sex. Although, sex can be really good. Prove me wrong or prove me right - BBC is best [COLOR indigo]Who I am, or what I am doesn't concern anyone but me. It doesn't concern my employer or co-workers. Nor does it concern my family or extended circle of family. It means nothing to my neighbors, or the people down the street. Why? More than likely, it is because "I" am not their business. When working, "I" am professional, and I sell the brand. That being said - I do my job the way it is intended to be done. Therefore, it doesn't matter to them, how long my hair is, or what my mannerisms appear to be... My inflections, are a representation of who I am as a per - Both professionally, and perally. My boss and extended network of managers don't give two shits about any of it. My family, has decided to go the long, very long haul with me - Through all of our life's ups and downs - We're in it together, because apart - Life just doesn't work. So what I wear, how I talk, or any name I prefer to be addressed by in my home is precisely how we do it... My extended family simply isn't concerned. Why? I don't give them an "in". They know about me. Yes, every single solitary one of them. What any have said, has rolled off of my back and settled on the ground beneath my feet... Exactly where negativity belongs. Neighbors and people down the street can suck an egg... Rather an Ostrich egg (the biggest they can find). I blend in, do my business, and carry on. Any negativity can again - Lay beneath my feet. I am who I am! I am proud of that, of the distance I have gone, and that which I endeavor to go. The only thing that can stop me is me... Please let the only thing that stops you from being you - That fabulous soul, who dares to be true to yourselves - Be you, and then rethink before you quit. Go until your breathing stops, and then fight for another lifetime. You all are deserving of your own happiness, and owe it to yourselves, and those around you, to keep going until you find that happiness. No need to quit after that - Only move on.[/COLOR]

Ma personne idéale : They handle me aggressively, and I will submit accordingly

It is early in the morning, and as I sit in front of my laptop, I feel as if I must write some thoughts and feelings down.

It has been a few years since I've been introduced to this site by a good friend of mine. Know that it doesn't matter who you are, or how you identify, regarding sexual preferences, or gender identity. We are all human, all quite capable of finding whatever it is that makes us both tick, and purr...

I love being me... Who am I? A girl, not a drag, not a queen. I don't identify as a queer, even though I love sex with both men and women. I would be more sexually active, if it were available. To keep it simple, I love sex! I am submissive, I prefer to be the lesser, slightly abused, and most often used. A total bottom, I do not prefer to have, nor would I ever endeavor to attempt to top a man... It's just not in my wiring.... Wiring... some say that those in the trans community, just aren't wired right. I find that to be total nonsense. Trans people are quite capable of having just as healthy a sexual appetite as anyone else.

I am absolutely attracted to women.
I am attracted to men, based on sexual contact only.

I have absolutely no need, want, nor wish to really have much contact with men, unless there is to be some form of sexual activity involved. That's just the way it is. I can and am always friendly, but I just don't relate to men. So, no offense intended - It's just not me. Women on the other hand, I love everything feminine. From nail polish to hair styles, clothing, shopping, flowers, patterns, nurturing, and etc...

Being submissive and how I feel about being with either male or female dominant partners or playmates:

With a male, he is proactive, determined, strong (mind and will), forceful with his hands, firm with his touch. He works well with rope, is trustworthy, and quite capable of taking me beyond my expectations and limitations, while also being absolutely knowledgeable of and well practiced at bringing one back into reality. He is absolutely respectful with regards to not crossing certain boundaries. I am a total bottom submissive with my male partner or playmate. Oral, anal, rough, hard sex... It is simply a must.

with a female things are a bit different. She is assertive, strong minded, independent, and has an insatiable appetite for being a leader. She surely is willing to experiment with me as her partner or playmate, and carries no misconception that sexually - She will be in control, that our sexual relationship will be an equal partnership, where trust in all things is key, and always adhered to. She is not afraid of tying, slapping, instructing, or dominating me in any way, shape, or form. She is forceful when the need arises. If that means being harder than normal - then so be it. She knows that my passion is penetration and pain. I am more than willing and able to switch the roles, to where I can be either dominant or submissive. However, submissiveness is my primary calling. With women, in a sexual manner, I feel more of an equal balance. Perhaps it is a part of the hidden masculinity in which I keep burrowed deep inside... Perhaps it is just a part of who I am. I feel more at ease being around females, therefore, I am able to open up and feel as if I have more free range. We relate more easily, so conversation and dialogue is always a plus.

Bottom line. Physically, I am incapable of maintaining a lasting erection. Coupled with the fact that I am a diagnosed Male to Female Transgender person, and my absolute preference for maintaining the female role of any relationship, an erection is for me is a pointless waste of time. With a top male, that matters very little, so on my behalf, there is little need to be concerned about it. Life is a double edged sword, however, and since I cannot maintain an erection, intercourse with a female is next to completely impossible. It has been nearly 6 years since I have had sexual contact with a female, and less time than that since I was last with a male.

In the role: I am the female, I am the submissive, at times humiliated, belittled, objectified, abused, used, and worn out. during a sexual session, it is not beyond the scope of reason that I may be called names, or that force may be used in order to ensure my compliance. Nipple and breast play are becoming something that I absolutely enjoy, so when it comes to finding something to work on with me - Go for the nipples. Breath play is an interest of mine, and choking during sexual play is an absolute turn on for me. One must remember, however, that trust is a must. I'm not certain yet about bag play, or smothering. Trust, surely must be completely established in order for me to give that part of me to anyone. There is no scat play. Absolutely not. Always and only age compliant!!! I do not play unless you are over 21, so don't even try it

On a good day, you may be able get me to say: "yes" I am transgender. After all, being transgender has nothing at all to do with one's sexual preference, but has everything to do with one's gender identity and expression. So please don't think for one moment that you can throw a bisexual, gay, lesbian or whatever "sexual" tag onto me. I does not work for me. I am just me, and I prefer what I prefer, when I prefer it. I dislike tags. I don't like being called a man. Moreover, I loathe it. Since Identifying who it is I truly am, being male is the last thing on earth that I would ever want to be... It just will not happen. I am working to enhance this body which has been given to me. In an effort to become that on the outside which matches with what is on the inside, I take my medication daily and bi-weekly. It will go on forever - The medication. Until I have physical changes made, and even then, medication must continue (only at lower doses).

Well, for now that is it. I know these thoughts are quite scattered, and may be a bit hard to read, follow, or even fathom... You should see me on a bad day... My mind is always running circles around and through life.

I'm a very nice and discrete person. Looking for new friends to connect with. I am a pre-op Male to Female Transgender woman. I don't live 100% in my preferred gender expression. But when I can, I do. Making connections here: I want to meet people who don't care about crossing the gender line. I am FB bisexual,Geralynn and Batywill try anything I was born a genetic male, but that doesn't stop me from pursuing my inner feminine qualities, and bringing them out. That person is a wonderful girl who has an awful lot of love to share for that right person. If you're interested in learning more about me, then maybe we can connect here, and start something wonderful.

Quels sont vos chanteurs ou groupes préférés ?:
Allman Bros. Band, Gov't Mule, Journey, Styx, Fleetwood
Mac, Tom Petty, Beatles, Bruce Springsteen

Quel est l'endroit qui vous fait fantasmer pour une rencontre sexuelle ?:
Un lit, La plage, Un véhicule mobile (c'est-à-dire une voiture), Au milieu d'un parc, Un avion, Une allée sombre, Un cinéma, Un endroit éloigné dans le désert, Sous une cascade, Mon bureau au boulot, Sur la pelouse de mes parents, Une piscine ou un jaccuzi, Une salle d'essayage d'un magasin, Un ascenseur, Une chambre d'hôtel, Partout

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral, Le sexe anal, Sado-masochisme, Jouets (vibrateurs/godemichés/etc.), Urolagnie (Sports nautiques/Urine), Annulingus, Fétiches, L'esclavage en douceur, L'esclavage dur, Cire de bougie., La fessée, Jeux de rôles, La partouze, Esclave/Maître, Travesti, Masturbation mutuelle, Jeu de la bouffe, Faire des "films" maison, Participer dans une photographie érotique, Voyeurisme, Menottes/Chaînes, Torture de la poitrine/des mamelons, serre-joint, etc., Bander les yeux, Cuir, Latex, Les coups de coings, Massage

Quels sont les facteurs importants lorsque vous recherchez un partenaire sexuel ?:
Expérience sexuelle, Attraction physique, Fétiches communs ou similaires, Expérience dans un rôle spécifique (soumis/dominant; esclave/maître), Discrétion, Participerait à sexe à trois et /ou orgies, Appétit sexuel, Volonté de discuter ouvertement et de tout essayer, En faveur d'une relation sexuelle libre et sans engagement, Niveau de créativité/perversité, Un peu de chaque

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J’ai souvent fait du cybersexe.

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