I have been on AFF for over than 20 years and I have met some wonderful people here over time. I needed to update my adult profile here to tell people exactly what I am looking for now -- and why. My name is Mike. My home is in Minnesota but I live currently in central Illinois in the St Louis area. I retired here after successive work opportunities and promoted here from a job in Ohio and before that in Tennessee. I also have a home in Kentucky handed down from my deceased parents. ~~ Please keep in mind: I have been on here since 2001! I now get to arrange my own "work and play" schedules. I love to travel a lot and I'm always interested in safe but absolutely wild times with others... perhaps YOU! I am D/D/S/C (covid) free, baby safe, and intending on remaining so. I am a straight man but I am what some friend labeled "bi-friendly". As you can see from my images and videos I have NO color, ethnicity, racial heritage, or size hang-ups. As long as you have working female parts and a working mouth and tongue, and you know how to use them, I am great with meeting and playing with you! I am first-most looking for women. I'm NOT bi or gay and while I have lots of friends who are so, I LOVE women and my bottom is "exit only". I'm NOT interested in "doing" guys butts and I've had anal with a very small number of females (6) over my lifetime. You should be able to carry on a conversation beyond what's under your pants or skirt or what you want under my pants. I love sex a LOT but its not my entire life nor do I want it to become my entire life. I write (go figure) lots of short stories, read books, and watch my share (and maybe yours too) of television. I'm a newshound. We should be able to find things to talk about. You should be serious about meeting me face to face within two weeks of email or talking over the phone with me. I made a good living by responding to a lot of queries from the public. So if you're not serious about meeting me in person to plan our first "sex" or "coffee" date please move on -- You're wasting my time, you're just using me to finger or play with yourself or you're fake/lying. You should have a FACE pic posted. Yeah yeah we all care about our privacy we all have jobs blah blah blah. Post a face pic -- I cant use your explicit pics to find you at a coffee shop or restaurant! Mine are shown and they are recent. You should do the same. WARNING Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects -- you or your agents or representatives do NOT have my permission to use any of this profile, images, or videos. If you have or done so, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. I recommend that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. I eventually want to get married again. I came close several times. I've been divorced for well over 20 years now. What I am looking for and want is a best friend I can sleep with, make love to, have sex over and over until we are exhausted or have to to go to work (and there's a difference between 'making love' and 'having sex'), travel with, chill, and live with. I want someone who has her own life and not waiting for me to entertain her or to tell her what we are going to do. I need someone who is just as comfy in a pair of jeans or pants and a crop top as she would be in a full-length dress or a skirt and nice top. I dress for the occasion and if there's not one sometimes I don't dress! *grinning* I am looking for someone who wants to try some new things, comfortable with things she knows and does, and willing to meet friends from all stripes of Americana. I am looking for someone who says "fuck" as in "fuck me please" without being prompted or thinking that is what "he wants me to say". I would love a woman who is just as comfortable in a church, a school, a civic center during a concert, a hockey stadium, a basketball arena, as she is in her own home. She needs to root for the "home" or "away" team depending on her allegiance to the team. Someone who can laugh at stupid shit I or she does; someone who I can learn to and eventually trust with my heart and my life because it will come down to it. All of the sex in the world wont fix it. Someone who is willing to hold me, love me, and when the time comes to let me go. I will do the same four times over for the right woman. She will know that although I have other female friends, that she is the one I want to live out the rest of my earthly life with. Must be a smartass, use sarcasm, and appropriate adult language. Nudity may be required from time to time. A daily blow job or allowing me to eat her pussy until she cums is negotiable *smiling*. In all seriousness, I am looking for a female "me" -- a serious person with their own life who wants a companion, tease, smart aleck, mate, lover -- FRIEND.

Ma personne idéale : I love red hair, freckles, short hair, and someone who can string together a coherent conversation. You know life isn't just sex. I also would like to meet someone who can think and act on their own.

Couples are GREAT to meet and be with as long as I meet BOTH HALVES of the couple before we play. Not that I don't trust that you have a female mate but I've been burnt several times from guys who say "oh she couldn't come" only to find out that "she" exists only in the mind or photos of the guy.

I don't care how large or small you are, your skin tone or color, or where you come from -- just that you're clean, honest, and upfront about what you need and want. I'll be the same.

Parlez de l'un de vos fantasmes préférés. Lâchez-vous !:
Having two women with me, one sucking or fucking me; the
other allowing me lick and eat her cunt and clit; and the
two swapping out. Wait. That DID happen at a party I went in Wisconsin. I
guess I really don't have any fantasies because I've been able do them over time...some twice! *smiling*

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral

Quels sont les facteurs importants lorsque vous recherchez un partenaire sexuel ?:
Expérience sexuelle, adaptibility

Avez-vous déjà fantasmé sur une célébrité ? Qui ? Qu'est-ce qui vous excitait ?:
celebrities: - Sally Field. I've loved and lusted for her since the 60s. I want just meet her, have dinner with her and have
sex with her. - Jamie Lee Curtis. She is just so smoking hot !! I want
just have sex with this women in so many different positions
over a weekend! She would have have her short hair however...*smiling*
<br><br>
- Sara Eisen (Bloomberg News anchor who was caught ramming
herself with a black dildo about my size... air...).
She got in a lot of trouble for it...but she's still Bloomberg!
If she can take that, I am SURE that she can take (and probably
several other men here too, but talking me here...*smiling*)

Avez-vous déjà fait du cybersexe  ?:
J’ai essayé, mais ce n’est vraiment pas la même chose.

Voir plus de réponse de mikecandey