I am a good friend. I believe honesty and trust are about as important as can be, in EVERY context, from matrimony to no strings attached. I do NOT believe in cheating and will not abide it. Trust is essential to our lifestyle. I WISH i could show my face, but I am a professional and appreciate the same discretion needed in connections. I am not beautiful, nor am i hideous. I am single and maybe now perhaps looking for someone who is as faithful as adventurous as i am for long term after a self imposed hiatus. I enjoy casual and 3 somes. I have experience with straight mfm. I am obsessed with passable transsexuals and have had a couple wonderful experiences with both cases. I have been done with jealousy for 20 years+ and life is so much better without it. I ONLY play safe with condoms. I am not attracted to men, but can be flexible in group settings with the right couple. Once again, trust and honesty and of course, chemistry is important in my flexibility. I do NOT enjoy cuck or humiliation or anything of the genre; only respect, empowerment, and mutual enjoyment and that is non negotiable. If it is not safe, fun and enjoyable to all parties, I am not interested As far as preferences, I wish I was attracted to BBWs or larger folks but I am not. I say this upfront to not hurt any feelings later. A couple of pounds is not a problem, as I am no waif. Dozens of pounds are a problem for me. Please be at least somewhat fit or naturally slender. I am real, I am serious, and I will meet if it is right for us to meet. I prefer initial meetings in public to make sure the chemistry is right and we ALL feel safe, but I have been known to meet spur of the moment impulsively from time to time. Not always, but I have. I do STRICTLY enforce security standards in such meetings, so be aware of that. I don't exactly have a huge dick or the body of Adonis, and hair grows in places that I wish that it didn't, but I am a very capable and active partner that you might enjoy knowing. I don't ask for perfection, and hope you don't expect it in me. I am seeking to actually DATE (lets hang out more than once) single women, secure couples, or male to female pre-op trans-gendered tops/vers. I am certainly OK with 1 night stands, but at this stage in my life, I prefer to fully explore my romances over the course of time. I prefer tempting teaser meals to the all you can eat buffet... I really enjoy 3 somes, double penetrations and videos. I love massage, cuddling, smooching, and enjoying the pleasure of each others company (my ears are a weakness for me). sensuality and sexuality are very closely intertwined with me and I prefer the same in partners. I am a geek, so it is quite unlikely we will share broad interests, but I bet we can be comfortable enough naked to overcome lack of social references. Once again, I ONLY play safe. Meth users need not apply (i can not be around meth in any way). Weed, booze, and appropriate hallucinogens are fine, in moderation and controlled. Meth is not. At all. Please don't even contact me if meth is a part of your life. Thank you.

Ma personne idéale : Alive and living and willing to exist.

Slender is good. Intelligent is better. Strong is best.

Single gentlemen who wish to contact me, thank you but no thanks.

Bicurious is not exactly where I am; I am heteroflexible.

I am NOT attracted to masculinity. I am attracted to femininity. In the correct context, I can enjoy the company of a penis, but there will be femininity involved, whether it be a transgender girl who lives her life as a woman and happens to have a penis, or a "conventional" male/female couple where the woman is involved with a more unconventional coupling experience for us all, I am open an generally Ok with it.

That doesn't mean that I want to meet a single man under any circumstances.

I have been polite in my responses, even finding a guy whose response to my polite rejection was awesome enough where I might want to hang out with him once in a while for a few beers because he was definitely friend worthy

I am cool with that and it has never been a problem.

Recently, however, some "gentleman" are ignoring what I am saying and trying to assure me that I don't know what I am missing or that I just need to be taught well or that my polite rejection never happened so more dick pics are in order

So, unfortunately to the more polite gentleman who inccocently think I am actually curious and they will satisfy my curiosity, tonight, right now, please don't message me. I am NOT interested in solo man to man interaction.

I have tried to be polite and most guys are cool with that. SOME of you, however, are obnoxious, so I am adding this as part of my profile so that if you, as a solo male, message me to hit on me, I am going to ignore it because you should have known better in the first place by the basic act of reading my profile.

Those of you who were actually polite and quite cool, please don't think this has anything to do with you. It is those other douche bags. Sorry for this rant, but this seems to be an unintended consequence of allowing non paying members to message me.

Quel est l'endroit qui vous fait fantasmer pour une rencontre sexuelle ?:
Les montagnes russes

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral, Recevoir le sexe oral, Le sexe anal, Jouets (vibrateurs/godemichés/etc.), La partouze, Masturbation mutuelle, Faire des "films" maison, Participer dans une photographie érotique, Voyeurisme

Quels sont les facteurs importants lorsque vous recherchez un partenaire sexuel ?:
Attraction physique, Fétiches communs ou similaires, Discrétion, Participerait à sexe à trois et /ou orgies, Appétit sexuel, Volonté de discuter ouvertement et de tout essayer, En faveur d'une relation sexuelle libre et sans engagement, Niveau de créativité/perversité, Un peu de chaque

Avez-vous déjà fait du cybersexe  ?:
Pas question, pas de virtuel que du réel pour moi.

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