Recently moved back to the area and I am looking for some fun!!!

Ma personne idéale : Recently moved back to Indianapolis and am looking for women or couples to have fun with. I am married and need discretion. I always work around my wife's work schedule and may not always have hours and hours for fun. Of course there will be times that with planning I will have more time than we need. I am looking for a friend with benefits for all types of fun my only rule is no pain. I love taking control but can be the third wheel to help you satisfy the wife. I am no Ken doll but prefer my connections to be with people who are height and weight proportionate or close to it. Also (as if I should even have to say this) please be drug and disease free. 420 friendly but besides that not interested. In my mid 30's and would like a lady 25-40 and race is no issue. I am educated and funny and own my own business so I would prefer someone who can carry on a conversation. Please be clean and hygienic (again I feel that goes without saying) because I am and expect no less. I am not into going back and forth with a ton of emails and am serious about meeting people for fun.