[bling 202082][bling 202600][bling 202017][bling 202013] [SIZE 3]Hello, I am an older [B][COLOR darkred]white [/COLOR][/B]lady, been married for many years. My husband (who is white, straight) loves it when I invite single [B][COLOR darkblue]black men[/COLOR][/B] to meet me. He doesn't participate but does enjoy watching me occasionally. [/SIZE] [br][br] Special Note: My husband has begun writing explicit erotic stories which are available online at major book and eBook sellers. If you do a search for this book, you will find his works: "Brenda Bailey Cunningham's Ankle Bracelet" That one is about a woman who thought BBC was her initials. She found out quick what a BBC Bracelet really means. I prefer be treated more like a [B]single lady [/B]rather than a part of a couple where the woman is 'available'. So, when contacting her, don't just assume it is all about sex. She is interested in building relationships with her male friends where actual feelings develop. Of course, not everyone is going to work out as the love of her life... but she likes being approached and courted somewhat. Romance is what she seeks. She can get off with a fucking dildo. If you like Carol... don't just try to be her Dildo of the Night. [br] The perfect scenario: [page 1] [B][COLOR purple]I have included women to the list of people I wish to meet. Let me add that I am only passively bi-sexual. However, I would love to meet local ladies who are into some of the things I am into. I am also interested in meeting couples for female / male / female encounters.[/COLOR][/B] [B]Here is a big tip for you... people who contact me... if you haven't read our profile and at least some of our blog entries... you're starting out with 2 strikes against you. Find out who I am, my likes and dislikes. Then you will have a better idea if your wasting our time as well as yours.[/B] [B]Special note:[/B] [COLOR purple]I have a blog [blog whitewhife4black] that my husband has been posting to. You will find a variety of additional information about me and there are several polls included that we can have some fun with. Be sure and visit it.[/COLOR] I enjoy entertaining in my home and I also love it when a gentleman asks me out on a date to go listen to music and dance. Dinners and movies are fun, bowling, whatever! I especially enjoy being invited out to enjoy things that maybe I don't do myself all the time. Or, maybe we can just talk a walk at the mall and Window shop. You decide! I work a really weird schedule (in a resturant) so my days off and shift hours vary every week. In fact, I can never make plans beyond the next coming Friday because I won't know my schedule until Thursday night. I can meet sometimes during the day when my husband is at work however I typically prefer that at least my initial meeting with someone is when he can meet and get to know us both. My husband is very active in helping me the lifestyle and in fact usually does all the computer side stuff (chatting, email, etc) for me. I much prefer to talk to my guys over the phone (or in per). If there is one major piece of advice I can offer, it is to have patients when trying to hook up with me. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for many years and although I do like variety in my life... I already have a number of very close friends who I see now and then and sometimes, you have to go out of your way and make sure they are taken care of. As to what I am into... well, first off, although I am not 'exclusive' to black men... if your not black... your chances are slim.[B] Opps... change that... let's just say I am 99.9% exclusive to black. [/B]I love the skin contrast and I love the way 'most' black men treat me and respect my permenent relationship with my husband. I'm [B][COLOR red]not into anal[/COLOR][/B] so don't even bring it up. I'm not a BBW but certainly not a Barbie either. I'm ok with oral but I don't like making a night of just that. If I have a passion, it is full body massage. I love getting them and like to recipricate back. Frankly, some of my favorite times in the lifestyle is when my husband and I are setting around watching television, and I have a friend over and I'm getting a foot massage during the show. My husband doesn't participate usually... he enjoys watching or at least hearing about my activities later. He says he found out he loved seeing me receive pleasure so long ago he forgot when it was. We are real people and probably some of you on this web site already know us. The one thing I will stress is that being a no-show is a great way to get totally off our 'possibles' list permenantly. No-shows and fakes are by far the worst thing in this lifestyle. It especially makes it hard on the single guys to meet single ladies and willing wives or couples. I know, some ladies and couples are also fakes and no-show 'regulars' but that's not us. We rarely travel so if you are beyond maybe 35 miles of us... be prepared to come here. Also, if you are more than an hour by car from us... with today's gas prices and just the cost of time itself... you may find me a bit reluctant to schedule. I've found that 95% of people at 100 miles or more will be no-shows. And, with my work schedule and the conflicting schedule of my husband... I can't afford to make plans with someone and have them bum out on us. [B][COLOR darkblue]Feel free to ask us any questions you might have or suggest fantasies. Nothing is taboo to ask. [/COLOR][/B] One of my all time fantasies was to recently experienced which was to have an experience in the sleeper cab of a big rig. Carol:D: [bling 105556] [bling 296095][bling 296093][bling 296094][bling 296097][bling 296095][bling 296100][bling 296094][bling 296097]

Ma personne idéale : Ideal person?



Well, I would say it would be someone who lives close by, is black of course, single, maybe 38 to 60... who would enjoy a quiet evening setting around visiting with my husband and I regardless if we have sex.

I am also somewhat turned on when my guy has a preference for white ladies such as myself.

This person should be a master at giving massage and loves to give me full body and foot massages.

My husband says that he should be someone who is not afraid or shy to give me affection... both in public and when we are just chilling. And that he should understand that we are 100% sure in our relationship and that this lifestyle simply gives us the freedom to have good times with other.

He should also be someone who wants more than just coming over now and then for a quickie. I like to get out and do things and go places.

I like to be treated like a single lady (most of the time) but my guys need to understand that this is a friends with benefits thing for us. I have no plans to change husbands,

I like to be seduced! I'd rather that a man who meets me come to the table with seduction in mind rather than thinking he is simply guaranteed to 'get me'.

Parlez de l'un de vos fantasmes préférés. Lâchez-vous !:
Here are two... in the back of a limo having sex while being
driven around town. Second, on the beach but it would need
to be private. Not really into public sex. <br><br>
Recently had a long term fantasy realized and that was to
do it in the sleeper cab of an 18 wheeler.

Quel est l'endroit qui vous fait fantasmer pour une rencontre sexuelle ?:
La plage, Une piscine ou un jaccuzi, Partout

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral, Recevoir le sexe oral, Jeux de rôles, La partouze, Faire des "films" maison, Participer dans une photographie érotique, Voyeurisme, Bander les yeux, Massage

Avez-vous déjà fantasmé sur une célébrité ? Qui ? Qu'est-ce qui vous excitait ?:
Who hasn't... Denzil maybe?

Avez-vous déjà fait du cybersexe  ?:
Pas question, pas de virtuel que du réel pour moi.

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